{"id":28517,"date":"2023-11-17T14:32:36","date_gmt":"2023-11-17T14:32:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=28517"},"modified":"2023-11-17T14:32:37","modified_gmt":"2023-11-17T14:32:37","slug":"what-type-of-lube-should-i-use","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-type-of-lube-should-i-use\/","title":{"rendered":"What Type of Lube Should I Use?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Lube is a sex essential, but do you know how to choose the correct one for you? Let us take you through the different lubricants, their pros and cons and when to use each type for the best results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What are you waiting for? Slide on down to read more\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Water-Based Lube<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It’s probably the lube you’ve got in your drawer right now! Water-based is generally everyone’s go-to because of its affordability and availability. It can be used with any <\/strong>toy or condom without fear of damage (unlike other lubricants), and it’s one of the best options for those with sensitive skin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, they’re nicely moisturising, most like your natural lubrication, and the water-soluble formula is really easy to clean up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That being said… Water-based lube isn’t perfect. As they absorb very easily into the skin, they can dry out, so you’ll need to reapply or rehydrate with a little water. Not too much though, or you’ll wash it off!<\/p>\n\n\n

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Slip N’ Slide Aqua Water-Based Lubricant<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pros<\/th>Cons<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
Fantastic All-Rounder – Works with all sex toys and condoms! <\/td>Needs reapplication – Your skin absorbs water-soluble formula<\/td><\/tr>
Easily available in shops and the most affordable<\/td>Can’t be used for water-based sex, e.g. pools, shower, as it washes away<\/td><\/tr>
Easy to clean up – Water-soluble formulas are a breeze to wash away<\/td>Becomes sticky over time – reapply or add water to rehydrate<\/td><\/tr>
Great for sensitive skin – Most formulas are pH balanced, so shouldn’t cause irritation<\/td><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

When to use: <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Any and all sex! This lube works for pretty much all solo and couples’ play, especially if toys are involved – Just consider if you need more glide and if you’ll need to reapply before reaching for this lubricant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Silicone Lube<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Though of as the longest-lasting lube on the market, silicone lubricant is super slick with an almost oily consistency. It’s perfect for anal play because it won’t dry out and is compatible with all condoms and most <\/em>sex toys. Considered hypoallergenic, it’s actually the one to go for if you’re worried about irritation or sensitivity to ingredients. Unless you’re sensitive to silicone, obviously!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It seems paradoxical (maybe just to this writer<\/em>), but silicone lube is not for silicone toys; That’s basically the one thing you shouldn’t use it with! The two can react together and cause long-term deterioration to your much-loved toys – if in doubt, just grab water-based. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Clean-up is a lot harder with silicone because it’s not water-soluble, which is great during sex, just not so fun for afterwards. It will shift, but it does need elbow grease to remove. <\/p>\n\n\n

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Bondara Silicone Luxury Lubricant<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pros<\/th>Cons<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
Super long-lasting – You don’t need to use loads, and you can reapply much less frequently<\/td>Not compatible with your silicone sex toys – can cause long-term deterioration<\/td><\/tr>
Slick and thick – the texture of this lube is ideal for anal newbies<\/td>Formula isn’t water-soluble – Makes it more likely to stain as it’s harder to clean up<\/td><\/tr>
100% Waterproof – Doesn’t wash away as easily, so it’s ideal for sexy showers and pool parties<\/td><\/td><\/tr>
Hypoallergenic – Good for most skin types and least likely to cause irritation<\/td><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

When to use:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Any and all sex – Silicone can be used for anything, including water-based activities like shower sex. Just keep it away from silicone sex toys!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Hybrid Lube<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You’ve read about water and silicone-based lubes… Well, this is the combination of both! Hybrid lubes tend to have a majority water base with a varying percentage of silicone added. This makes them longer-lasting and much more slippery but still just as hydrating as a water-based lube. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It becomes sticky, just like water bases, but it takes much longer and is reactivated with a splash of water. Plus, some brands claim they’re safe for use with all toys, but because there’s silicone in the mix, it’s always worth spot-checking with your silicone toys.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Lubido Hybrid Lubricant<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pros<\/th>Cons<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
Best of Both Worlds – The hydration of water-based with the slip and longevity of silicone-based<\/td>Silicone in the mix CAN cause deterioration with silicone toys, but it depends on the formula – spot-check before diving in!<\/td><\/tr>
Generally more affordable than silicone-based lube<\/td>Become sticky like water-based lubes but takes much longer<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

When to use: <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Whenever you want the best of both. It has all the same uses as water-based and silicone-based lubes, so is fab for all kinds of sex. Just spot-check with silicone toys!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Anal Lube<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, so if you’re going to explore your back door, use lube! Anal lubricants are designed to be thicker, long-lasting and provide a fantastic glide. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They can be water or silicone-based, affecting how they behave, so figure out what you want first. Silicone reduces friction for smooth stimulation, whereas water will hydrate the skin for better elasticity. Both make the experience more comfortable! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you’re already a bum fun expert, and you’re looking to delve deeper… Well, it’s essential to know that fisting lubes<\/a> are slightly different to standard anal lubricants. Fisting lubes have a more jelly-like, scoopable texture which is excellent to apply to larger insertables (like your fist<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n