{"id":28510,"date":"2023-09-21T15:22:13","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T14:22:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=28510"},"modified":"2024-08-14T12:48:00","modified_gmt":"2024-08-14T11:48:00","slug":"threesomes-group-play-poly-oh-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/spotlight\/threesomes-group-play-poly-oh-my\/","title":{"rendered":"Threesomes, Group Play & Poly Oh My!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Threesomes \u2013 sharing the love or three’s a crowd? 1-in-5 relationships have invited another person into the bedroom, and even the Romans were fantasising about threesomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, if a m\u00e9nage \u00e0 trois is on your menu, read on for some bisexual-approved toy recommendations and make sure everyone gets a helping of pleasure…<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

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You’re not alone if you’ve ever wondered about sex with more than one person. It’s not just a male fantasy, either! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, we can’t help you find that extra person or group, but we can give you some top toy tips to help make encounters as pleasurable as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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For Her<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It’s tempting to crack out a vibrator<\/a>, but don’t reach for the tried and trusty rabbit<\/a> just yet! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A clitoral vibrator<\/a> delivers direct stimulation to clits and nips, but its ability to tease and titillate is where these fun-sized toys shine. Nestled in the palm of your hand and trailed all over the body, the Dirty Digits<\/a><\/em> is adaptable when it comes to pleasing multiple partners, ensuring satisfaction is fairly shared without wearing out your wrist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, worn as a panty vibe, you can arouse yourself during a date or on the way to a swingers’ party, all before anyone takes off their clothes!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Clitoral Vibrators<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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For Him<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Concerns about stamina are common, even with a single partner. So, you can imagine how pleasing two or more partners may be intimidating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cock rings<\/a> are a low-tech, low-cost solution. These stretchy rings of silicone keep blood in your erection, making it fuller, more sensitive, and <\/em>last for longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After a little practice, with a set like the Sex Marathon<\/a><\/em>, you can wear more than one for increased effect – just don’t overdo it, and don’t wear them for longer than 20-30 minutes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Classic Cock Rings<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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Polyamor-what? <\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Have you heard of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)<\/a>? ENM is an umbrella term for relationships, serious and casual, with more than two people involved. It’s not the same as cheating, as it requires <\/strong>consent from everyone involved!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Someone who is polyamorous<\/a> (i.e. desires romantic relationships, not just sex, with more than one partner) may have an ethically non-monogamous relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s all about the three C’s<\/a>: communication, consideration, and consent!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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The Infinity Heart is a widely used symbol for polyamory<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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For Them<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Much like polycules<\/a>, there’s massive variation when it comes to strap-ons<\/a>. If you’re passionate about penetration, they’re definitely the sex accessory to keep as an option. Plus, if you own a dildo<\/a> with a suction base, it will probably fit a harness with the right O-ring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Little, large, vibrating<\/a> ones, hollow<\/a> ones which can support a soft penis; insertable strapless double strap-ons<\/a> so the giver\/top is penetrated at the same time; double penetration<\/a> ones that can penetrate two holes or two people (with practice) at once – the limit is your imagination!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Strap-On Harnesses<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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For Us<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Speaking of versatility, don’t forget there are specifically designed sex toys for couples<\/a>. Yes, all<\/em> toys can be used by couples, but these toys have been made with multiple uses in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take the Double Joy<\/a><\/em>, for example, with it’s powerful vibrations and three motors! On one end, there is a stimulation ring studded with texture for targeted nip, clit, and dick sensations. While the other end is perfect for penetration, both vaginally and anally, with a curved design to excite the prostate or G-spot. We counted at least 16 different ways to use it. Can you think of more?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Couples Vibrators<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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Threesomes A Plenty<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Amongst swingers and other couples seeking a third, there stalks a mythical creature… the unicorn! Unicorn, in this context, means a single bisexual person, often female. They’re described as such due to the rarity of finding them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don’t have to put ads in the classifieds anymore; apps like 3Somer<\/a> and Feeld<\/a> allow open-minded couples to connect with curious singles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if you can’t find a third, you could always replicate yourself or your lover with a clone kit<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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So, have you had your curiosity piqued? There’s a world of pleasurable possibilities out there, as long as you’ve got enough bed space. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t forget, if you’re hooking up with someone new, take precautions to protect yourself and your partner. If you need a refresher on the basics, check out our post where we answer six common safe sex questions<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have a swinging story or tale of threesomes and toys you’d like to share? Tell us all about them in the comments below. <\/p>\n\n\n\t

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