{"id":2742,"date":"2012-07-19T12:30:39","date_gmt":"2012-07-19T11:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2742"},"modified":"2023-05-05T13:23:16","modified_gmt":"2023-05-05T12:23:16","slug":"pegging-for-beginners","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/pegging-for-beginners\/","title":{"rendered":"Pegging for Beginners"},"content":{"rendered":"

‘Pegging’ is becoming increasingly popular – but do you know what it is?<\/p>\n

Used to describe the act of the woman anally penetrating a man using a strap on<\/a>, ‘pegging’ was given its name when blogger Dan Savage pointed out there was no real term to describe the kinky act.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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I wonder how many heterosexual men would love to try anal sex but are worried about the stigma attached to it? Of course, the outdated stereotypes are complete nonsense; if it’s safe and it feels good, do it. Not only that but the role reversal can be incredibly hot!\u00a0<\/p>\n

Pegging is quite a big step to take if it’s your first foray into receiving anal. Why not start off small with some anal beads<\/a>, or use an anal dildo<\/a> during masturbation?<\/p>\n

Enjoyed the anal toys? Ready to try pegging? Brilliant.<\/p>\n

\"pegging-strap-ons\"<\/p>\n

Pegging Perfection!<\/h3>\n

It may sound obvious, but find a strap on that suits you both. It’s no good going for a super-comfy harness to then realise it only accommodates massive dildos. Strapless strap ons<\/a> are a great way for her to receive stimulation during play and are definitely worth considering. Alternatively, pop a bullet vibe<\/a> down the front of the harness for simultaneous clitoral stimulation to the wearer!<\/p>\n

Don’t forget the lube<\/a> and always start slow. Try inserting a finger or two, or a smaller toy, and get used to the sensation before progressing to a full-sized dildo. Pegging is a marathon, not a sprint!<\/p>\n

There are two main rules for pegging (the same as with any anal play):<\/p>\n

1. Start slow.<\/p>\n

2. Lube, lube, lube.<\/p>\n

Once you’ve got those down, then it’s just a case of both parties being really open to the experience and having fun!<\/p>\n

Do you have pegging questions? Stories? Let us know in the comments below.<\/p>\n\n\n

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