{"id":26945,"date":"2023-06-29T13:44:30","date_gmt":"2023-06-29T12:44:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=26945"},"modified":"2025-07-22T11:05:37","modified_gmt":"2025-07-22T10:05:37","slug":"find-the-p-spot-what-how-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/find-the-p-spot-what-how-why\/","title":{"rendered":"Find the P-Spot (Prostate): What, How, Why?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019ve heard of the G-Spot, now meet your P-Spot! Unlock a buttload of male pleasure with a little prostate play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keep reading for your backstage pass to this super-O-worthy spot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What&#8217;s The P-Spot?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P-Spot is an <strong>erogenous zone<\/strong> that includes the prostate and surrounding area. The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland between the penis and the bladder. It&#8217;s also <strong><em>incredibly <\/em>sensitive<\/strong>, unsurprisingly, as the prostate plays an important role in&nbsp;ejaculation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might have heard it called &#8220;the male G-Spot&#8221;, but let&#8217;s not get it confused with the <em>actual <\/em>G-Spot! If you&#8217;re curious about that gem, read all about it in our blog devoted to helping you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/how-to-find-g-spot\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">find the G-Spot<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why Is It Special?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not only is the P-Spot super sensitive, it sits in an area of the body packed with nerve endings and blood vessels. This makes prostate orgasms much more intense, and men have described the experience as more lasting, stronger, and &#8216;full-bodied&#8217; than a regular orgasm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Master the way of the prostate, and you can climax without even touching your penis, the fabled &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/wiki.malegspot.com\/index.php?title=The_Super-O&amp;utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Super-O<\/a>&#8220;. Also, you can potentially unlock the ability to have multiple orgasms. So, it&#8217;s definitely worth a try!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not only will it be one of the best orgasms you&#8217;ve ever had, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthline.com\/health\/mens-health\/benefits-of-prostate-massage-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">studies<\/a> have shown that it reduces the risk of developing prostate cancer&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media3.giphy.com\/media\/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExdHJyMGRrcjdiODJsd3I5NW45eXVjMGQyYzZyZnltaGNkdDYzdWVndyZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw\/1hAxQTH0HEWS3L0oRF\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ta-BOO!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let&#8217;s put this to bed before we begin. Experimenting <em>or <\/em>enjoying anything anal DOESN&#8217;T make you gay. It&#8217;s just a route to pleasure that should be as shame-free as any other preference, kink, and\/or fetish. You can fight me in the comments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Do I Find The P-Spot? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Start with <strong>hygiene<\/strong>! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Make sure your <strong>anus and hands are clean<\/strong>, and trim your nails.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Use protection<\/strong> like latex gloves and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/condoms?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">condoms<\/a> with a partner<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t skimp on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/lubricants?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">lubricant<\/a>, and <strong>reapply throughout<\/strong>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/anal-sex-aids\/anal-lubes-relaxants?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal relaxants<\/a> are <strong>lightly numbing and can prevent discomfort<\/strong>, but use sparingly. Remember, pain is your body&#8217;s way of telling you something&#8217;s wrong.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have any concerns about safety, why not check our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sexual-health\/6-questions-about-safe-sex-answered\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">6 Questions about Safe Sex<\/a> blog.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/anal-sex-aids\/anal-lubes-relaxants?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/0cc60998-49ef-4501-a8da-56f21f145504\/7fb46b19-8559-4f3e-af1b-d1566e03a1f7\/c\/mf05-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: What, How, Why? - Bondara Anal Relax Lubricant 250ml\" style=\"width:226px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/anal-sex-aids\/anal-lubes-relaxants?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal Lube<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Getting Into Position<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s no right or wrong &#8216;position&#8217; for prostate play, as long as it&#8217;s easy for you or your partner to reach your behind. The key to anything anal is to <strong>relax<\/strong>! So, make sure you&#8217;re comfortable, doesn&#8217;t matter if you&#8217;re squatting, on all fours, or legs akimbo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Explore Your Posterior&#8217;s Interior<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, <strong>liberally lube around and inside your anus<\/strong>, and your fingers. Massage your backdoor open, then slowly insert your well-lubricated finger inside. <strong>Gradually work your way deeper<\/strong>, feeling towards the front side of your body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <strong>prostate swells when you&#8217;re<\/strong> <strong>aroused<\/strong>, so don&#8217;t rush. About 2-3 inches in, you&#8217;ll find a <strong>little, ridged spot<\/strong>. Congrats, you&#8217;ve found your prostate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Experiment with <strong>rubbing, tapping, or a steady &#8220;come hither&#8221; gesture<\/strong> using the pads of your fingers. If it&#8217;s out of reach, don&#8217;t worry there are toys to help.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/29a4fe41-9232-4238-82df-ebbd670c767a\/9b40a8f8-517a-4072-aaaa-4574db14440a\/c\/dh74-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: What, How, Why? - \nBondara Dark Blue Silicone Prostate Massager - 5 Inch\n\" style=\"width:226px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/prostate-massagers?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal Toys<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Crack Open The Toy Box<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.6%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While you <em>could<\/em> use a dildo, there are toys specially made for your prostate. Often slim, like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-p-shooter-red-silicone-prostate-massager-5-inch?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">P-Shooter<\/a>, and resembling a finger, prostate massagers are designed to <strong>slide inside comfortably and curve towards your P-Spot. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With ergonomic handles or bases, they&#8217;re easy to use. Try rubbing the tip around to find what angle feels the best, then experiment with applying more pressure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might also find an up-down motion that strokes your P-Spot is orgasm inspiring for you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:43.11%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/prostate-massagers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/48c73777-439d-4599-b6b0-e6639313c313\/d0a97245-f1b6-4c88-8cf9-c68ef1672100\/c\/fj15-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find The P-Spot: What, How, Why? - P-Shooter Red Silicone Prostate Massager\" style=\"width:226px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/prostate-massagers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Prostate Massagers<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are vibrating massagers, too, that deliver amazing sensations through their high-intensity vibrations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Battery-powered (or rechargeable&#8230;) toys open up a world of options. Remoted controlled, like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-smart-ass-9-function-remote-control-prostate-massager?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Smart Ass<\/a>, waving, rotating, thrusting, or inflating &#8211; if you can think of it, there&#8217;s a toy for it! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smaller tips feel more intense, but it&#8217;s easier to locate your P-Spot with more bulbous heads. With practice, you may <strong>orgasm hands-free by clenching and releasing around your toy<\/strong>. Whatever you choose, focus on your comfort.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-vibrators?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/6433a184-4cb8-4bb5-b2b5-d7092ed32144\/09806555-6cf1-48d0-b72b-0ecd72b987ba\/c\/cw30-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: Where, How Why? - Bondara Smart Ass Prostate Massager\" style=\"width:226px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-vibrators?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal Vibrators<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The choice doesn&#8217;t end there! <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/butt-plugs?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Butt plugs<\/a> can be worn while masturbating or penetrating a partner.<\/strong> Though not traditionally intended to stimulate the prostate, toys that curve, similar to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-wingman-black-silicone-anchor-vibrating-butt-plug6-inch?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the Wingman<\/a>, are ideal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to incorporate broader anal play into your sex life, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-beads?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">anal beads<\/a> are a great way to work your way up to prostate massagers<\/strong>. Offering the same &#8216;full&#8217; feeling as plugs, their beaded texture are thrilling to remove as you climax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#8217;t forget to <strong>clean your toys<\/strong> before and after every use! Here&#8217;s our guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sexual-health\/sex-toy-care-top-tips-with-bondara\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sex toy care<\/a> if you have questions.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-beads?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/01bc51b7-278d-4931-9518-ed588defb504\/f7863dd3-aedc-4d72-b89d-1b2dcc9c237a\/c\/cu42-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: Where, How Why? - \nBondara Merlin Silicone 10 Function Rechargeable Beaded Anal Vibe\n\" style=\"object-fit:cover\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-beads?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=find_the_p-spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal Beads<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Positions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to stimulating the prostate via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/how-to-have-anal-sex-for-the-first-time\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">anal sex<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-pegging-bum-fun-for-fellas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pegging<\/a>, favour positions that allow for the <strong>most friction against the front wall of the rectum<\/strong>. This could be doggy style, or something as simple as missionary with a pillow under the receiver&#8217;s pelvis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s entirely possible to mix and match prostate play with oral sex, masturbation, or penetrating a partner. Just make sure any toys have a safe, flared or flanged base, or a handle you can securely grip!<strong> No one wants a trip to A&amp;E because their bum has swallowed a sex toy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why not try one of our P-Spot-approved&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/tag\/sex-positions\/?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=g_spot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sex positions<\/a>&nbsp;below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/sex-positions\/sex-position-the-bear-hug\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" data-attachment-id=\"26958\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/sex-positions\/sex-position-the-bear-hug\/attachment\/the-bear-hug-sex-position-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?fit=1080%2C1080&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?fit=800%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" data-id=\"26958\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?resize=800%2C800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: Where, How, Why? - The Bear Hug Sex Position\" class=\"wp-image-26958\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/The-bEar-Hug-Sex-position-1.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/sex-positions\/sex-position-the-slam-dunk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" data-attachment-id=\"25046\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/sex-positions\/sex-position-the-slam-dunk\/attachment\/slam-dunk\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Slam-Dunk.jpg?fit=1080%2C1080&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Slam-Dunk\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Slam-Dunk.jpg?fit=800%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" data-id=\"25046\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Slam-Dunk.jpg?resize=800%2C800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Find the P-Spot: Where, How, Why? 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The sensation can take some getting used to, or the experience may be too intense for your personal taste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ultimately, if you don&#8217;t enjoy it, that&#8217;s okay. 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