{"id":25561,"date":"2023-05-23T16:42:39","date_gmt":"2023-05-23T15:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=25561"},"modified":"2023-06-19T14:02:43","modified_gmt":"2023-06-19T13:02:43","slug":"lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc\/","title":{"rendered":"Let\u2019s Talk about Sex Therapy with TLC"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">We sat down with the lovely folks from <a href=\"https:\/\/talklistenchange.org.uk\/?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_campaign=lets_talk_about_sex_with_TLC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TLC: Talk, Listen, Change<\/a>, to learn all about sex therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We discussed why people need this service, what to expect from a session and how it benefits intimacy. Plus, we talk about TLC&#8217;s project to provide 1,000 sex therapy sessions to low-income households. Read the full interview below!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">So, What is Sex Therapy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We got Polly Sangar, Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist at TLC, to teach us all about it<em>; &#8220;Its full name is <strong>psycho-sexual therapy<\/strong>, and it&#8217;s a structured programme that deals specifically with sexual problems or dysfunctions&#8221;<\/em>. Polly outlined,<em> &#8220;The psychological element is important as it can have a massive impact. We look at the problem and the person(s) as a whole, holistically.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t need to be in a relationship to go to sex therapy either; this is something you can do for yourself. <em>&#8220;As individuals, we are sexual persons; we have sex with ourselves before entering into sex with another person. So it&#8217;s helpful to understand ourselves before entering into sex with another person.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She also broke down why an individual or couple might decide to attend sessions. <em>&#8220;In its crudest nutshell, it&#8217;s: <\/em><strong>&#8216;Can&#8217;t get it in, can&#8217;t get it out, can&#8217;t get it up, or gone off it&#8217;<\/strong><em>. So, that covers the basis of thinking around dysfunction.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Reasons You Might Go to Sex Therapy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Physical Sexual Dysfunction,<\/strong> e.g. Erectile Dysfunction and Vaginismus<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Hypo-desire<\/strong> &#8211; Decrease in libido or interest in sex<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Mismatched Sex Drive<\/strong>&#8211; One partner may have more or less of an interest in sex<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Changes over time<\/strong> &#8211; Ideas and attitudes towards sex evolve over time and may no longer align<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"833\" data-attachment-id=\"26117\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc\/attachment\/watermark-jody-2-in-bed-feet\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?fit=2382%2C2480&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2382,2480\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?fit=800%2C833&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?resize=800%2C833&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toy Blog - Let\u2019s Talk about Sex Therapy with TLC - Illustration of two pairs of feet under a duvet suggesting sexual relations. \" class=\"wp-image-26117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?resize=984%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 984w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?resize=480%2C500&amp;ssl=1 480w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?resize=1475%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1475w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?resize=1967%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1967w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-2-in-bed-feet.png?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&#8220;We can prevent ourselves from engaging in sex by overthinking it and by being really hard on ourselves or on our partner.&#8221;<\/p><cite> &#8211; Polly Sangar, TLC <\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Wait&#8230; Do I Need Sex Therapy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#8217;t panic! Just because you&#8217;re having issues in the bedroom, doesn&#8217;t <em>necessarily <\/em>mean you need this style of therapy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;We first start with an assessment to see if it&#8217;s appropriate&#8221;<\/em>, Polly explains. <em>&#8220;For example, some couples might come in asking for sex therapy, but then it&#8217;ll become apparent that the issue&#8217;s root is in communication. The sexual dysfunction is just a by-product of that.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;If someone comes to us and the rest of the relationship is really good, everything\u2019s fine, but they just can\u2019t nail sex, that&#8217;s when sex therapy would be suitable.&#8221;<\/em> Once it&#8217;s decided which support is best for you, your therapist gets a complete sexual history. This can include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Background<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sex education<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ideas surrounding the do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts of sex<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Previous sexual experiences, both positive and negative<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Impact of porn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sexual expectations of yourself and your partner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s a full exploration. It<\/em> <em>is really important to the process because there might not be an arousal or desire disorder. It might just be that they&#8217;re not enjoying the sex on offer in their relationship anymore.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you decide to start therapy as part of a couple, these discussions are done separately, so there is time for each partner to focus on themselves. <em>&#8220;We do a formulation and put all that information back together. So, it breaks down everything that seems to be a factor in the issue and then works out a tailor-made treatment plan.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">No Shirt, No Shoes, No Service<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Polly wanted to clarify that these appointments are solely about therapy; <em>&#8220;Nobody gets naked in the therapy room. It&#8217;s talking with exercises to try at home. That feedback then informs the next session, which in turn informs the next stage of the process.<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Does It Benefit Intimacy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So how does this all benefit your sex life?<em> &#8220;It&#8217;s a total breakdown of all the preconceived stuff around sex, identity and expectations.&#8221;<\/em> Starting fresh and discussing expectations ensures you&#8217;re on the same page as your partner. <em>&#8220;We want to rebuild intimacy and an idea of self from a more understanding, better place.&#8221;<\/em>, Polly elaborated. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While relationship status doesn&#8217;t matter, Polly did want to reiterate how positive the appointments can be for long-standing couples. <em>&#8220;It can be really helpful for longer-term relationships, as it allows them to have that open and honest conversation without feeling rejected or hurt.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"833\" data-attachment-id=\"26263\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc\/attachment\/watermark-jody-blue-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?fit=2382%2C2480&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2382,2480\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"watermark-Jody-blue-2\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?fit=800%2C833&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?resize=800%2C833&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26263\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?resize=984%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 984w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?resize=480%2C500&amp;ssl=1 480w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?resize=1475%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1475w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?resize=1967%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1967w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-blue-2.png?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Equipping people with the tools to navigate their relationship problems moving forward is a huge part of therapy; Polly explained: <em>&#8220;We encourage people to build in those practises so that any minor problems you&#8217;ve got, there is the vocabulary to discuss them, and you can iron out issues before they become major problems.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Are the At-Home Exercises Like?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The at-home activities set by TLC therapists are about getting couples out of their heads and into their bodies. Polly told us, <em>&#8220;The exercises promote sensations and feeling because that&#8217;s where good sex happens.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She also broke down how the exercises work and how they inform the whole process. <em>&#8220;We&#8217;ll bring partners in and ask what they like so that they&#8217;re led by their own interest. It\u2019s about letting people be free to explore their own wants and needs and then bringing that together and seeing how it fits.&#8221;<\/em> And despite the name, the emphasis isn&#8217;t on <strong>having <\/strong>sex. It&#8217;s about connecting to yourself and your partner on a sensual, emotional level. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"833\" data-attachment-id=\"26221\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc\/attachment\/watermark-jody-couple-in-bed-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?fit=2382%2C2480&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2382,2480\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?fit=800%2C833&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?resize=800%2C833&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26221\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?resize=984%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 984w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?resize=480%2C500&amp;ssl=1 480w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?resize=1475%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1475w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?resize=1967%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1967w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-couple-in-bed-1.png?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;We want people to practice being in the moment, how things feel, and getting in touch with the senses rather than going,&nbsp;<strong>&#8220;Oh, what do I look like right now? Do I look like an idiot?&#8221;<\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The homework aims to start very basically and slowly build up, giving the clients as much control as possible over pacing. <em>&#8220;We start from zero and build it up really, really slowly. The start of the touch exercises is not about looking for pleasure but about curiosity. So, we&#8217;re changing the focus of what we&#8217;re bringing to the practices and helping people develop a new connection with themselves and their partners.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Who is TLC? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A leading relationship charity in the Northwest, TLC&#8217;s core belief is that everyone deserves a circle of safe, healthy, happy relationships. <em>&#8220;We try to aid this through various community projects, mediation for separated parents, domestic abuse services with victim support, and counselling&#8221;<\/em>, Emily Manning, one of their Development Managers, told us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The counselling on offer is for people of all ages, genders, sexualities, and races, and sex therapy is an essential part of it. <em>&#8220;It sets us apart from other counselling services and relationship charities because it&#8217;s not really offered anywhere else.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"833\" data-attachment-id=\"26119\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/lets-talk-about-sex-therapy-with-tlc\/attachment\/watermark-jody-condom-female-hand\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?fit=2382%2C2480&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2382,2480\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?fit=800%2C833&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?resize=800%2C833&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toy Blog - Let\u2019s Talk about Sex Therapy with TLC - Illustration of a hand holding condoms. \" class=\"wp-image-26119\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?resize=984%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 984w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?resize=480%2C500&amp;ssl=1 480w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?resize=1475%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1475w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?resize=1967%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1967w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/watermark-Jody-condom-female-hand.png?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Money, Money, Money<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With private sessions averaging \u00a370-100 and the cost of living price looming over us all, it&#8217;s easy to understand how it can be viewed as a luxury. However, TLC doesn&#8217;t believe that should be the case, offering a sliding scale of payments based on individual income. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It also catalysed their first-of-its-kind project to offer 1,000 sessions to lower-income households. <em>&#8220;With the other services we offer, we tend to recommend up to 10 sessions, but with sex therapy, there&#8217;s no upper limit because everyone is different. This is why we&#8217;re raising money for a number of sessions versus the number of people it would benefit, as we&#8217;re not sure how many sessions a couple might need.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Emily stressed that TLC believes this type of therapy should be as accessible as any other.&nbsp;<em>&#8220;When we analysed all of our different types of counselling services, sex therapy was one of the ones that had a massive drop in engagement from referrals to appointment bookings.&#8221;<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While sex therapy&nbsp;<em>is&nbsp;<\/em>offered by the National Health Service, the criteria for receiving it can be very specific. 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