{"id":25242,"date":"2023-04-19T15:00:51","date_gmt":"2023-04-19T14:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=25242"},"modified":"2025-08-04T16:57:15","modified_gmt":"2025-08-04T15:57:15","slug":"spice-up-your-life-with-couples-sex-toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/relationship-advice\/spice-up-your-life-with-couples-sex-toys\/","title":{"rendered":"Spice Up Your Life with Couples\u2019 Sex Toys"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

We’ve teamed up with Brook<\/a>, the UK’s leading sexual health and wellbeing charity, to bring you advice about introducing couples’ sex toys to your partnered intimacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether you’re unsure how to broach the subject with your partner\/s or you’re exploring together, this article will help you feel more confident bringing sex toys into the bedroom!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Getting Started<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

So, you want to use sex toys with your partner\/s? Well, the first thing you need to do is have a conversation. There’s one sure-fire way to scare off your S.O, and that’s by whipping out a big box of sex toys<\/a> unprompted!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Any discussion about sex should be done in a neutral setting. While it might seem logical to talk about sex during sex, this can just come off as criticism. You want this to be a productive talk about exploring couples’ toys<\/a> together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t just launch this kind of topic on your lover unawares; try to bring it up naturally! We suggest asking your partner if they’re comfortable discussing your sex life. For example, “I’ve been thinking, and there are some things I’d like to explore during sex.”<\/em>. Once you’ve gotten over that initial hurdle (and you’ve not surprise attacked your partner with a dildo<\/a>!<\/em>), then you can suggest introducing sex toys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if your partner is unsure or uncomfortable, it’s important not to push them. Sex toys aren’t for everyone. Communication is vital to a good relationship, and it’s okay for you to say no if you’re not interested. Let’s remember, CONSENT<\/a> IS SEXY!<\/p>\n\n\n

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Why Should You Use Couples\u2019 Sex Toys?<\/sup><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Now you’re both on the same page, and let’s bring out the toys! But, don’t forget, they aren’t there to replace anyone; your partner’s interest in using a sex toy isn’t a reflection of your abilities in the bedroom! Toys are used for lots of different reasons, from medical conditions to plain ol’ curiosity. No matter how good you are in the bedroom, you can’t do everything all at once. So, why do couples use sex toys?:<\/p>\n\n\n\n