{"id":23169,"date":"2023-01-25T11:50:43","date_gmt":"2023-01-25T11:50:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=23169"},"modified":"2024-10-07T12:54:34","modified_gmt":"2024-10-07T11:54:34","slug":"a-day-with-a-femdom-madame-caramel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/interviews\/a-day-with-a-femdom-madame-caramel\/","title":{"rendered":"A Day with a FemDom: Madame Caramel"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

We spent the day with Madame Caramel<\/a>, a professional FemDom and BDSM Educator, specialising in Female Domination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She put us through our paces with a beginner’s BDSM session and answered our burning questions about what it’s like to live the Domme lifestyle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, keep reading to learn more about the Nubian Matriarch<\/a> and her dungeons<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Introducing Madame Caramel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We got the chance to experience first-hand tutoring from the infamous Madame Caramel, a professional FemDom of 19 years. Naturally, with such a wealth of knowledge, we wanted to know why she became a Dominatrix. “I always had this tendency to enjoy dominating, especially men, but I didn’t know the name for it. I just thought I was a little bit of a weirdo because every time I tried something with a boyfriend, they wanted nothing to do with me.<\/em>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“After that, I went off and researched, found this beautiful black Mistress, and I thought ‘Oh, this is interesting’. I chased her for months, and finally, I went for an interview with her. She chucked me in her dungeon with a client, and now this is me till today.<\/em>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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We started with the easy stuff, looking at beginner-friendly rope bondage and the basics of spanking with different impact tools. Experience is everything<\/em>, according to Madame Caramel; “I wouldn’t say I have a speciality. I come from a background of old-school FemDoms, so we learned how to do a little bit of everything. When I went to a dungeon for the first time, I really had no experience. But, I like to see what the younger Mistress’ get up to now. They’re a little bit more naughty!<\/em>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Consent is everything. Even with 24\/7 dynamics. If a sub says no, they say no. The Dom shouldn\u2019t be offended”<\/em><\/p>Madame Caramel<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Learning from a FemDom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Other than doing sessions with subs, Madame Caramel also trains Doms of all levels. “You have to learn these skills like how to tie a knot properly and how to release it. Or, learn the techniques for things like whipping, spanking, and bondage so that it’s done safely<\/em>.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It goes further than just safety, although this is deeply important. “Doms, especially new ones, need to learn things like how to receive a client, how to understand what the client is asking for and the psychology of BDSM.<\/em>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, as we got ourselves tangled in the ropes, she walked around correcting us if we went wrong and teaching us how to talk with our partner as we made simple wrist and ankle restraints or even full body harnesses! \u201cIt\u2019s good to check as you\u2019re doing rope bondage. Ask, \u2018Is this okay? Is it too tight? Can you move your wrists?\u2019 So, keep checking in with your partner.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, while it’s an excellent way to keep your partner in one place, rope bondage, also known as Shibari<\/strong>, is perfect for heightening eroticism in the bedroom. “Rope Bondage is also about intimacy. You can touch them as you tie them. Plus, it can leave marks depending on how tight the rope is. If you can connect with someone on a deeper level when you\u2019re doing something like this\u2026 It\u2019s amazing<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n