{"id":18338,"date":"2021-04-09T14:14:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-09T13:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=18338"},"modified":"2021-11-16T08:49:41","modified_gmt":"2021-11-16T08:49:41","slug":"couples-corner-the-orgasm-gap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/couples-corner-the-orgasm-gap\/","title":{"rendered":"Couple&#8217;s Corner: The Orgasm Gap"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">You can&#8217;t judge a sexual relationship by your orgasm count. However, studies reveal that straight women are climaxing less than their male partners during sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">With a pornographic focus on penetration, sexperts blame the &#8216;orgasm gap&#8217; on a lack of <em>cultural<\/em> <em>cliteracy<\/em>. But couples must put their finger on the button for better mutual pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Bondara is calling time on bedroom inequality. So ladies, stop <em>faking it. <\/em>And guys &#8211; <em>pay attention!<\/em> Take our class in clitoral competency for a fairer playing field\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mind the Gap<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Shrouded in mystery, the &#8216;legendary&#8217; clitoris and its orgasmic properties have long been relegated to myth and confusion. Still, it&#8217;s high time we lifted the hood for a closer inspection&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">According to research, 39% of clit-owners achieve orgasms through masturbation with external stimulation, i.e., rubbing or applying vibrations to the clitoris and labia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">However, a study by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/durex?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Durex<\/a> reveals that 3 out of 4 women don&#8217;t usually orgasm during sex, whereas only 2% of men don&#8217;t always climax.&nbsp;So, where do her orgasms go when a penis comes to party?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Are You I-<em>Cliterate<\/em>?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">The clitoris is a sensitive part of the genitals that sits at the top of the labia, and its primary job is <em>pleasure!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"420\" data-attachment-id=\"18356\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/couples-corner-the-orgasm-gap\/attachment\/clit-diagram\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clit-diagram.jpg?fit=1024%2C538&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,538\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"clit-diagram\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clit-diagram.jpg?fit=800%2C420&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clit-diagram.jpg?resize=800%2C420&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Couple's Corner: The Orgasm Gap\" class=\"wp-image-18356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clit-diagram.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clit-diagram.jpg?resize=500%2C263&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Sure, clits are usually much smaller than penises. Still, they are similar in many ways, possessing a shaft, a hood (like a foreskin), and ultra-sensitive glans (akin to the <em>bell end<\/em> and frenulum, AKA <em>F-spot<\/em>).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, we&#8217;ve all heard someone lamenting their struggles in finding the clit, but, just like an erect penis, aroused clitorises grow by 50-300%! So, there&#8217;s no excuse \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Wham, Bam, Thank You, Ma&#8217;am!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to heterosexual sex, Sexpert Laurie Mintz PhD blames women&#8217;s relative lack of orgasms on a cultural focus on male pleasure and the unrealistic expectations that come from porn. She states;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cI am not blaming penises for the orgasm gap, nor am I blaming the men who own them. I\u2019m also not blaming the women who have sex with the men who own them. The orgasm gap is a <em>cultural problem<\/em>.\u201d<\/p><cite>Laurie Mintz PhD<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/durex?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Durex<\/a>, more than half of women prefer clitoral stimulation during sex. Still, Mintz explains that the screaming performances we see in mainstream porn have <em>done us dirty.<\/em> Consequently, women learn to prioritise the elusive &#8216;vaginal orgasm&#8217; to meet unrealistic pornographic expectations instead of the readily available clitoral climax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">And on the flip side, guys too are misled by porno that serves as a false education via visually stimulating penetration scenes that skip the clitoral play necessary for their real-life lover&#8217;s pleasure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"18368\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/couples-corner-the-orgasm-gap\/attachment\/young-depressed-woman-with-insomnia-thinking-about-her-life\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/iStock-1182642257.jpg?fit=750%2C466&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"750,466\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;9&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 5D Mark III&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Crisis of relationship. 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Young depressed woman with insomnia thinking about her life, her boyfriend sleeping aside&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/iStock-1182642257.jpg?fit=750%2C466&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/iStock-1182642257.jpg?resize=563%2C350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Couple's Corner: The Orgasm Gap\" class=\"wp-image-18368\" width=\"563\" height=\"350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/iStock-1182642257.jpg?w=750&amp;ssl=1 750w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/iStock-1182642257.jpg?resize=500%2C311&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fake It till You Make It<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Interestingly, 25% of men think that women reach climax easily during sex, so let&#8217;s be honest, ladies! Have you ever faked an orgasm? Studies reveal that &#8216;faking it&#8217; is a common practice because we prioritise our man&#8217;s satisfaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/aDG2cg3pMLQcw\/giphy.gif?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/aDG2cg3pMLQcw\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Mintz says that most women tend to view their own orgasm as an important part of their partner&#8217;s enjoyment rather than for their <em>own pleasure<\/em>. Hence the Oscar-worthy displays happening in our bedrooms. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">But for the benefit of straight and bisexual women everywhere &#8211; Stop pretending and start prioritising your pleasure!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Closing The Gap<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Let&#8217;s face it, it\u2019s impossible to have an orgasm while in a state of anxiety, but many women have body-image issues or are self-conscious during sex for a variety of reasons. Reaching orgasm requires you to be in the moment (see: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/slow-down-with-10-tips-for-sexual-mindfulness\/?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Slow Down With 10 Tips for Sexual Mindfulness<\/a>) and few of us have mastered this in our day-to-day lives, let alone the bedroom! Tending to our sensual needs by creating an atmosphere where we feel relaxed and ready for pleasure is crucial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">However! Candles aren&#8217;t going to get that clit flicked, honey! So, honesty, open communication and education are key. Try mindfulness when masturbating so you can reveal your technique to your partner later on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps you prefer manual stimulation, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/bullet-vibrators?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bullet vibrator<\/a>, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/clitoral-suction-vibrators?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">clitoral stimulator<\/a> or even his tongue. Be ready to explore and share your sensual side through open dialogue, and he should be happy to oblige!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Sure it can be a little embarrassing if you&#8217;re not used to asserting your needs, but it&#8217;s good practice, and he&#8217;ll want to hear it because, <em>well<\/em>, sex is involved. And once you&#8217;ve shed any blushes, sex-talk with your partner can be a <em>pretty <\/em>hot experience, plus it&#8217;s amazing for emotional intimacy &#8211; the <em>foundation <\/em>of incredible partnered pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Clit-Saviours for Couples<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-black-magic-woman-wand-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ml\/11\/f-enlargev3\/products\/jf58.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-black-magic-woman-wand-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bondara Magic Mic Wand Vibrator<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s no missing the spot with <em>Magic Mic<\/em>! The flexible silicone head makes it easier to focus on the clitoris while the intense vibrations drive her wild. Experiment with all 10 vibrating intensities &#8211; from a light flutter to a deep rumble &#8211; as you work your way towards the climax for pure pleasure and indulgence! Why not add attachments to include your both in the excitement to experience the thrill of the wand together?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-sweet-talk-10-function-rechargeable-bullet-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ml\/114\/f-enlargev3\/products\/bs95-1.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-sweet-talk-10-function-rechargeable-bullet-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bondara Sweet Talk Rose Gold Bullet Vibrator<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">This little lover offers intensely concentrated clitoral stimulation thanks to its smooth, metallic shaft for a hard buzz that&#8217;s even harder to beat. Ideal for foreplay or holding to her hot spot during sex, find her favourite vibe from 10 tantalising intensities, or crank it up to make her cum hard and fast!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-jade-10-function-rechargeable-cock-ring?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ml\/11\/f-enlargev3\/products\/ck47.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Couple's Corner: The Orgasm Gap\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-jade-10-function-rechargeable-cock-ring?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bondara Jade Vibrating Cock Ring<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Built to sustain larger, firmer erections and delay his climax, this stretchy silicone ring transforms his shaft into a rock-hard vibrator while serving intense vibrating stimulation directly to her clitoris with every thrust!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/duvet-day-10-function-3-in-1-suction-g-spot-and-wand-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ml\/127\/f-enlargev3\/products\/cr42-4.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/duvet-day-10-function-3-in-1-suction-g-spot-and-wand-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple%27s%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Duvet Day 3-in-1 Suction G-Spot &amp; Wand Vibrator<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">Sculpted for smooth handling in soft-touch silicone with rippled textures for a greater grip and a gorgeous G-spot grind. The rounded wand head delivers a deep muscular massage and features a clitoral suction cup with pulse technology for oral sex sensations.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-purple-pleasures-two-piece-couples-set?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ml\/11\/f-enlargev3\/products\/ci86.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Couple's Corner: The Orgasm Gap\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-purple-pleasures-two-piece-couples-set?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Couple's%20Corner%3A%20The%20Orgasm%20Gap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bondara Purple Pleasures 2 Piece Couple&#8217;s Set<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify wp-block-paragraph\">From foreplay to penetration &#8211; Have a better bang with this coordinating cock ring and bullet vibrator. Made from soft-touch silicone, the angular bullet teases her nipples, clitoris and vulva, while the cock ring empowers him for stronger, longer-lasting erections and vibrating clitoral contact!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bondara is calling time on orgasm inequality. So ladies, stop faking it. And guys, pay attention! 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