{"id":15101,"date":"2020-07-24T11:47:37","date_gmt":"2020-07-24T10:47:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=15101"},"modified":"2024-04-24T14:56:14","modified_gmt":"2024-04-24T13:56:14","slug":"vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/","title":{"rendered":"Stretching Fetish: Heaven on Girth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Historically the reserve of extreme pornography, the stretching\/fisting fetish is on the rise (<em>Pornhub, 2019 Year In Review<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thanks to mainstreaming of porn and the sex-positive movement, the intimately related fetishes of stretching and fisting are beginning to shed their bad reputation. Yes, it&#8217;s fair to say that we&#8217;re taking a more <em>stretch<\/em>&#8211;<em>positive <\/em>approach&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And sure, contemplating an <em>entire <\/em>fist inside your vagina or rectum could seem like a painful experience. But you shouldn&#8217;t knock it until you&#8217;ve tried it! This hardcore bodily play involves practice, patience and intense levels of trust that lead to incredible intimacy, and <em>out-of-this-world<\/em> orgasms!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, <em>knuckle down <\/em>as we contextualise these advanced acts with tips and tricks for a <strong>safe <\/strong>and <strong>satisfying <\/strong>stretch&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"448\" data-attachment-id=\"15170\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990.jpg?fit=672%2C448&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"672,448\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"resize-shutterstock_1676497990\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990.jpg?fit=672%2C448&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990.jpg?resize=672%2C448&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Stretching &amp; Fisting Fetish - Woman in sports wear doing the splits in dynamic blue and pink lighting\" class=\"wp-image-15170\" style=\"width:600px;height:400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resize-shutterstock_1676497990.jpg?resize=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stretching Specifics<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The act of stretching involves <em>gradually <\/em>widening a person\u2019s anus or vagina with fingers, sex toys or other suitable objects. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is often a precursor to fisting, as one will need to widen the orifice until it can accommodate an entire fist. Extreme stretching may even exceed fisting and progress to using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/dildos\/big-large-dildos?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Hand+in+the+Cookie+Jar%3A+Stretching+%26+Fisting+Fetish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">huge dildos<\/a> or even double fisting! <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-girthy-monster-10-inch-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15116\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/ax21-3\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ax21-3\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Stretching &amp; Fisting Fetish - The Original Girthy Monster Dildo\" class=\"wp-image-15116\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/ax21-3.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-girthy-monster-10-inch-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>The Original Girthy Monster Dildo<\/strong> <\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Truth be told, it&#8217;s a lot easier to stretch a person\u2019s ass than you can stretch out their vagina. Sure, a woman can squeeze a baby\u2019s head out of her noony, but the birth process involves hip dislocation and vaginal\/perineal tearing \u2013 not something you\u2019d want in the bedroom! The anus, on the other hand, with enough time and proper technique, can get <em>pretty <\/em>wide. But we know you can handle it \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At Bondara, the girthiest toy on our shelves is a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>BIG<\/strong><\/span> dildo named <em><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-girthy-monster-10-inch-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Original Girthy Monster<\/a><\/em>. Cast in high-shine phthalate-free PVC with an eye-watering circumference of 10.5 inches, this extra thick dildo might be right up your street. We have a whole host of mind-blowing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/the-monsters?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Monsters<\/a> to explore! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stretching Sex-ercise<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keep in mind that there <em>is <\/em>a naturally higher risk of things going south when stretching butts as opposed to vaginas. Yes, &#8216;rosebud&#8217; may be a searchable term on your favourite smut site, but IRL, it can be alarming &#8230;Unless you&#8217;re <em>into that<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Realistically though, prolapse is a common health problem in women who <em>don&#8217;t <\/em>stretch, <em>especially <\/em>after childbirth. However, the stretching community strongly considers exercises with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/love-eggs\/kegel-exercisers?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kegel balls<\/a> the best practice to keep you springing back into shape! And even if you don&#8217;t intend to stretch, <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/love-eggs\/kegel-exercisers?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kegels<\/a> will give you control of your orgasms and fortify your fanny down the line.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-drillmaster-monster-butt-plug-10-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15159\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/bs39-4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bs39-4\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondar Sex Toys Blog - Stretching &amp; Fisting Fetish - The Drillmaster Monster Butt Plug\" class=\"wp-image-15159\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bs39-4.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-drillmaster-monster-butt-plug-10-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Drillmaster Monster 9.5 Inch Butt Plug<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sadomasochism &amp; Stretching<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Someone with a stretching fetish will usually have a preference for stretching one hole over the other. A chap with a particular interest in <em>anal <\/em>stretching had this to say;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"color:#f305bf\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u201cFisting, or stretching, is dirty; it\u2019s taboo. So, stretching someone&#8217;s <em>ass <\/em>is even dirtier and <em>more taboo<\/em>. Anal fisting is also a lot more extreme. Most women have no problem taking four fingers in their pussy, whereas four fingers in the ass feels a lot more intense!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anon then goes on to describe how stretching and fisting have Dom(me)\/submissive elements too, and that fisting can be very much a part of a BDSM relationship;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-left is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"color:#f305bf\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u201cIt has to be more than just domination and submission though&#8230; For a couple to do stretching successfully there has to some degree of sadomasochism. The giver has to be a bit of a sadist and the receiver has to be somewhat of a masochist.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stretching can also bring an element of <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/medical-play\/speculums-medical-toys?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">medical fetishism<\/a> into play, as one partner may enjoy inserting a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/medical-play\/speculums-medical-toys?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">speculum<\/a> into the pussy or anus of their sub. This medical examination roleplay then involves widening the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/medical-play\/speculums-medical-toys?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">speculum<\/a> to spread the sub\u2019s vagina or anus for closer inspection! Who said a trip to the gyno can&#8217;t be fun?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-large-stainless-steel-vaginal-speculum?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15154\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/mf63-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"mf63-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Stretching &amp; Fisting Fetish - Torment Large Stainless Steel Vaginal Speculum\" class=\"wp-image-15154\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mf63-1.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-large-stainless-steel-vaginal-speculum?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Torment Large Stainless Steel Vaginal Speculum<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Stretch-pert&#8217;s Guide<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Commonly for the BDSM community, kinkster&#8217;s favourite fetishes become somewhat of a personal pastime. And just like <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/cock-ball-play-toys\/ball-stretchers?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bondage ball stretching<\/a> or nipple stretching (<a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/nipple-toys\/nipple-suckers-breast-enlargement-pumps?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pumps<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/nipple-toys\/nipple-clamps?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">weighted clamps<\/a>), the goal-oriented project of growing your hole is just the same! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reddit user <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/u\/sheilastretch\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">u\/sheilastretch<\/a> answers a boyfriend&#8217;s urgent plea for advice regarding his girlfriend&#8217;s favourite new fetish. In response to concerns about his girlfriend&#8217;s daily use of adding pencils to her pussy for a graduated stretch; this is what Sheila had to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-left is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"color:#f305bf\" class=\"has-inline-color\"> A <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/dildos\/inflatable-dildos?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">blow-up dildo<\/a> would be safer for incremental expansion than writing\/art supplies. It&#8217;s also a lot cheaper to get a blow-up toy than constantly outgrowing smaller dildos. We like to play a game we call &#8216;<em>let\u2019s see how much we can fit in me<\/em>&#8216; which usually involves all my smaller <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/dildos?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dildos<\/a> and <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/vibrators?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">vibrators<\/a>, fingers, cocks, <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/love-eggs\/ben-wa-balls?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ben-wa balls<\/a>, <em><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/fleshlight?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fleshlight<\/a><\/em> inserts and <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/male-sex-toys\/cock-sleeves?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">cock sleeves<\/a>. It&#8217;s pretty fun, and with all the possible combinations, and it&#8217;s still as fun as when we first started!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ultimate-inflatable-vibrating-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15124\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/kb12\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"kb12\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Ultimate Inflatable Vibrating Dildo\" class=\"wp-image-15124\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/kb12.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/ultimate-inflatable-vibrating-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ultimate Inflatable Vibrating Dildo<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A popular stretching method for anal stretching is to use an <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/anal-training-kit?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">anal training kit<\/a>. With this method, you simply insert the smallest toy and when that toy feels comfortable and the muscles have relaxed enough to fully accept it, you remove the toy and insert a slightly bigger one. Repeat this process until your partner is able to take the biggest toy in your collection for a jaw-dropping experience! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Indeed, &#8216;gaping&#8217; is a popular thread of the fetish as Sheila goes on to explain RE: her favourite hole: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-left is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"color:#f305bf\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Being stretched out at rest is one of the reasons I <em>love <\/em>stretching. We like seeing up inside me and seeing how much <em>looser <\/em>I feel during sex! Vaginas are super elastic though, so if you ever stop or take a break, she\u2019ll tighten up quite quickly.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/anal-training-kit?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Hand+in+the+Cookie+Jar%3A+Stretching+%26+Fisting+Fetish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15138\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/1048\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"1048\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Anal 5 Piece Training Kit\" class=\"wp-image-15138\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1048.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/anal-training-kit?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Anal 5 Piece Training Kit<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Basic Stretch-iquette<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, now you&#8217;ve got the <em>jist<\/em>, how do you start to stretch\/fist?&#8217; Here are the ground rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>An obvious necessity for anal and vaginal stretching\/fisting is LOTS AND LOTS OF <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/lubricants?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">LUBE<\/a>. You can&#8217;t go wrong with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/lubricants\/water-based-lubes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">water-based formula<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/bondage-equipment\/bondage-accessories?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching+%26+Fisting%3A+Hands+in+the+Cookie+Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bondage accessories<\/a> like a PVC sheet to protect your bedding from all the juicy fun!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Grab the clippers and file because you&#8217;re going to want to trim those nails all the way back and be careful to file away any sharp edges. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Check your hands for cuts and abrasions to avoid infection. If in any doubt, grab some surgical gloves to reduce any risk of transmission, while aiding insertion.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Remove ANY jewellery &#8211; you don&#8217;t want to lose your watch where the sun doesn&#8217;t shine!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you\u2019re looking to stretch out your partner\u2019s ass hole, it is highly advisable that they <a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/anal-toys\/anal-douches-enemas?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">douche<\/a> first to avoid any messy situations.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And remember, slow and steady wins the race so <strong>never<\/strong> go ham right away. You&#8217;ll want to feel relaxed and mindful of your body, so indulge in <em>lots <\/em>of foreplay, communication, and <strong>avoid <\/strong>&#8216;relaxing&#8217; lubes &#8211; Even for anal stretching. The <em>stretchee <\/em>must <strong>always<\/strong> dictate the pace, so you&#8217;ll want to avoid numbing agents that prevent painful warnings signs that things are going <em>too <\/em>fast.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fisting for Beginners<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now for the main event. With enough lubrication, insert one finger, then two. Next, if they tell you that they&#8217;re comfortable and their orifice is relaxed enough and widening nicely, insert and the third finger, then a fourth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The next stage is called &#8216;<em>the goose<\/em>&#8216; which involves you tucking your thumb into your palm (thus making your hand and arm look kind of like a goose\u2019s head and neck), then inserting your fingers deeper. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/hand-job-fisting-three-piece-bundle?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15158\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/1424\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"1424\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Hand Job Fisting 3 Piece Bundle\" class=\"wp-image-15158\" style=\"width:540px;height:540px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/1424.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-upper-hand-monster-suction-cup-butt-plug-8-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hand Job Fisting 3 Piece Bundle<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In order to reach the next stage &#8211; <em><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Fisting\/?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">fisting<\/a> <\/em>&#8211; you must be able to get your hand in past the knuckles. If their vagina or anus is stretched enough and you\u2019re able to slide your hand in, you can now slowly begin to curl your fingers down into a fist formation. <em>Et voila!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And now, if you&#8217;re the <em>fister <\/em>rather than the <em>fistee <\/em>then your exit should be as slowwww as your entry. Make your hand as small as possible and remove a finger at a time as you retract from your partner. Don&#8217;t just pull your hand straight out &#8211; even if they ask you to stop! Always take your time to carefully remove your hand and fingers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Congratulations, you just experienced your first fisting! How was it? Do tell! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Double Up<\/h4>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-fulfiller-monster-light-tone-double-penetration-dildo-9-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Hand+in+the+Cookie+Jar%3A+Stretching+%26+Fisting+Fetish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/8d5de87b-ed2d-4ed4-9fbf-e19986b6cafa\/9ab3c89f-de17-44f3-bcdd-53f885293fcd\/c\/fp17-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - The Fulfiller Monster Double Penetration Dildo\" style=\"width:399px;height:399px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/the-fulfiller-monster-light-tone-double-penetration-dildo-9-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Hand+in+the+Cookie+Jar%3A+Stretching+%26+Fisting+Fetish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>The Fulfiller Monster Light Tone Double Penetration 9 Inch Dildo<\/strong><\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to take this stretching session to further extremes you can begin to add the fingers from your other hand and gradually work up to double fisting. Another variation of double-fisting would be to have one fist in each of their holes. First stretch out one hole, then the other. This will create an unbeatable feeling of fullness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lesbian couples or women\/AFAB&#8217;s fisting themselves will generally find this easier to do as women\/AFAB&#8217;s tend to have conveniently smaller hands. Bonus!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/intense-inflatable-hollow-strap-on-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" data-attachment-id=\"15155\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/fetish-friday\/vaginal-stretching-fisting-fetish\/attachment\/bf93\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bf93\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?resize=720%2C720&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Inflatable Unisex Hollow Strap-On Dildo\" class=\"wp-image-15155\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/bf93.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/intense-inflatable-hollow-strap-on-dildo?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Stretching%20%26%20Fisting%3A%20Hands%20in%20the%20Cookie%20Jar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Inflatable Unisex Hollow Strap-On 9.5 Inch<\/strong> <strong>Dildo<\/strong><\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Final Word<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most importantly, this act may be a little uncomfortable and unusual feeling at first but, when done properly, it should <strong>never ever&nbsp;<\/strong>hurt. 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