{"id":13757,"date":"2020-05-15T10:17:19","date_gmt":"2020-05-15T09:17:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=13757"},"modified":"2024-04-29T14:39:06","modified_gmt":"2024-04-29T13:39:06","slug":"what-is-mutual-masturbation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Mutual Masturbation?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">In this part of our <strong>Masturbation Month<\/strong> series, you\u2019re invited to take a peek at the topic of <em>Mutual Masturbation<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A rewarding way to educate your lover for even better orgasms, our top tips for couples and poly partners will enhance your sensual synchronicity because <em>sharing is caring<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Packed with 12 tips for sex-cess, heighten your horn, let off steam and <em>cum together<\/em> for greater intimacy in your relationship&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Masturbation Nation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">According to a global 2019 survey by the sexual wellness folk at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/tenga?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TENGA<\/a>, 84% of Brits aged 18-54 masturbate while in a relationship. However, despite this staggering majority, four in five still conceal the occasional self-service from their partners (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tenga.co.uk\/?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=What+is+Mutual+Masturbation%3F\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TENGA<\/a>, 2019), with only 59% believing that their partner is aware of their masturbation.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/sex-toys-for-couples?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"724\" height=\"483\" data-attachment-id=\"13786\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/attachment\/surprised-funny-couple-in-love-lying-in-the-bed\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/iStock-618630760.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"724,483\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;6.3&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D800&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Surprised funny couple in love lying in the bed&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1449238164&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;Deagreez&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;27&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Surprised funny couple in love lying in the bed&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Surprised funny couple in love lying in the bed\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Surprised funny couple in love lying in the bed&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/iStock-618630760.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/iStock-618630760.jpg?resize=724%2C483&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - What is Mutual Masturbation? - Men and Women look shocked in bed\" class=\"wp-image-13786\" style=\"width:543px;height:362px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/iStock-618630760.jpg?w=724&amp;ssl=1 724w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/iStock-618630760.jpg?resize=500%2C334&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Half of paired-off Brits already enjoy masturbating together as a rewarding bolt-on to their regularly scheduled programmes. But if our maths is correct, 50% of you still aren&#8217;t turned on to the idea. So, we&#8217;re here to give you a <em>rub in the right direction<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You needn\u2019t hide masturbation from your significant other when you both recognise the pleasure possibilities and intimacy opportunities ahead! When we <em>do <\/em>open up, an overwhelming majority of us find the conversation rather <em>stimulating<\/em>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sharing (Your Masturbation Technique) is Caring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Masturbation<\/em> is typically considered a one-person show, so &#8216;mutual masturbation&#8217; can sound like a contradiction in terms, but it has a few meanings:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The common practice of stimulating your partner while they simultaneously stimulate your sexy parts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Two or more people pleasuring their bodies while together in the same place (real life or via online video).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; we&#8217;ll be sticking to the second definition for this post!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/kEYB2jrHkQgy4\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mutual masturbation can be immensely arousing <em>and<\/em> educational when approached with an open mind. Rich with lessons about what turns you and your partner(s) on, autoerotic shows are a great way to learn and explore each other&#8217;s intimate worlds. So, here are some hot &#8216;n&#8217; heavy pros to the <em>hands-off<\/em> approach&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Show A <em>Deeper<\/em> Side of Yourself<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Opening up to your lover(s) about self-pleasure and self-discovery is an excellent opportunity to boost the intimacy of your partnership. Plus, the lubricating effect of sharing naughty stories is sure to whet your appetites for what&#8217;s the come.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Break the ice by sharing masturbation stories. Like how you first learned how to masturbate, how often you like it, and the weirdest place you\u2019ve done it. Talking about wanking is the perfect way to gauge each other&#8217;s comfort level. It makes for a fascinating learning experience that boosts intimacy and sets a saucy tone for self-love!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Discover What Works for Them<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Find out what type of touch, mindset and settings work for your partner when pursuing pleasure and reaching manual climax. Watching them strum along to their favourite tune gives you invaluable insight on technique, and a peek into their fantasies. This insight can open up your sex life to a new world of fantasy scenarios!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/l1AsAV04FCMOoFyHm\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Set A Game Plan<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To avoid awkwardness, decide upon the state of play before the event. Are you taking turns or doing the do simultaneously? Is it a frisky race to the finish line or a long, luscious lesson for the two of you? Deciding how it will go down beforehand cements a common goal and takes the pressure off during play &#8211; because second-guessing isn&#8217;t sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s no shame in having &#8216;privacy&#8217; during the first few rounds if you&#8217;re feeling shy. Soothe performance anxiety by using a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear\/blindfolds-hoods-masks?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">blindfold<\/a> to recreate the feeling of being alone when mutually masturbating for an increased sense of ease.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alternatively, take things less seriously by adding a sporting dimension to play. Strum slowly in sync or race to see who&#8217;s the climax champion for a quick and memorable mutual sesh&#8217;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"724\" height=\"483\" data-attachment-id=\"19703\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/attachment\/hot-gossip-black-guy-sharing-secret-with-his-shocked-girlfriend\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1217962928.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"724,483\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;9&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 5D Mark III&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Hot Gossip. Black Guy Sharing Secret With His Shocked Girlfriend. Surprised Woman Opens Mouth In Disbelief Over Yellow Studio Background&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1583322331&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;85&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1000&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Hot Gossip. Black Guy Sharing Secret With His Shocked Girlfriend&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Hot Gossip. Black Guy Sharing Secret With His Shocked Girlfriend\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Hot Gossip. Black Guy Sharing Secret With His Shocked Girlfriend. Surprised Woman Opens Mouth In Disbelief Over Yellow Studio Background&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1217962928.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1217962928.jpg?resize=724%2C483&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - What is Mutual Masturbation? - Man whispers to women, women looks shocked\" class=\"wp-image-19703\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1217962928.jpg?w=724&amp;ssl=1 724w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1217962928.jpg?resize=500%2C334&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Empower Your Lover<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Show them <strong>exactly <\/strong>what sensations get you off you when playing solo. Whether that&#8217;s <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/g-spot-vibrators?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\">G-spot pleasure<\/a> from a favourite sex toy, grinding blissfully against a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/vibe-pad-7-function-sit-and-ride-vibrator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Vibepad<\/a>, or the intense shaft and head stimulation of a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/male-sex-toys\/masturbators?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Mutual%20Masturbation%3A%20A%20Touch%20of%20Harmony\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">men&#8217;s masturbator<\/a>. This simple act can be revolutionary for your sex life when your partner understands exactly <em>where <\/em>and <em>how <\/em>to stimulate your sweet spots!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Voyeur or Exhibitionist?<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Are you a <em>looker <\/em>or a <em>show-er<\/em>? Let yourself become the centre of attention or focus solely on your partner(s) enjoyment. Mutual Masturbation brings an exhibitionist\/voyeur\u2019s dynamic to sexual pleasure that can be <em>exceptionally hot!<\/em> Being privy to the dirty talk, grunts, and moans of your boo as they rock their own world is a sure-fire way to get you hot and bothered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Shake Up Your Routine<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Switch up tired sexual routines with a new style of \u2018main event\u2019 that still satisfies the <em>hungriest of appetites<\/em>. Mutual masturbation allows for orgasmic non-penetrative sex if that\u2019s your mood. Plus, it&#8217;s a perfect main course option when you&#8217;re short on time, but both want to climax &#8211; nobody knows how to make you cum quicker than yourself!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Indeed, mutual masturbation can also be lined-up as a pretty tasty way to kick things off too. The sexual energy generated can prolong the excitement and enhance your connection as you move on to the next delicious course!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"724\" height=\"483\" data-attachment-id=\"19704\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/attachment\/female-hands-and-a-donut-on-a-red-background-as-a-symbol-of-masturbation-and-foreplay-prelude-before-sex-touch-the-clitoris-erotic-concept\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1224300559.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"724,483\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;7.1&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 5D Mark II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Female hands and a donut on a red background as a symbol of masturbation and foreplay (prelude) before sex. Touch the clitoris, erotic concept.&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1583153587&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;70&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Female hands and a donut on a red background as a symbol of masturbation and foreplay (prelude) before sex. Touch the clitoris, erotic concept&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Female hands and a donut on a red background as a symbol of masturbation and foreplay (prelude) before sex. Touch the clitoris, erotic concept\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Female hands and a donut on a red background as a symbol of masturbation and foreplay (prelude) before sex. Touch the clitoris, erotic concept.&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1224300559.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1224300559.jpg?resize=724%2C483&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bondara Sex Toys Blog - What is Mutual Masturbation? - Donut leaking cream\" class=\"wp-image-19704\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1224300559.jpg?w=724&amp;ssl=1 724w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1224300559.jpg?resize=500%2C334&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mind the Gap<\/span>!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s only natural to have a different sex drive from your partner, but you can bridge the gap with shared solo pleasure. Mutual masturbation provides sexual relief despite the very common way that you or your partner might not always be \u2018up for it\u2019 at the same time. Mutual masturbation is an affectionate and convenient way to introduce extra excitement into your relationship without feeling pressured to penetrate\/be penetrated or orgasm when you don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even when you\u2019re not in the mood to orgasm, feeling oh-so desired as you excite your horny partner with a sexy show can make you feel fabulous while it provides them with the gratification they&#8217;ve been craving!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Change the Scenery<\/span> <\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Try masturbating together on various pieces of furniture for a different dimension to play. If you\u2019re always in bed, try it on the sofa, in the shower, or sprawled out on the floor! The novelty of new sensations and positions can spark different fantasy scenarios and reveal an even sexier vantage of your partner&#8217;s body &#8211; <em>phwoar!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"328\" data-attachment-id=\"13775\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/attachment\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur.jpg?fit=672%2C328&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"672,328\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"mutual masturbation header blur\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur.jpg?fit=672%2C328&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur.jpg?resize=672%2C328&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Mutual mastubation\" class=\"wp-image-13775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/mutual-masturbation-header-blur.jpg?resize=500%2C244&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Try Phone \/ Video Sex First<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Before getting down face-to-face, try phone and video sex to boost your confidence. If you&#8217;re a talker, voicing your deepest desires over the telephone line might be the one for you. And would-be exhibitionists can warm up with raunchy video calls to their lover to familiarise themselves with the sexy scenario beforehand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Online sex is still mutual masturbation &#8211; just at a distance! But be sure there&#8217;s a decent signal before <em>wacking one off<\/em> via the internet. Poor resolution and dropped calls can be a huge <em>anticlimax<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Safety is Sexy<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mutual masturbation has very little risk of STI transmission due to the lack of contact. But if you&#8217;re contending with a sexual infection in your &#8216;ship and want to share a toy, be sure to use and replace <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-aids-lubes-fun\/condoms?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=What+is+Mutual+Masturbation%3F\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">condoms<\/a> before passing the torch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"724\" height=\"483\" data-attachment-id=\"19705\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/what-is-mutual-masturbation\/attachment\/used-and-new-tissues-on-yellow-background-concept-of-sickness-flu-and-cold-crying-untidy-masturbation\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/iStock-1345877976.jpg?fit=724%2C483&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"724,483\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;16&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 77D&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Used and new tissues on blue background. 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We repeat: DO NOT WORRY! Orgasms are the cherry on top of that perfectly glazed bun and not the be-all and end-all. Performance pressure will kill your vibe and get you <em>in your head<\/em> when you should be <em>in your body<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To avoid losing your cool in the heat of the moment, centre yourself with some erotic mindfulness by focusing on the various sensations of your pleasure. Or, just take pause, breathe, and enjoy the thrills and spills of the super-sexy show that your partner is sharing with you. It could be worse, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember, your <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">only<\/span> responsibility is to explore and satisfy <em>yourself<\/em> in this scenario. 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