{"id":10468,"date":"2020-06-20T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=10468"},"modified":"2024-06-07T17:17:53","modified_gmt":"2024-06-07T16:17:53","slug":"guide-sexting-six-steps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Guide to Sexting in Six Steps"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Shakespeare may have had his sonnets, but we\u2019ve got <em>sexting<\/em>. The <em>sext<\/em> is the perfect masturbatory medium for long-distance lovin\u2019 and lockdown boredom-busting, but \u2013 most of all &#8211; it&#8217;s <em>really <\/em>fun! Honestly, there\u2019s nothing quite like it for letting off steam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A horny text can be an amuse-bouche to foreplay; a psychological playground to explore your dirty mind and discover what <em>really <\/em>turns them on. All the while, you&#8217;re generating filth from your fingertips at record-breaking characters per second!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And sure, sexting isn\u2019t <em>rocket science<\/em>, but there are a few key things you could bear in mind before dirtying your text transcripts&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, we\u2019ve taken a retrospective look at our chat histories to give you our six top dos and don&#8217;ts for a successful sext sesh&#8217;!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2121\" height=\"1414\" data-attachment-id=\"14550\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/young-woman-using-a-smartphone-in-bed\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?fit=2121%2C1414&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2121,1414\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;5.6&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Getty Images\/iStockphoto&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D810&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;closeup of a young caucasian woman face down in bed using a smartphone&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1438721977&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;nito100&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;35&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;125&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;young woman using a smartphone in bed&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"young woman using a smartphone in bed\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;closeup of a young caucasian woman face down in bed using a smartphone&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?fit=800%2C534&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?fit=800%2C534&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14550\" style=\"width:600px;height:400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?w=2121&amp;ssl=1 2121w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?resize=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?resize=2048%2C1365&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/iStock-496714104.jpg?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. It\u2019s the Little Things That Count<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If there\u2019s ever a good time to proof-read your text, it\u2019s just before hitting send on series of sexts. You don\u2019t want to accidentally \u2018<em>duck<\/em>\u2019 your boo, no matter how persistent auto-correct maybe! So, take the time to ensure your message is legible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clean punctuation makes all the difference. Exclamation marks and full capitals can take your text from sexy to <em>over-bearing<\/em>, so remember the three S\u2019s: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Smooth<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seductive <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Subtle<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>To emoji or not to emoji?<\/em> \u2013 that\u2019s how it goes, right? It pretty much comes down to personal preference but, if you\u2019re unsure, leave them out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Although there\u2019s no mistaking the implicit meaning of the aubergine and peach emojis, they\u2019ve become <em>so <\/em>popular that they\u2019ve lost their sex appeal! No-one blinks an eye if they see an aubergine emoji pop up on their Twitter feed, so it\u2019s a good idea to keep it off your sexts unless irony is a part of your flirting technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if you\u2019re talking about a willy, don\u2019t be afraid to just type \u2018dick\u2019 or &#8216;cock&#8217;. Not only is it way sexier than \u2018<em>I want to suck your *aubergine emoji*<\/em>\u2019, but it also shows confidence \u2013 A universally attractive trait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Timing Is Crucial<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Timing is important if your <em>sextee<\/em> (person receiving your sexts) is at work or a family event. Yes, the whole \u2018surprise sext\u2019 can be hot, but you don\u2019t want to embarrass them in front of their regional manager or inadvertently crash a catch-up with their BFF.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, <strong>do <\/strong>test the water before you send a NSFW text. Start by writing \u2018<em>I couldn&#8217;t stop thinking about you last night<\/em>&#8230;\u2019, for example. If they respond with something flirty, consider it a green light for dirty talk!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"447\" data-attachment-id=\"14565\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/shutterstock_1235525644-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1235525644-1.jpg?fit=672%2C447&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"672,447\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"shutterstock_1235525644-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1235525644-1.jpg?fit=672%2C447&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1235525644-1.jpg?resize=672%2C447&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14565\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1235525644-1.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1235525644-1.jpg?resize=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or, if you&#8217;re in a committed <em>sextship <\/em>(sexting relationship), <strong>do <\/strong>mutually decide on a code word for checking when it&#8217;s appropriate. Perhaps agree on something mundane or silly like &#8220;Do you want <em>fish and chips<\/em>?&#8221;. It may not be the right time for dirty chat, but it&#8217;ll make them chuckle and call to mind your recent hot sexts. This might inspire a quick-fire sesh&#8217; as soon as they&#8217;re available &#8211; Or a round of battered cod from the chippy. Either way, <em>win-win<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Don\u2019t<\/strong> start something you can\u2019t finish. There\u2019s a huge difference between being a tease and putting your sexting buddy off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you send a dirty text and then leave them turned on while you go and do your weekly food shop, they\u2019ll be bored and frustrated by the time you finally reply &#8211;&nbsp;Stay focussed! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Don\u2019t <\/strong>switch from expressing how horny you are to discussing the latest office drama. Keep your head in the game, <em>fire thumbs<\/em>! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You&#8217;ve really got to be in it to win it with sexting, so pick your timing carefully and then commit to the dirty talk for unbeatable wanker-tainment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Find The Perfect Angle<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First, <strong>always <\/strong>tread carefully with nudes (that is if you\u2019d even like to send one). Know and <em>trust <\/em>your audience, and be certain that they definitely want to see you in <em>all<\/em> your glory. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"394\" data-attachment-id=\"14563\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/shutterstock_1262062708-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1262062708-1.jpg?fit=672%2C394&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"672,394\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"shutterstock_1262062708-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1262062708-1.jpg?fit=672%2C394&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1262062708-1.jpg?resize=672%2C394&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14563\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1262062708-1.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_1262062708-1.jpg?resize=500%2C293&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Plus, before sending NSFW photos or videos, you&#8217;ll need to get real with the consideration that your most fire submissions will likely be saved to a convenient wank bank folder on their phone. And that&#8217;s your decision to weigh up, boo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to give them a jaw-dropping visual to enjoy, but don\u2019t like the idea of sending a traditional nude (tits, vag, cock and ass), try focussing on suggestive erogenous zones instead, such as your lips or thighs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-flirt-floral-strappy-cami-and-knicker?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14673\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/eg84\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"&lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-flirt-floral-strappy-cami-and-knicker&quot;&gt;Bondara Flirt Floral Strappy Cami and Knicker&lt;\/a&gt;\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Bondara Flirt Floral Strappy Cami and Knicker&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?resize=540%2C540&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14673\" width=\"540\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg84.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-flirt-floral-strappy-cami-and-knicker?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Bondara Flirt Floral Strappy Cami and Knicker<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-flirt-red-fishnet-open-cup-crotchless-bodystocking?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14681\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/eg88-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"eg88-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?resize=540%2C540&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14681\" width=\"540\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/eg88-1.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-flirt-red-fishnet-open-cup-crotchless-bodystocking?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bondara Flirt Red Fishnet Open Cup Crotchless Bodystocking<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s also nothing to stop you from keeping your <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/lingerie-underwear?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">underwear<\/a> on! Think of a strip club pole dance vs. a strategically covered burlesque act. Both are hot because sexiness is relative (and not related to cubic inches of nudity), and so how much you reveal is up to you! <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/lingerie-underwear\/lingerie-for-women?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Sexy lingerie<\/a> or <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/lingerie-underwear\/underwear-for-men?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">stud-like undies<\/a> are universally well received and will spark your sextee&#8217;s <em>imagination<\/em> no end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But if things are going well and getting <em>really <\/em>heated (and you&#8217;re ready to go there), dare to grab your favourite sex toy for a sexy show n&#8217; tell to blow their mind. <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/sex-toys\/dildos\/suction-cup-dildos?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Suction dildos<\/a> are fab because they&#8217;re hands-free, so you can focus on getting the right camera angle, or you can use your hands for clitoral stimulation or a full-body caress! Try these fabulous newbies on for size (see below).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-love-sucks-ivy-green-suction-cup-dildo-6-or-7-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14675\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/by57\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"by57\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?resize=360%2C360&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14675\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/by57.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-love-sucks-light-tone-suction-cup-dildo-6-or-7-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\"><br><\/a><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-love-sucks-ivy-green-suction-cup-dildo-6-or-7-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Bondara Love Sucks Ivy Green Suction Cup Dildo<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-rose-pink-10-function-remote-vibrating-dildo-7-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14676\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/bw33\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bw33\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?resize=360%2C360&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14676\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bw33.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-rose-pink-10-function-remote-vibrating-dildo-7-inch?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Bondara Ros\u00e9 Pink 10 Function Remote Vibrating Dildo<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And we&#8217;re definitely not just talking to the ladies\/AFABs here. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/male-sex-toys?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Male\/AMAB pleasure products<\/a> are on the rise in 2020. And take it from us, receiving a self-taped video of your crush moaning while he pleasures himself with his favourite sex toy is a thing of beauty. It&#8217;s time to upgrade from your hand and have a go, guys!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-pinpoint-10-function-butt-plug-with-cock-and-ball-ring?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14678\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/bq11-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bq11-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?resize=360%2C360&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14678\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bq11-1.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondara-pinpoint-10-function-butt-plug-with-cock-and-ball-ring?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Bondara Pinpoint 10 Function Butt Plug with Cock and Ball Ring<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/clear-jelly-masturbator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"14677\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/ag14\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"720,720\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ag14\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?fit=720%2C720&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?resize=360%2C360&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14677\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/ag14.jpg?resize=250%2C250&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/clear-jelly-masturbator?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">Clear Jelly Masturbator &#8211; 5.5 Inch<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But of course, if you don\u2019t feel like sending a saucy picture or vid&#8217;, you should never feel pressured to. So, if they request one and you don&#8217;t want to, gently express that you aren&#8217;t comfortable with that and continue chatting. And if they pester and make you feel uncomfortable &#8211; block\/unfollow\/CTRL+Alt+Del their ass, <em>periodt<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sexting Is a Two-Way Street<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The key to sexting is in <em>your <\/em>response. Yes, even if they send you that eye-watering sext so potent that you find yourself having to take a break for some <em>personal <\/em>time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rather than letting them put <em>all <\/em>the work in and giving the occasional \u2018<em>that sounds good<\/em>\u2019, <strong>do <\/strong><em>react <\/em>to what they\u2019re saying in equal measure. For instance, tell them how turned on you are and how much you wish they were there with you. Ask them what they\u2019re currently fantasising about; what they want to do to you and, most importantly, tell them what you want to do <em>to them<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/g0lKaDKW6Yr5u\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Slow and steady wins the race, <\/em>so tease, flirt and introduce foreplay to your sexting. Sex in RL is so much more than just physical contact. All of our senses are aroused in the heat of the moment; sound, sight, smell and taste all play a key part, so don\u2019t forget to touch on these enriching details when describing your fantasies in text-form &#8211; from first tempting touch to body-quaking climax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Knowledge Is Power<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re yet to have RL sex with your sextee, this is your chance to shine \u2013 <em>and take notes<\/em> \ud83d\ude09 Use dirty messaging to subtly coach them on what you like in bed and also to get an idea of what <em>they <\/em>like. Have they mentioned their favourite sex position or fantasy? Bear those things in mind, and you can always refer to your chat logs for a handy future reminder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexting is an excellent way to break the ice and get to know your crush intimately; to peak their curiosity and initiate their fantasies about how hot you&#8217;ll be when (or <em>if<\/em>) it comes to the real thing.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"448\" data-attachment-id=\"14564\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/guide-sexting-six-steps\/attachment\/shutterstock_382547317-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_382547317-1.jpg?fit=672%2C448&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"672,448\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"shutterstock_382547317-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_382547317-1.jpg?fit=672%2C448&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_382547317-1.jpg?resize=672%2C448&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14564\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_382547317-1.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/shutterstock_382547317-1.jpg?resize=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How do you know each other? Are they someone you\u2019ve met before? Why not tell them how sexy you thought they looked? Not only will it give them an ego boost, but it\u2019ll also let them know you\u2019ve been fantasising about them long before now which is super complimentary\/arousing (everyone <em>loves <\/em>to be desired).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if you\u2019re in a relationship with the person you\u2019re dirty messaging or you\u2019ve hooked up before, why not play on previous experience? Mention a <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/bondage-gear-fetish-wear?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">kinky<\/a> shared memory to give your text-based tryst a headstart before they get home for the main course \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Couples should definitely consider experimenting with the innovative app-controlled <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/we-vibe-jive-pink-10-function-app-control-rechargeable-love-egg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">We-Vibe Jive<\/a> for remote stimulation (see below). There are more exciting couple&#8217;s pleasure products in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/we-vibe?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">We-Vibe range<\/a>. Feel the buzz by a long-distance tap of a button. Check the cutting edge sex tech out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/brands\/we-vibe?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">here<\/a> to see for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/we-vibe-jive-10-function-app-controlled-rechargeable-love-egg?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/729fbe11-b7dd-446b-b365-bb2d2d76df35\/f681fd97-082d-40a6-8336-a34a84182ccc\/c\/ct53-large.jpg?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:360px;height:360px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/we-vibe-jive-pink-10-function-app-control-rechargeable-love-egg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sext Tech: We-Vibe Jive 10 Function App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Reality vs. Fantasy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A sext is not a promise \u2013 and that\u2019s part of the fun! <strong>Do <\/strong>step outside your comfort zone and pound the send button on that risqu\u00e9 Whatsapp IM. Proactive flirtation is incredible for both the ego and your confidence levels when it&#8217;s done in good measure. And remember, sexting is just as much about turning yourself on as the other person, so you should feel excited and aroused by what <em>you\u2019re <\/em>writing too!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexting is <em>all <\/em>to do with imagination. Remember: they can\u2019t see you so if they ask what you\u2019re wearing and you\u2019re in your old-but-too-comfy-to-throw-away pyjamas, <em>lie<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/media.giphy.com\/media\/PQ2cs5zaEbL8I\/giphy.gif?w=800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:195px;height:195px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have them picture you lying in a <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/lingerie-underwear\/lingerie-for-women\/sexy-babydolls-chemises?utm_source=Blog&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_campaign=Your%20Guide%20to%20Sexting%20in%20Six%20Steps\" target=\"_blank\">skimpy chemise<\/a> or naked and dripping wet, fresh out of the shower for better effect. These lil&#8217; porky pies are totally absolved by the mental roleplaying at hand. So <strong>don&#8217;t <\/strong>be a stickler for the truth if it doesn&#8217;t fit the fantasy, OK? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Similarly, if they ask what you\u2019re doing, <strong>don\u2019t <\/strong>reply &#8220;<em>I&#8217;m just bored and trying to kill time while I wait for my takeaway to arrive<\/em>&#8221; \u2013 even if it\u2019s true! <em>Hell<\/em>, we don\u2019t condone lying but, for a successful sext, a white lie is sometimes necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While saying all of this, <strong>don\u2019t <\/strong>be tempted to overstretch the truth if you plan on taking things face-to-face. Push the boundaries, but don\u2019t claim that you have a 10-inch dick if it&#8217;s perfectly average or the ability to do gravity-defying yoga sex poses if there\u2019s no hope of you even touching your toes. 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