I’m pretty sure we all know what it means to be pussy whipped – and we all have that one mate who really is under the thumb, but today we’re talking about actually pussy whipping, as is, taking a whip to the pussy.
As a part of BDSM, pussy whipping, or cock whipping, can be enjoyed as pain or pleasure. In a standard scenario, the sub may be restrained, or forced into submission, and then whipped or flogged on various parts of their body, which gradually progresses to whipping of the genitalia.
Just like with ‘vanilla foreplay’, it’s always good to begin by stimulating the less sensitive areas, or, the less exciting erogenous zones, in order to build anticipation, excitement and arousal.
The Dom, or Domme, may begin by caning the buttocks or flogging the thighs, to increase blood flow to the surface of the skin and heightening sensitivity. As the Dom(me) gets closer to the genitals, the sub will become more excited, or afraid, or both, and may already have a wet pussy or throbbing erection.
A soft whipping can be a highly pleasurable and sensual experience, and continual, rhythmic stimulation may result in orgasm. Harder whipping or flogging may be considered a part of BDSM punishment, but sometimes of course pain is pleasure, and whipping your sub’s cock or pussy reminds them of their place and shows them who is in charge.
Very hard cock whipping could be considered a part of Cock and Ball Torture (CBT). As well as the physical sensation of the experience, cock whipping is humiliating and can be a very arousing part of Femdom (Female Domination).
I found a brief story of a gay Dom’s experience of torturing his sub cock by whipping and slapping it. He paints quite a vivid picture of a scenario which you may find very arousing, if you’re into that sort of thing;
“I think cock whipping and slapping is the best form of torture. I love to slap a cock around from side to side with my hand. I also like to use a penis whip because that stings quite nicely. I’m also into hitting a sub’s cock quite hard with my riding crop. It can be great fun while he’s restrained and also while he’s under my rimming seat, tongue up my hole and legs spread wide apart to leave his cock and balls exposed and vulnerable.” – justusboys.com
Supposedly, cock smacking or cock torture is something you can do by yourself without a Dom(me) or a whip, simply by going for a run without wearing any underwear. As you run your cock will smack against your thighs and torso, and as the experience arouses you, your cock will harden, adding to the weight and making the run even more painful.
Cock whipping, or cock slapping can also be a part of edging, orgasm control and orgasm denial. One partner may pleasure the man with their mouth or hands until he is reaching the point of orgasm then withdraw the pleasurable sensation and whip or slap his cock. This practice will encourage blood flow whilst restricting his ability to reach orgasm.
Orgasm control or denial can be extremely frustrating and tormenting, perhaps even a torture in its self. After a few moments of whipping, the man’s partner may return to fellatio, and then once again withdraw to physically abuse his cock. Some men get a real kick out of edging and being denied orgasm completely, as the sexual experience never really comes to an end; they’re always left aching for more.
Well if you think that pussy or cock whipping could be an interesting addition to your bedroom play, there are a wide range of whips, floggers, canes, spanking paddles, bondage restraints and more at Bondara.co.uk, in many colours and styles to suit any taste.
I hope you all have a sore and sexy weekend xx
