Eye Contact Restrictions

Sometimes the simplest things can have the largest effect, like uttering certain words, or the slightest caressing touch. Eye contact is perhaps the most powerful tool of all, capable of seduction or destruction, and restricting someone’s eye contact, well, that’s just cruel 😉

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In the kinky world of BDSM, where one party is Dominant and the other is submissive, there are many ways in which the Dom(me) can assert their authority over the sub, and eye contact restriction may be the simplest and most effective of them all.

The sub, first and foremost, should be ‘below’ the Dom(me); be that physically kneeling, stood against the wall or in some other position, the ‘bottom’ should be made to feel lowly and pathetic. The sub may also be nude or wearing a dog collar for further humiliation.

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Now to create a feeling of isolation, domination and perhaps even fear; the Dom(me) can restrict the sub’s eye contact, forbidding them to look up thus stripping them of their most powerful sense.

A sub will generally be told to keep their eyes on the floor and most certainly keep their unworthy gaze away from the face of their master or mistress. Being unable to look up makes the sub feel vulnerable, unable to see what’s going on around them and are unaware of what’s about to happen; a spank, a whip or even the pressure of a stiletto heel in the buttocks.

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Eye contact restrictions are also a low maintenance affair, you don’t need expensive rubber clothing or a fully kitted out bondage dungeon, you just need your words and your authority.

Even more fun is that your sub is sure to ‘break’ at some point, unable to resist gazing into the eyes of their Dom(me), at which point you can punish them in any way you deem fit; a slap to the face, ten firm licks of the cane, making them lick the toilet seat… all completely acceptable punishments in BDSM terms (assuming you discussed a list of acceptable punishments before beginning your role play).

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Some submissives enjoy having their eye contact restricted as it removes pressure and adds an air of mystery. Others just enjoy it as part of domination and humiliation, just as they would being told to drink from a dog bowl on the floor. To obscure even more of your partner’s vision you could use a blindfold, completely removing their ability to see, or a full facial hood to block out even more senses.

 

 

101 comments
  1. Cheryl Kean
    Cheryl Kean
    February 28, 2014 at 11:17 am

    MMmmmmmm wicked giveaway! just whats needed to spice my hubby up. x

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  2. lisa sargent
    lisa sargent
    February 28, 2014 at 11:48 am

    Just what my life needs a bit of excitement 🙂

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  3. Ibo
    Ibo
    February 28, 2014 at 12:15 pm

    …I can see the angst in my partner’s face already…

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  4. Leticia
    Leticia
    February 28, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    Pretty please

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  5. tony dean
    tony dean
    February 28, 2014 at 12:28 pm

    i am sure i could use this lot to turn my wife in to a sub or maybe she will turn the tables on me for a change

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  6. Andy Caldwell
    Andy Caldwell
    February 28, 2014 at 12:31 pm

    I was going to leave a comment but I’m all tied up

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  7. James bricknell
    James bricknell
    February 28, 2014 at 12:34 pm

    My sub finds this very difficult. She just can’t resist looking when I speak. I think she likes the punishment.

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  8. Katie K
    Katie K
    February 28, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    Gives me tingles just looking at that little lot! 🙂

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  9. Gaz Johnson
    Gaz Johnson
    February 28, 2014 at 1:32 pm

    Fantastic, I’m grinning with the glee I can have with my Mrs soon. X

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  10. Sandy
    Sandy
    February 28, 2014 at 2:03 pm

    awesome who doesnt like a little bondage.

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  11. K.C.Mankell
    K.C.Mankell
    February 28, 2014 at 2:31 pm

    Is getting the CAPTCHA right part of the punishment?

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  12. Brands
    Brands
    February 28, 2014 at 2:47 pm

    mmm my wife and i would love to use this at home…or on holiday…or anywhere 😉

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  13. John
    John
    February 28, 2014 at 2:55 pm

    just what me & the Mrs (or should that be MISTRESS) could do with to keep thing interesting after 21 years of marriage!

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  14. Chris
    Chris
    February 28, 2014 at 5:58 pm

    Lots of new things to explore!

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  15. kram
    kram
    February 28, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    my missus is already getting herself in a tangle with this one.

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  16. IanM
    IanM
    February 28, 2014 at 7:18 pm

    My missus would never let me buy any of this but if I won it then we could have some fun

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  17. Richard Randall
    Richard Randall
    February 28, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Fruity fun for BDSM fans.

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  18. Jennifer Bond
    Jennifer Bond
    February 28, 2014 at 8:13 pm

    Naughty but nice 😉

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  19. mark lawrence
    mark lawrence
    March 1, 2014 at 8:33 am

    looks like fun

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  20. nick ashton
    nick ashton
    March 1, 2014 at 8:49 am

    love a good whipping

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  21. claire woods
    claire woods
    March 1, 2014 at 11:43 am

    hem hem, I have a friend who would like this!

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  22. NINO AMOROSO
    NINO AMOROSO
    March 1, 2014 at 12:32 pm

    My wife won’t know what hit her! 🙂

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  23. Colin Gault
    Colin Gault
    March 1, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    Makes hair stand on my neck

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  24. Laura Pritchard
    Laura Pritchard
    March 1, 2014 at 4:10 pm

    Hot prize 🙂

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  25. Sarah Nixon
    Sarah Nixon
    March 1, 2014 at 5:32 pm

    This looks amazing!!!! Something new to spice things up a little is a great idea.x

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  26. Siobhan
    Siobhan
    March 1, 2014 at 5:40 pm

    Interesting, I’d never thought about it in this much detail before. Time to put some ideas into fruition I think 😉

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  27. Sharon Terry
    Sharon Terry
    March 1, 2014 at 7:18 pm

    Fabulous prize….count me in!

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  28. stewart
    stewart
    March 2, 2014 at 4:32 am

    Getting knots in the stomach just thinking about it lol

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  29. Karen Gallagher
    Karen Gallagher
    March 2, 2014 at 4:09 pm

    My husband would love this!

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  30. martin
    martin
    March 2, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Ideal wedding present for us !
    love, honour, and now obey

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  31. Ali
    Ali
    March 2, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    I used to think I couldn’t be classed as ‘submissive’ because I’m not particularly fond of pain, but I like the feeling of being owned by my partner when he spanks me.

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  32. Danny Beattie
    Danny Beattie
    March 2, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    My girlfriend & I would love to have this to try out together :3 We are just getting into this type of play!

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  33. Audrey Cameron
    Audrey Cameron
    March 2, 2014 at 8:54 pm

    Another great giveaway would love to surprise my other half with this amazing prize

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  34. adele
    adele
    March 2, 2014 at 8:54 pm

    Oooh winning these would put a smile on my boyfriends face,he’d love to drag me about on a leash!

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  35. Lydden
    Lydden
    March 2, 2014 at 9:13 pm

    really hoping today’s my lucky day.;-)

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  36. Lydden
    Lydden
    March 2, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    really hoping today’s my lucky day 😉

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  37. Sammy Rowley
    Sammy Rowley
    March 2, 2014 at 9:26 pm

    I love a bit of this! Nothing sexier.

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  38. Blokeh
    Blokeh
    March 2, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    If I didn’t enter this competition, the wife would beat me – and not in a good way either!

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  39. Claire griffiths
    Claire griffiths
    March 2, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    Very nice prize count me in

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  40. PS
    PS
    March 2, 2014 at 9:54 pm

    Great prize.

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  41. Gill Witton
    Gill Witton
    March 2, 2014 at 10:16 pm

    Ooooh yes please *on knees begging* 🙂

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  42. Lisa
    Lisa
    March 3, 2014 at 12:07 am

    Ooh,me likey a lot!!! 😉

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  43. georgie p
    georgie p
    March 3, 2014 at 12:49 am

    oooh, go on then…..

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  44. Laura
    Laura
    March 3, 2014 at 12:52 am

    Cant tell u how much I need this kit,
    I broke my cuffs +snapped my whip,
    Could walk my puppy wit the collar +chain,
    And the gag should muffle his yelps of pain 😛

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  45. Michaela Ward
    Michaela Ward
    March 3, 2014 at 6:18 am

    Just what the doctor ordered!!

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  46. MIA WILLIAMSON
    MIA WILLIAMSON
    March 3, 2014 at 6:26 am

    it’s a great way of stopping my Husband from watching damn sport on TV all of the time.

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  47. CHRIS A
    CHRIS A
    March 3, 2014 at 6:37 am

    ooohhh yes please – ooohhh no thank you

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  48. claire turner
    claire turner
    March 3, 2014 at 9:12 am

    ooo I’d love this, perfect to give my 214 the kinky kick it needs!

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  49. Ashley Matthews
    Ashley Matthews
    March 3, 2014 at 9:49 am

    A very nice bundle, and another great article. Love reading these.

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  50. cara-jane hunter
    cara-jane hunter
    March 3, 2014 at 11:02 am

    Sorry, no i can’t come to work, i’m a little tied up!

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  51. Daniel Stacey
    Daniel Stacey
    March 3, 2014 at 11:37 am

    Wow, looks fun

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  52. Laura Henderson
    Laura Henderson
    March 3, 2014 at 5:13 pm

    Oooh….Yes please Master!!!

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  53. Ian T
    Ian T
    March 3, 2014 at 6:23 pm

    Bought a bondage kit from you before Christmas but this one has everything, looks really comprehensive. Love to win one of these for my girlfriend. Would definitely get some use out of it. Wearing our other gear out.

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  54. Phil Bowell
    Phil Bowell
    March 3, 2014 at 6:30 pm

    Dirty weekend away calling

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  55. Philip Bowell
    Philip Bowell
    March 3, 2014 at 6:35 pm

    Dirty weekend calling

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  56. zizzle
    zizzle
    March 3, 2014 at 8:47 pm

    This would be a nice surprise to the misses.

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  57. Mark Hills
    Mark Hills
    March 4, 2014 at 1:09 am

    Lots of things in mind. Yes please.

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  58. Hannah Lord
    Hannah Lord
    March 4, 2014 at 10:40 am

    wow what a prize I could have a lot of fun with this special collection 😉

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  59. Giles English
    Giles English
    March 4, 2014 at 2:37 pm

    Could have some “fun” with these…

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  60. Chris
    Chris
    March 4, 2014 at 2:50 pm

    Ohhhh this would be an excellent Easter holiday present <3

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  61. Mike
    Mike
    March 4, 2014 at 2:55 pm

    I would love to win this amazing kit

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  62. Paula
    Paula
    March 4, 2014 at 2:56 pm

    A bit sad that I’m currently single, need to find someone to play with soon

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  63. MinxyMischief
    MinxyMischief
    March 4, 2014 at 3:02 pm

    Ohh my! What fun I could have with these! Love nothing better than a night at my favourite fetish club, there would get put to good use! No doubt about that! Awesome prize! Fingers crossed!

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  64. Bakerson
    Bakerson
    March 4, 2014 at 3:02 pm

    I love the high quality look of all this bondage kit – it looks rugged and able to withhold the struggles of a naughty sub such as myself

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  65. Ant
    Ant
    March 4, 2014 at 3:30 pm

    Could this be my first ever competition win..?

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  66. Andrew Halliwell
    Andrew Halliwell
    March 4, 2014 at 4:05 pm

    very nice, look good quality too. So it’s not the common tat you find in sex shops.

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  67. Phoenix CM
    Phoenix CM
    March 4, 2014 at 5:48 pm

    mmm, i wouldn’t mind that

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  68. Mike Martin
    Mike Martin
    March 5, 2014 at 10:46 am

    i would love to try this out

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  69. Tinkerbelle
    Tinkerbelle
    March 5, 2014 at 12:33 pm

    always looking for some special bonding time with my guy

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  70. owen thomas
    owen thomas
    March 5, 2014 at 1:23 pm

    this would lead to trouble me thinks , and buying some rope for some knotty fun

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  71. Cassandra Helena
    Cassandra Helena
    March 5, 2014 at 3:19 pm

    Great prize! Would love to try this out with my boyfriend.

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  72. Jennifer Rhymer
    Jennifer Rhymer
    March 5, 2014 at 4:06 pm

    Every Friday should be Fetish Friday 🙂

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  73. Louise
    Louise
    March 5, 2014 at 4:37 pm

    Would have lots of fun with this prize. Good luck everyone.

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  74. Janine Atkin
    Janine Atkin
    March 5, 2014 at 5:14 pm

    alot of fun to be had witrh this lot

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  75. Tracey
    Tracey
    March 5, 2014 at 6:08 pm

    oh – he would be so so pleased with me if I could win this

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  76. Mrs C
    Mrs C
    March 5, 2014 at 7:03 pm

    Just up my street.

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  77. Matt Jensen
    Matt Jensen
    March 6, 2014 at 3:07 am

    Hello, It’s time to have kinky fun.

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  78. Graham Harris
    Graham Harris
    March 6, 2014 at 9:01 am

    oo rr misses

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  79. Zara
    Zara
    March 6, 2014 at 9:19 am

    Oooh, exciting

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  80. Julia Morris
    Julia Morris
    March 6, 2014 at 9:56 am

    Wow..exciting prize! I would love to try it. Haven’t done this before but always wanted to 🙂 x

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  81. Chris M
    Chris M
    March 6, 2014 at 10:41 am

    Oh yes please! This kit would get a lot of use in my house!

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  82. Carl
    Carl
    March 6, 2014 at 10:44 am

    Well this should spice things up very nicely!!!

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  83. keshia hughes
    keshia hughes
    March 6, 2014 at 12:29 pm

    my girlfriend is also on about trying new things i would love to try this with her

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  84. monika s
    monika s
    March 6, 2014 at 12:29 pm

    Oh, yes, please
    MY man would love to see me in this

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  85. Penny Ford
    Penny Ford
    March 6, 2014 at 12:55 pm

    Lovely set. Yes please

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  86. Darrell
    Darrell
    March 6, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    This’ll be great for ‘punishing’ that naughty girlfriend of mine!

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  87. corina cullen
    corina cullen
    March 6, 2014 at 1:19 pm

    I could cuff the hubby to the bed and go out with my mates

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  88. Keith H
    Keith H
    March 6, 2014 at 2:08 pm

    Great way to stop the wife watching soaps.

    Reply
  89. Anji
    Anji
    March 6, 2014 at 5:27 pm

    Yes please Sir!!! Xxxx

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  90. Bruno Hardy
    Bruno Hardy
    March 6, 2014 at 5:36 pm

    OMG WOW!! I could REALLY create some INTENSE pleasure and EXQUISITE pain with that lovely little collection of toys!!

    Love,
    Bruno xxx

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  91. ian porter
    ian porter
    March 6, 2014 at 5:56 pm

    My dream, plz plz pick me

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  92. cheryl holder
    cheryl holder
    March 6, 2014 at 6:27 pm

    Mmm wud luv this not only to expand my toybag but ta see the look on my fuck buddies face wen hes tied up nd whipped like the lil bitch he is lol

    Reply
  93. Naomi Jordan
    Naomi Jordan
    March 6, 2014 at 6:28 pm

    I prefer to have my sight taken away, and prefer to restrict others. I can be more confident that way!

    Reply
  94. Kevin Minihane
    Kevin Minihane
    March 6, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    Very interesting

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  95. mrp
    mrp
    March 6, 2014 at 7:06 pm

    The anticipation as your hear your tormentor moving around, while your eyes are covered. Not knowing what’s coming next, but willing it to happen.

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  96. Stephen Todd
    Stephen Todd
    March 6, 2014 at 7:11 pm

    Just what I need to keep my pet under control.

    Reply
  97. steve williams
    steve williams
    March 6, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    Great present for my dads 60th birthday next week. A new lease of life for my dad

    Reply
  98. Peter
    Peter
    March 6, 2014 at 9:01 pm

    The competition is now closed.

    Thank you for all the entries, we will announce the winner at 10am tomorrow.

    Reply
  99. Stef Holland
    Stef Holland
    March 6, 2014 at 10:17 pm

    Ooooh!!!

    Reply
  100. Peter
    Peter
    March 7, 2014 at 10:04 am

    Congratulations to Kram who is the winner of the luxury bondage set.

    Once again thank you for all the entries and keep your eyes peeled on Pinterest for another competition soon.

    Reply
  101. Granddad
    Granddad
    July 31, 2015 at 9:34 am

    New to the ‘BLOG’ section of Bondara I found this very Educational to read the comments, I often fantasise about my old school-teacher (Miss Stafford)& her very strict teaching methods, I doubt I would be so brave as to invite punishment now but I can dream. x

    Reply
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