Exophilia is the fetish for sex with an alien. This umbrella term also covers robots (technophilia), ghosts (spectrophilia) and all other fetishistic predilections for non-human life forms.
To someone with an alien fetish, there are many elements of the extraterrestrial fantasy which are appealing…
Fantasies about encounters with the Third Kind can range from abduction to probing; inter-species impregnation to copping off with the sexy space lady on-board your imaginary starship!
Indeed, the thought of being stolen from your bed in the middle of the night via a glowing tractor beam is exciting and terrifying at the same time! To some, fantasising about being a curiosity to aliens makes a person feel unique and interesting. But then comes the probing…
Probing for Pleasure
Admittedly, I often think that bright, gadgety dildos look quite like alien probes, light sabers, or martian cocks. So, if you ever do fancy a little outer space roleplay it would be quite easy to pull off the aesthetic. Just buy a cheap Halloween mask, a few colourful dildos, neon lighting, and cover your bed in tin foil to set the scene for space-age sex! Sorted 😉
Fear Fetish
A sexual fetish for an alien abduction fantasy is somewhat similar to that of a fetish for vampires, monsters and ghosts. In all such fantasies you’re the victim being eaten, hurt, pleasured, desired, raped or probed by a non-human mystical being. The creature hungers for your flesh in any manner of different ways and you’re completely helpless and unable to escape.
So why would someone fantasise about an alien abduction?
Well for some it is the element of fear. Fear can be a notable driving factor for many people sexually, especially within the BDSM community. We experiment with fear by way of inflicting pain, depriving the senses and relinquishing all control. With fear, we experience a rush of adrenaline which is exciting and can greatly heighten your sexual experience.
Interspecies Inclination
The kinky appeal of an alien fetishism may also lie in the rather taboo nature of having sex with a non-human being. It’s wrong, it’s dirty, it’s potentially dangerous… and that’s what can make it so hot!
To desire the eggs of an alien is even more bizarre. The ‘victim’ may enjoy the idea of a strange creature growing inside them and that their body is being used as a human host!
Sci-Fi Pin-Ups
Of course, not all ET fetishism will centre around an abduction scenario; some alien lovers may prefer a ‘normal’ sexual relationship with a martian or even a submissive alien!
If you have a quick look online, you’ll find many examples of hyper-sexualised aliens (primarily female), drawn and admired by sci-fi geeks and comic book nerds.
In popular culture we’ve seen many sexy aliens over the years; Mystique from X-Men, LeeLoo from The Fifth Element, Seven of Nine from Star Trek: Voyager (my dad’s favourite) and Princess Neytiri from Avatar.
So if you’re into extraterrestrials and would quite like to be abducted, probed and impregnated then head over to your nearest crop field, look up and hope for the best!
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