Spanking Guide

Erotic spanking is a form of sensation play, within the BDSM culture (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadomasochism). Those into erotic spanking like the sensual feel of spanking, hitting, or slapping a person’s body, usually the buttocks, thighs, or calves

Use good spanking implements. Bondara carries many varieties of paddles from which you may choose. There is a leather paddle whip with a heart-shaped opening and a classic leather paddle with a studded design, a retaining strap, and plenty of umph! It could be sexy fun to use a flogging whip, and to alternate between whipping and brushing the whip’s leather straps lightly over the spanked skin.

Emphasize Safety And Security

The person being spanked is the one in control, even though most people would not think that’s the case. Safety and security are very important when engaged in erotic spanking. Both people use safe words – words to speak when the sex play is getting a little out of hand. Communication is essential, such as the spanker asking if the spanking is hard enough or too hard and the spankee saying that it is or isn’t. The questions serve the purpose of being both arousing and informative. As questions such as “Do you like this?” “Harder?” “Faster?” “Slower?”

Try Different Positions And Vary Your Spanking Technique

There are many positions in which spanking may be done, such as over the knees or across the lap (the most popular position), stooped over a chair or couch, on hands and knees, and lying face down on the bed. Are you role-playing, such as teacher/student? The spankee could lean over a desk while the spanker smacks her arse with one of Bondara’s paddles.

Make sure you vary the sensations. Spank hard and soft, and rub the fingers along the skin. Massage the spanked area for extra sensation. Scratch in between spankings. Give a blow job or hand job while spanking his arse. Suck on her nipples while spanking her. Talk dirty. Tease with sexy questions, such as “Is that good enough for you?” and “Have you been a bad boy?” If you vary your technique, the spanking will feel even sexier.

Ending The Spanking Session

When ending the spanking session, make sure both partners are aware that it is stopping. Try counting down from ten, or giving a rub down with one of Bondara’s massage oils, and putting the paddles away. Above all, have fun and be prepared to try it again sometime.

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