Prostate Massage Guide

Prostate massaging is becoming more and more popular. But only few people know how to do it properly. Once you're read this - you'll be in know for sure.

The prostate gland has often been called the male G-spot or simply the P-spot. The prostate produces most of the fluid in ejaculate and lies behind the pubic bone and just below the bladder. For many men it is a wonderful sex organ that provides deep sexual pleasure.

Prostate stimulation is sometimes recommended as a medical treatment for prostate problems such as diseases and it also used as a form of sexual pleasure. Some men find that prostate stimulation is a very erotic form of sexual interaction and many people believe that prostate stimulation can provide numerous benefits. One common belief is that prostate stimulation will prevent the buildup of semen in the prostate, thus making it unnecessary for the man to ejaculate at other times. Men who partake in prostate stimulation state that the orgasm is much more intense than an orgasm with traditional sex or masturbation and it is frequently recommended as a form of sexual interaction when the other partner is either unavailable or the male simply does not wish to engage in other forms of sexual intercourse for whatever reason. Other individuals simply find prostate stimulation to be an excellent form of sexual pleasure and equate it to manipulation of the female G-spot.

Generally during prostate stimulation, the release of the semen occurs more in flow rather than a regular ejaculation. Some people recommend masturbation along with prostate stimulation in order to increase the amount of semen that is released as well as the intensity of the pleasure involved.

Use one of our Recommended Anal Lubricants
Use one of our Recommended Prostate Massager
Use one of our Recommended Prostate Anal Butt Plugs
Regular sex toys and adult toys such as vibrators, dildos and other anal toys (except for prostate massagers and prostate butt plugs) are not recommended for prostate massage. Buy prostate massagers from our Bondara sex shop.

1 Wash, Prepare and Relax
- Have a bath or shower. This will help you relax and will help resolve any cleanliness issues
- To avoid any bowel movement during play, make sure you go to the bathroom before you begin

2 Turn Yourself On
- Because the prostate swells when aroused, it’s easier to locate when you’re hot and bothered so watch an adult movie, masturbate, fantasize...whatever gets you in the mood

3 Find a Comfortable Position
- Find a position that you are most comfortable in and where you have access to your bum
- Try lying on your side, or squatting. Sitting in a comfy chair might work, or lie on your back with your legs in the air

4 Start on the Outside; Massage Your Anus and Perineum
- Start with an external massage using your finger. The perineum is located between the testicles and above the anus and most men find that massaging the perineum is very relaxing and pleasurable
- Massage your anus using a rhythmic, circular motion. You can gently push on the anus as if you're ringing a doorbell, without forcing your finger inside. This will help relax the anal sphincter

5 Go Deeper Into Your Anus
- When you are ready to insert a finger in the anus, try to tune into your breath. Breathe deeply. The best way to insert a finger in the anus is to start with the pad of your finger first (not the tip)
- Gently put the pad of one finger up to the opening of the anus, and as you exhale, push out (as if you’re trying to go to the bathroom) while you insert a well-lubed finger. Once inside, rest a moment while you get used to the sensation of having something in your anus

6 Find Your Prostate
- You should be able to feel your prostate about two inches in and toward your belly. It is often a walnut-shaped bump.
- Some men will know when they are touching it, others won’t notice much at all. It can be easier to have someone else find it for you (if you are doing it with your partner)

7 Experiment Different Kinds of Touches
- Once you’ve found the prostate you can experiment with what feels good. You’ll find it much easier and more comfortable to use a lubricant with your fingers or toys.
- Some men like the feeling of consistent pressure or pressing on the prostate, others will get off on vibration, or an on-off kind of pressure. You can also experiment by squeezing your PC muscle and see how that changes the feeling of prostate stimulation

8 Now That You Have Found and Understand Your Prostate – Use a Prostate Massager
- Now that you have located your prostate we recommend you use a prostate massager sex toy. There are two types of prostate massager sex toys:
- 1) Prostate Massagers
- 2) Anal Butt Plug Prostate Massagers
- Instructions on how to use prostate massagers can be found below

9 How To Use a Prostate Massager
Position the Prostate Massager so that the perineum abutment (tab top of the thicker, upturned arm) will press against the perineum acupressure spot when the Pro-State Massager is fully inserted into the anus. The thinner, curled arm should be oriented towards the back.

Slowly insert the Prostate Massager about one half of the way into the anus; it will then be drawn the rest of the way into the rectum and accurately position itself against the prostate with the perineum abutment pressing against the perineum acupressure spot. The anal canal, front wall of the rectum, prostate, and the perineum acupressure point will be stimulated simultaneously by the Prostate Massager. At this time, many inexperienced users will feel the urge to urinate.

The perineum abutment (top of front arm) should always press against the perineum during use. It is very important to keep the Prostate Massager facing in the proper direction. If you insert the Prostate Massager backwards, you cannot correctly stimulate the involved organs. This could reduce the effectiveness of the Prostate Massager.

To ensure that the Prostate Massager is properly inserted, use the handle/guide to position the perineum abutment against the perineum acupressure spot. The perineum acupressure spot is located between the anus and the scrotum, usually 1.5 to 2 inches from the anus toward the scrotum.

Keep the perineum area dry to ensure the perineum abutment won't slip from the perineum acupressure spot. When the Prostate Massager is fully drawn into the anus, you will initially feel the pressure of the foreign object. For best results, allow 10 to 20 minutes for relaxation.

Anal Butt Plug Prostate Massagers are slightly curved at the top. The curve allows you to find the prostate in the same way as the Prostate Massager does. The benefit of curved Butt Plugs is that they can also be used for regular anal stimulation and they can be shared with a female partner. Curved butt plugs are ideal sex toys for G-spot stimulation.

Take your time. Don’t rush it, and if you’re feeling uncomfortable take a break, or end the exploration for the time being. Always use one of our recommended anal lubricants when performing prostate massages. Keep your sex toys clean. Use our Bondara Toy Cleaner.

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