Foreplay Guide

Here you can find helpful tips on how to spice up your sex life, in particular with regards to foreplay.

Foreplay is a range of activities, including undressing, kissing, petting, and oral sex.

Why is foreplay important in your relationship?

First of all, people who cuddle and kiss their partners and know how to enjoy sensitive foreplay will often find that their partners will not only enjoy sexual intercourse more, but also see their partners reach orgasm more often. Most woman need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required stimulation.

Foreplay is not just about how you make your partner feel with your touch it’s also about understanding what makes your partner tick and delivering those things that make both your experiences intensely pleasurable.

Romancing your partner and making them feel good is only one piece to completing the puzzle. Setting the mood for passion and great foreplay is to pay attention to romantic details. Creating the right environment for your love making can be crucial, especially in the later stages of your relationship.

Once the mood is right, take the time to undress her because the act of removing your partner's clothes can be an important part of successful foreplay. Many have found that undressing increases the eroticism and intensifies the feelings and heightens the senses.

Most women complain that their partners don't kiss long enough and rush the movement directly to the genital area. Don't be shy to experiment on every part of her body and remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing. Here are a few spots you can both work on to achieve the perfect foreplay.

Sex toys are of course a great way to enjoy foreplay. Sex toys will stimulate her most intricate zones. While some men constantly ignore foreplay as an optional but not a necessary thing, women who have sex toys often use them to caress their most sensitive zones. One of the most secret spots in female body is her G-spot, which is not so easy to reach without certain knowledge. For a man, it is necessary to know that the G-spot can be stimulated from a particular angle and position. g-spot vibrators are designed to solve this problem easily.

Foreplay is very important. As a man, you need to keep in mind that haste may kill desire in a moment. This should be a golden rule for intercourse. Penetrating a woman when she is not ready for it, is likely to evoke very unpleasant sensations for her and turn a pleasant sexual act into torture. Plenty of foreplay (with or without sex toys) before full penetration is the only way. Normally, when a woman is aroused, the vagina produces enough lubrication, but sometimes you may need some extra of that thing. For this we recommend using a water-based lubricants like Liquid Silk or flavoured lubricants (which is great for oral foreplay!).

Also, it is a well-known fact that the most effective way to bring a woman to orgasm is to give her additional stimulation before and during intercourse. Nowadays, a lot of sex toys are created to give single, double or even triple pleasure. Below are some sex toy departments which will offer you the perfect solution to get her aroused!

• Rabbit Vibrators
• Dildos
• Vibrators
• Clitoral Stimulators
• G-Spot Vibrators
• Bullet Vibrators
• Remote Control Vibrator
• Waterproof Vibrators
• Glass Dildos
• Ben Wa Balls
• Nipple Clamps

Lips

We all love to kiss and can exude a lot of emotion through kissing. If you know how to manipulate your partner’s lips through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play your partner’s top and bottom lip and kiss with absolute passion.

Ears

Many people enjoy having their ears licked, sucked, kissed and having sweet nothings whispered into them. Try to be somewhat erotic and give your partner shivers up and down their spine.

Wrists

This might come as a shock to most guys but did you know that a woman's wrist is an erogenous zone. Women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their partners. The next time you're getting into foreplay, woo her with soft sensual kisses and caress her wrists and check out how impressed and turned on she'll become.

Breasts

I am sure this comes as no surprise to anyone, but the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Many women like it when their guy get a little rough with their breasts too, so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants. Why not try using nipple clamps, a nipple vibrator or nipple pump over her nipples for an alternative sensation. And girls, it’s not just all about your breasts, why not try using some massage oil on your man’s chest for an erotic treat for him. Check out our Kama Sutra Massage Oil range in the essentials section.

Inner Thighs

The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking, nibbling and licking. Inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle the inner thighs you will turn your partner on like crazy.

Back

We are confident that your partner will be a willing partner for this one. Ask him or her to roll over on to their stomach. Then straddle them and start to massage their shoulders and neck as well as leaving a trail of kisses with your soft sensual touches. Experiment with a massage oil from our relaxing and sensual Kama Sutra Massage Oil range for an added sensation.

While you are caressing your partners back gently move your nails lightly down the spine, stopping just at the base. You can also follow this path with your tongue as will leaving a soft sensual trail with your tongue. You will definitely get him in the mood for what is to come.

Vagina and Clitoris

The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, finger, the famous Rabbit vibrator or a clitoral vibrator. Either way, we recommend you use a lubricant for an added bonus. Apply some lubricant to your finger or vibrator before exploring her clitoris. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy. The key to a great sex life and relationship is communication. A finger vibrator is also perfect for clitoral stimulation.

It's usually quite evident whether or not your partner is pleased with your performance. For instance if she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling. If she’s enjoying it you will definitely see the results of your actions, as she will be wet from all the pleasure that you are giving her.

Perineum (Male G-Spot)

The perineum, or P-Spot, is also known as the "Male G Spot". The perineum is the penny-sized spot between the testicles and the anus. This area has the potential to take his orgasm over the edge. The perineum has an incredible amount of sensitive nerve endings. This spot is best left to play with for the hottest of moments, when he is just about on the edge of his orgasm. During oral sex, after he is already very much aroused place a finger or knuckle on his perineum, pressing firmly in a pumping motion. While doing this you should see instant results. Another way to stimulate the male P-Spot can be achieved by using one of our very popular Prostate massagers. The prostate massager is designed specifically for massage of the prostate. This hands free mechanism allows you to massage the prostate easily and efficiently. At the same time, the arm of the prostate presses against a therapeutic pressure point on the perineum. This point, which is derived from Oriental medicine, is beneficial for good prostate health. Some of our anal butt plugs which feature a curved head or tip can also be used for prostate stimulation.

Oral Sex

Now that you have got him where you want him this is the perfect time to engage in Oral sex. Try using flavoured lubricants or flavoured condoms if you’re not so keen on going down on your man. However if this is not your thing here are some alternatives that you can do. Try using a silk scarf, something soft that would feel erotic to the touch. Also you might want to try an ice cube between your teeth to tease your partner’s penis. Tease your way up and down his shaft and end up at the head of his penis while you are letting some of the cold drops of the melting ice cube slide down the shaft of his penis down to his testicles. Experiment with lubricants too for a slippery hand job.

We hope you found this guide helpful and that you will be able to benefit from it. Enjoy!

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