Your First Sex Toy

Most of us will come to that day where we make the decision to buy our very first sex toys from an online sex shop. That can be quite a nerve-racking experience ... but relax. We have written a guide which should help you make the right decision.

The shape of your wallet will likely determine the number and type of adult toys you purchase. If you have a limited budget, choose sex toys that suit your most urgent sexual desires. Choose vibrators if clitoral stimulation drives you wilder than other sex play. Buy anal beads or a prostate massager if you are extremely turned on by anal toys. Don't let your budget depress you, since there are plenty of sex toys in a wide variety of prices that will work well with your pocketbook.

What Shape Should I Choose?

Do you want some dildos that are the spitting image of Ron Jeremy's dick or do you want more subtle sex toys like the pocket rocket vibrator? What shape you choose is determined by what you want to do with your sex toy, and where you plan to take it. If you are afraid airline personnel will pull your sex toys out of your luggage, go with vibrators that look like massagers. The Pocket Rocket looks like a lipstick.

What Color Should I Choose?

Maybe you want to color-coordinate your sex toys. Choose only purple or red ones. If you like a glass dildo, the design and pretty colors may appeal to you. Do you favor softer pastels or more masculine-looking dark colors? Or does color not matter to you at all?

What Material Is Best For Me?

Sex toys come in a wide variety of materials – steel, silicone, jelly-rubber, rubber, plastic, glass, PVC, or Loveskin. Choose a material that you like the best! Steel and glass is great if you seek that hard and solid feeling. Glass can also be heated up (in warm water) or cooled down (in the fridge) for hot/cold sensations. Jelly, a very popular choice, is solid but feels soft on your skin. Cyberskin or Loveskin (virtually the same thing) is the most realistic feeling material of all. Loveskin does require a little extra care and only ever use a non-silicone lubricant.

What Size Sex Toy Is Best For A Beginner, Especially For Anal Sex?

It's best to choose smaller sex toys for your first time, especially if you are new to anal toys. Butt plugs and prostate massagers come in several sizes. Dildos and vibrators also come in small, medium, and large sizes to accommodate your sexual needs. Start off small, and work your way up.

Should I Buy A Classic Sex Toy Or A More Adventerous One?

Classic sex toys like the Rabbit Pearl have made millions of women happy, so you have that great reputation to go by. If you feel adventurous, why not buy a waterproof vibrator? That way, you can enjoy your sex play in the hot tub or shower. A classic anal toy is a small butt plug. If you want to experiment a bit more, large anal beads could be exactly what you need.

Do I Want Sex Toys That Give Clitoral Or Vaginal Stimulation? Or Both?

Women need clitoral stimulation to come to orgasm. Some women claim that they have phenomenal orgasms when their G-spots are massaged. Vibrators exist that stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot simulaneously. While there are fewer nerve endings in the vagina, many women like that full feeling they get when they are penetrated by vibrators and dildos. When they come, they grab onto the g-spot vibrator like there's no tomorrow.

Do I Want A Toy For Myself Or Would I Like To Share It With A Partner?

Whether you want to use your sex toy alone or with a partner determines which sex toys you buy. While vibrators may be used with a partner, most often they are used alone. Still, don't limit a sex toy's use. Vibrators are used to stimulate the clit, the labia, the anus, the feet, the face, and the nipples. Flavored and warming lubes are used with partners, and they are lots of fun. Some sex toys, such as a double dildo, is used with partners. Bondage gear such as harnesses made to hold dildos are made to be used with partners as well. Make sure that you properly clean your sex toys after using, and especially when using with a partner.

What About Sex Toys For Anal Play? What Kinds Are Available?

If you are new to anal play, a small butt plug is a good bet. You may purchase one at a larger size at a later date. Experienced anal sex fans enjoy anal beads and prostate massagers. Some anal sex toys rub against the perineum as well as massage the prostate, giving unbearably pleasurable sexual feelings to the lucky guy using them.

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