Dildo Guide

Here you can find out everything you need to know about dildos!

Using dildos or just the idea of using dildos goes back many centuries. The idea of them has been recorded in paintings and sculptures as far back as the fourth and fifth centuries. The Book of the Kama Sutra features early dildos made of wood, leather and stalks. These recordings show not only women but men using them as well. So this toy, like many others, applies to no specific gender. But why would anyone want to use them? They don't twist. They don't rock-n-roll. So, why bother using them? Well, the following will shine some light on the subject.

Some men have a difficult time keeping an erection and some women have very long fuses, meaning it takes her a long time to climax (there's absolutely nothing wrong with this) Because of this difference in fuses, sex can become a frustrating and unsatisfying experience. That's where dildos can be helpful. If the man climaxes early in the game, or even if the woman just takes longer than her lover, he can continue to penetrate her with the dildo. That way all sexual play doesn't stop. It gives him time to recharge his batteries and keeps her aroused. So when he's ready to come back into the game, she'll still be aroused enough to accept him.

Fulfillment

Some people like the sensation of feeling fulfilled in their vagina or anus. Whenever a sex toy such as a dildo, penetrates the vagina or anus, the muscles contract around it. Many people find the tightening of these muscles to be extremely pleasurable.

Visual and Mental Stimulation

Your most erogenous zone is your mind. And as much as many feminists won't admit this, the penis is a symbol of power, no matter how great or small, it is still associated with power. Penetrating your partner with a dildo can make a fantasy of power play reality.

Penetrating your partner with a dildo gives you a real up close and personal view of your lover's vagina or anus accepting the dildo. Some people find this to be extremely erotic, to see their lover pull in the dildo and push out as they get more excited. Men can't get this up close and personal view when he's penetrating his partner with his own penis.

Exploration

When used alone, a dildo can help a person experiment with different forms of penetration without the anxiety of a lover being present. This is especially true with anal penetration. Maybe you want to try it, but are unsure if it's as pleasurable as you may think. Instead of diving in with your partner, using a dildo alone can give you the experience without worrying about embarrassment.

Safe Sex

Dildos can be a very good form of safe sex. As long as your dildo is wearing a condom, you'll never have to worry about infecting yourself with bacteria and you can share your toy with a partner. Just change the condom before your partner uses it.

A Sure Thing

A dildo will never turn you down or tire out. You can use a dildo whenever you want for as long as you want. The only down side is it doesn't cuddle after, but then again, it can't complain either! And it certainly doesn’t snore!

How to use a dildo

Women use a dildo to masturbate, letting it slip in and out of the vagina. You can caress your clitoris at the same time. You have to discover whether you like this or not. Some women love something in their vagina when they get excited, others don’t like it at all. Everyone’s tastes are different.

Find out which shape, size and material is most suitable for you. Before you purchase a dildo play with a candle covered with a condom to see what size you prefer. If you have never tried one it’s easy to buy one that’s too big or small.

Girls who experiment with fingers or a dildo already have some idea of what it feels like when they have intercourse for the first time. They are not afraid because they know what to expect physically.

When you use a dildo your vagina must be wet. You can use a lubricant, but take one that is water-based. An oil-based lubricant can cause vaginal infection. It also damages the material when your dildo is made of rubber or Real-Skin. Stick with the best – Liquid Silk Lubricant

What dildo?

Most dildos look like cocks. But they can also have the shape of a woman, dolphin or whale, while they can also be smooth and featureless. Some dildos have bumps and are ribbed for extra stimulation. Dildo’s also come in different sizes.

There are dildos that are rounded and have heads on both sides – these are called double dildos or double ended dildos. These sex toys are ideal for sharing with a male or female partner and can be used for anal or vaginal penetration. Double ended dildos are very popular with lesbians who want to be penetrated simultaneously.

Some dildos have a curve to stimulate the G-spot. When you are on your back, the curve should point upwards, towards your navel. Anal dildos and probes can also be used by guys to stimulate their prostate. Women use anal dildos too of course to stimulate their anus.

Some dildos also feature a suction cup at the base. These dildos can be stuck to any smooth surface (a chair for example) for an amazing solo ride experience.

Many objects in and around the house can be used as a dildo, like the handle of everyday utensils, a candle or some fruits and vegetables. Cover these with a condom. You can also use your fingers.

So are you convinced yet?

No? That's ok; lots of people have been conditioned into believing that sex toys of any type are bad or abnormal. So don't' give up! Keep reading, there's still a lot more information for you to absorb and digest before making a final decision.

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