Anal Sex Guide

Anal beads, anal vibrators, prostate massagers and butt plugs are all great anal toys ... but how do you use them? Read our anal sex toys guide below.

The smaller and more slender the better for those new to anal sex. As you become accustomed to anal play, you may purchase larger and thicker anal sex toys.

If you are new to anal sex, a classic, slender, and small butt plug is ideal. You may also want to experiment with a small string of anal beads. These beads are graduated in size, starting small and becoming larger. There is a loop at the end of the sex toy so that you may pull it out when you reach orgasm. The loop also prevents the anal beads from being sucked into your rectum.

Do I Want A Toy For Myself Or Would I Like To Share It With A Partner?

Whether you want to use your sex toy alone or with a partner determines which sex toys you buy. While vibrators may be used with a partner, most often they are used alone. Still, don't limit a sex toy's use. Vibrators are used to stimulate the clit, the labia, the anus, the feet, the face, and the nipples. Flavored and warming lubes are used with partners, and they are lots of fun. Some sex toys, such as double dildos, are used with partners. Bondage gear such as harnesses made to hold dildos are made to be used with partners as well. Make sure that you properly clean your adult toys after using, and especially when using with a partner.

What Size Sex Toy Is Best For A Beginner, Especially For Anal Sex?

It's best to choose smaller sex toys for your first time, especially if you are new to anal sex. Our butt plug and prostate massager toys come in several sizes. Dildos and vibrators also come in small, medium, and large sizes to accommodate your sexual needs. Start off small, and work your way up.

What About Sex Toys For Anal Play? What Kinds Are Available?

If you are new to anal play, a small butt plug is a good bet. You may purchase one at a larger size at a later date. Experienced anal sex fans enjoy anal beads and prostate massagers. Some anal sex toys rub against the perineum as well as massage the prostate, giving unbearably pleasurable sexual feelings to the lucky guy using them.

Anal stimulation is very pleasurable for both men and women. One of the great things about anal sex toys is that they are suitable to any kind of relationship – straight, gay, lesbian, and both men and women! Anal Toys come in many different shapes, styles, materials and sizes. One of the most important things to keep in mind when choosing an anal sex toy is never to use anything that does not have a wide base or safety ring that would prevent it from slipping all the way into the anus. Some people have had to endure embarrassing trips to the emergency room having an item removed from their anus that was not made to be an anal toy. This anal sex toy guide will help you avoid such an event.

The 4 Golden Anal Sex Toy Rules

• Make sure the anal sex toy either has a ring puller or a flared base
• Avoid long and inflexible anal sex toys
• Start off with a small anal sex toy and go bigger as you gain more experience
• Always use lubrication when playing with anal sex toys

What types of Anal Sex Toys are available and how should they be used?

Anal Beads

Most anal beads feature a large ring at the other end to prevent the beads from slipping into the anus and up the rectum. Anal beads come in many different styles, materials and sizes. Some anal beads are loose beads connected by a string or cord. Others are in one piece with the beads molded directly into the toy. The latter ones are often made of jelly and are easier to clean. Both these types of anal beads are generally referred to as ‘Thai Anal Beads’. Sometimes anal beads start small and get progressively larger (graduated Anal beads), and sometimes they are all the same size.

It is commonly suggested that anal beads are meant to be inserted during sex play and then pulled out slowly or quickly at the point of orgasm. Anal beads play specifically on the sensations of the sphincter muscles. They are inserted (slowly, and with lots of lubricant) and when they are removed they pass along the two sphincter muscles and most people find this to be incredibly pleasurable.

Remember to always use lubricant for any kind of anal penetration.

Anal Butt Plugs

Simply put, an anal butt plug is a sex toy which is designed to fit and stay in your ass. The classic shape of an anal butt plug has a recessed neck and a flared base. This lets the sphincter muscles close around it keeping the anal butt plug snugly in the rectum. Most men and women enjoy the pleasure they receive from anal stimulation. Anal butt plugs can be inserted to greatly enhance stimulation.

Many men and women love the feeling of fullness that an anal butt plug gives during sexual intercourse. The anus is a highly erogenous zone of the body making any kind of anal play both pleasurable and highly stimulating. Some people like to insert an anal butt plug before having anal sex. This allows the sphincter muscles to relax and get accustomed to being penetrated.

For men, anal sex toys stimulate the prostate or male g-spot, and bring about absolutely mind-blowing orgasms. For women, anal butt plugs enhance stimulation during intercourse, foreplay or oral sex. Beginners often like to use an anal butt plug to get the anus ready for intercourse. Anal Butt plugs are sometimes even worn as jewellery.

Vibrating anal butt plugs are designed to give you enhanced stimulation when the butt plug is inserted into the anus. Ejaculating butt plugs can be filled with warm water to give you that wonderful cum feeling inside the anus. Inflatable butt plugs are designed to give you maximum control over the amount of fullness you like to feel inside the anus when the anal butt plug is inserted.

Remember to always use lubricant for any kind of anal penetration.

Anal Dildos and Probes

Anal dildos are specifically designed for anal use. They are distinguished from all other dildos because they have a flared base so they don't get lost in the anus - an amusing but common occurrence. If you plan on using an anal dildo, we would recommend getting one that's designed specifically for that purpose.

An anal dildo is any dildo that has no sharp edges or seams and a flared base designed to prevent it from going all the way in. Some anal dildos are designed specifically for male use. The shapes of these ‘male’ anal dildos are generally designed to stimulation the prostate.

Different than butt plugs, anal dildos are usually used for ‘in out’ style penetration and the main considerations when choosing an anal dildo is the size of the toy and the material. Anal dildos are available in every size imaginable and like other dildos; anal dildos are available in a range of materials including jelly rubber, silicone, acrylic, hard plastic or metal. As with any other sex toy, and particularly anal sex toys, it's important to use a lubricant when playing with anal dildos.

Anal Vibrators

Essentially an anal vibrator is a cross between an anal butt plug, a dildo and a vibrator. The great thing about anal vibrators is that they are suitable for any relationship, meaning that they can be used by men and women; straights, gays or lesbians. Simply put, an anal vibrator is a sex toy meant for sexual stimulation of the anal area. Basically, all anal vibrators have one common feature - they produce a vibrating effect in the anus for pleasurable sensations.

As other anal toys, anal vibrators differ from other types of vibrators by having a flared base to prevent its possible loss in the rectum. The average size of an anal vibrator is smaller than vibrators intended for vaginal penetration and may vary from 4.5-6 inches long and about 1-1.5 inches wide. As well as other vibrators designed for external and internal stimulation, anal vibrators are usually battery operated.

Unlike anal dildos, anal butt plugs, anal probes and anal beads, vibrating anal toys may produce various stimulating effects: rotating, vibrating or pulsating, and can have different speed or vibration levels to regulate and adjust the vibrator to various sensations.

As with any other sex toy, and particularly anal sex toys, it's important to use a lubricant when playing with anal vibrators. And don't forget to buy a sex toy cleaner from our Bondara sex shop.

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