Female Strap On Guide

Why Buy Female Strap Ons?

A female strap-on is a fantastic option for any woman who enjoys penetration, but not necessarily penetrative sex with a male partner- that's why many lesbian or bisexual couples use strap-ons as part of their sex lives.

A strap-on dildo is also a great option for heterosexual couples who are interested in ‘pegging' which is where the female uses a dildo to penetrate to male.

Using a strap-on can be a great way of incorporating a sex toy in your sexual routine without your hands having to do any of the hard work. The wearer is then able to use her hips for penetration in a natural and comfortable way which is enjoyable for both partners. Plus, the ‘gender reversal' element can be a huge turn on for many couples, or even as part of power and dominance play. 

 

Choosing The Right Strap On For You

There are two main types of strap-ons; ones which have a harness, where only one partner is penetrated, and a strapless dildo which is held in place by a contoured mini dildo, so that both partners are stimulated. Strap ons can be worn by men or women (though are more commonly worn by women) as some dildos are hollow and allow the man's penis to sit inside. 

 

Strap on Dildos

The traditional strap-on dildo is a toy which gives full control to the wearer and is a great choice for when only one partner enjoys receiving penetration. Strap-on dildos can come in with a harness or as specially designed pants - some vibrate, others have interchangeable dildos and some even feature clitoral stimulation. 

 

Strapless Strap On

A strapless strap on dildo is an ideal toy for when both partners enjoy internal stimulation. The mini dildo which holds the strap-on in place stimulates the g-spot, whilst the wearer is able to penetrate their partner with the main dildo. Strapless dildos can vibrate and some even feature an anal stimulator for the wearer, to make the experience even more pleasurable. If you're a woman who has difficulty keeping the mini dildo in place during sex then you may find some kegel exercisers will help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. 

 

Butterfly Strap On

Butterfly strap-on vibrators provide amazing clitoral stimulation and often feature a dildo for vaginal stimulation. These strap-ons are mostly used for solo play and aren't generally regarded as traditional strap ons despite the straps! Butterfly vibrators can be used by couples with the vibrations travel through both partners for a delightfully pleasurable experience. 

 

How to use a female strap on or strapless strap on: 

Firstly, you should always make sure that your toys are clean and ready for use. Spray with sex toy cleaner then rinse with warm water to keep everything nice and hygienic. 

If you've gone for the traditional strap-on, it's just a case of strapping yourself into the harness and making sure that you're comfortable and the dildo is securely held in place. With some strap-ons the dildo will be permanently fixed to the harness, with others you may need to secure it in place yourself.  

If you're using a strapless dildo, you simply insert the mini dildo into your vagina, you may find this easier to do with lubricant, and your vaginal muscles will contract around the mini dildo and hold the toy firmly in place. If your strapless strap-on has an anal stimulator, lubricate this and carefully insert.

Once you're happy that your strap-on is comfortable and secure, apply a generous amount of lubricant to the main dildo, and then use your hips to penetrate your partner. Your hands will then be free for anything else you desire.