What exactly are Ben Wa Balls (also called Love Eggs)? What do they do and how do you use them? You may have read about them in 50 Shades of Grey; heard about them in the newspapers, or even been told about them by a friend…
Our Ben Wa Balls and Love Eggs guide will not only tell you what love balls are for but how to use them and how they could help to give you even better sexual satisfaction!
Ben Wa Balls are small, hollow balls with a weighted ball inside them and are usually joined together by a retrieval string. The smaller ball jiggles and knocks around inside of the outer ball to gently stimulate you with every movement. Every time the small ball moves, it knocks against your vaginal walls causing the muscles there to contract slightly.
Discreet and unobtrusive, Ben Wa Balls or Love Eggs can be worn at home, while exercising and even out in public for naughty stimulation that no-one can see!
What Are the Benefits?
If you’ve read 50 Shades you could be forgiven for thinking that Ben Wa balls are just a female sex aid. Of course, they can do great things for your sex life but the benefits don’t end there…
No-one really knows exactly when Ben Wa Balls were created but it is clear that women all over the world have been using love balls for hundreds of years; not only sexual pleasure but for tightening and strengthening their pelvic muscles too!
Your pubococcygeus muscle (often called your PC or Kegel muscle) forms the base of your ‘pelvic floor’. In women, this muscle can become overly elastic and worn through childbirth, age, or if you are overweight; resulting in reduced tightness of the vagina.
They are as effective as a Kegel muscle workout as they stimulate the delicate internal muscles to make them stronger. The more often you use Ben Wa Balls, the stronger your pelvic floor muscles become; the less risk you have of incontinence, and the tighter your vaginal muscles are.
Pleasure-wise, it also results in a more responsive arousal response, better penetrative sensations, and more intense, prolonged orgasms – wahey!
How Do I Exercise With Ben Wa Balls?
Ben Wa Balls are incredibly simple and safe to use. Usually made of metal or body-safe silicone or plastic, most come in pairs that are linked by a retrieval string.
Just follow our directions for use and some simple exercises to get you started:
- To insert; just push them one at a time into the vagina as you would a tampon. Don’t forget to leave the string outside your body for easy removal. The same as with a tampon, once they’re in properly your kegel muscles will tense and hold them in. You may need to use a bit of lube in order to insert them properly. Don’t forget if you’re using silicone or plastic balls to only use a water-based lubricant.
- Once they are inside of you, you should still be able to feel them but they won’t be uncomfortable. Exactly the opposite in fact! Try walking around the house or up and down the stairs to see how they feel when you move.
- Just by wearing the Love Balls, you’re giving your Kegel muscles a workout – that’s the beauty of them! The longer you wear them, the stronger you become as your pelvic floor adjusts to the dynamic weighted stimulation.
- They can be worn all day if you like but bear in mind that if you do leave the house with them in they may slip out if you sneeze or cough. You’ve been warned!
How Can Ben Wa Balls & Love Eggs Improve My Sex Life?
If you’ve already tried Ben Wa Balls you’ll have noticed that while you wore them the tiny ‘tapping’ sensation of the smaller balls was incredibly pleasurable.
Try some of our Ben Wa Balls sex tips for more ideas on how to use this amazingly versatile toy:
- Try sitting in a chair while wearing the Love Balls and rocking back and forth with your legs pressed together. You’d be surprised how much stimulation you can get from this simple move.
- Masturbating (with or without a vibrator) while wearing Love Balls can make your orgasms more intense as your vaginal muscles contract around the balls during the moment of climax.
- Love Balls are a great addition to sex with another person too. Just like in 50 Shades of Grey, wearing Ben Wa Balls during oral sex and mutual masturbation or bondage and other BDSM play can enhance female arousal and make orgasms even more intense as the vagina clenches around the balls.
- Also, the more you use Ben Wa Balls the tighter your vagina will feel; a bonus for both you and your partner!
What Types of Ben Wa Balls/Love Eggs Are Available?
For beginners, to Ben Wa Balls you should always choose the lightest material available to you. Although your vaginal muscles will tighten with use, at first it’s best to start slow and use a silicone or plastic ball like our Super Orgasm Jiggle Balls (52.5g). Seamless, light and incredibly simple to use, these are a great way to get used to the unique sensations of Ben Wa Balls.
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Alternatively, our Inner Strength Double Jiggle Balls are hollow silicone and feature a distinctive shape where both of the balls are joined together making for one insertable piece that noticeably enhances the sensation of the smaller balls moving around.
Once you’re tried Ben Wa Balls and experienced the unique stimulation there are various materials and weights of love balls explore. Try some weighted glass or metal love balls for an intense internal workout or even battery-powered vibrating Ben Wa Balls for an extra level of pleasure!
So, do you have the balls to give it a go? Whether it’s to sex up your workday, shopping trip, or dinner date, take a look at our fabulous catalogue of Ben Wa/Love Eggs on-site to have a feel for yourself 😉
– just don’t let your face give the game away!
These discreet toys come in a HUGE range of styles, so whether you’re after internal or external stimulation, wired or wireless, there’s definitely something for you.
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