For the love of Tattoos

Tattoos- we love them.

Shall we just be honest for a moment and say, we all go a bit weak at the knee’s for a hot tattooed hunk or a curvy girl with a sleeve! Tattoos are becoming more and more popular, and if you get it right, they can really give you an advantage with the opposite sex.

If you’re knew to tattoos and just haven’t made your mind up yet, this will definitely help you along the way, but don’t blame me if all of a sudden you get the urge to ink yourself up!

Lets get into the fun part, here’s a line up of some of the hottest hunks and sexiest girls with ink. Maybe it will inspire you…

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Quiet Guys

So you’ve had a mind blowing fuck and feel completely satisfied, but there’s one thing that is bugging you… he was quiet, too quiet. Well it’s about time you shut your mind up and stop worrying. Not everyone enjoys sex in the same verbal way you might (even if you’re not majorly verbal). A lot of people don’t shout and scream and express their enjoyment with moans and groans. This is something that shouldn’t dishearten you because I’m pretty sure he enjoyed himself more than you think!

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Sophophila or Learning Fetish

There is very little written online about the fetish sophophilia, but this lesser known niche describes sexual arousal from the process of learning. Now that’s not to say that a sophophile is close to rubbing one out in Math class, rather, sophophilia, from the Greek meaning “love of wisdom”, is to enjoy the process of learning new things in the bedroom from a sexual partner.

So for this week’s Fetish Friday, let’s take a look at why it’s important to learn new skills in the bedroom and what skills you can learn to spice up your sex life.

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Game of Thrones 10 Hottest Moments

With season six of Game of Thrones so close, we thought it was the perfect time to relive the sexiest moments of the raunchy show we have all come to be obsessed with.

We all know that Game of Thrones is as much about sex as it is about murder, betrayal, gore and the fight for the Iron Throne. George R. R. Martin has done us all proud by giving us rafters of beautiful women and handsome men, with endless amounts of lust- driven, debaucherous moments. So let’s take a moment to remember them all…

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How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom

So you’re thinking of spicing up your sex life by introducing sex toys into the bedroom? We applaud you and welcome you into the world of life changing orgasms! But before you start, you need some assistance right? Well, don’t worry, because you came to the right place.


Before you just pop out and buy ten new sex toys and spring the idea on your partner, I’d really advise you to have a conversation first. Communication is super important when it comes to bringing sex toys into the bedroom. You have to make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea first, and once you’ve established this, then the fun can begin.

After you’ve had the discussion, then you can start doing the research – and nope this is not boring! There are so many different types of toys to experiment with that it’s actually really important to do a little bit of research. A small bit of advice, if you’re a newbie, don’t go crazy and buy the largest butt plug around. Buy some bondage equipment, a vibrator, or a cock ring.


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If you’re nervous about going into a shop, well, once again, you’ve come to the right place! You can shop online and have a look at our beginners section at your own pace. The best thing to do is to sit down with your partner and shop together. There is nothing more exciting than buying a sex toy together, so why not try it out and start your journey now!

The most important thing to remember is that this is for both of you to enjoy. So be sure to find something that each of you wants to try out and that each of you can use on each other. It’s about being intimate together, not just getting something you can use later on your own (although we all know how much fun that can be). So pick some playful, exciting things that will really get your heart racing.


Now the shopping is done, the fun can begin! Using the toys is probably the most difficult transition you will have to make. But once you get over the initial ‘stage fright’ you will be fine. So my advice is to just go for it! You trust this person enough to approach the situation in the first place, so why not just relax enough to enjoy the fun. Take it in your stride and you’ll be a pro in no time.

Then it’s just a matter of building up your collection… So I guess we’ll see you soon!

L xo

Cheeky April Fool Pranks

Happy April Fools’ Day!

In celebration of this hilarious occasion, here are some cheeky April Fool Pranks to wind up your partner – all with a kinky twist, of course. Remember, April Fools’ Day comes but once a year so be sure to make the most of it as today is the only day that you can wind up your partner without them getting angry!

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Fetish Friday- Happy Easter!

The weekend is here yet again and it’s only two days until Easter Sunday. So, what better way to celebrate the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ than to fly over to Berlin for the biggest leather and fetish event in Europe?

Each year thousands of people head over to “Easter in Berlin” which takes place in Nollendorfplatz which is a classically gay part of the city. At the event attendees wear leather, rubber, PVC, sportswear and uniforms and share in various fetish activities.

But if that’s not your cup of tea and you’re more of a chocolate egg kinda guy/girl then here are a few other things you can try this Easter…

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How to Stop Being Distracted


“One of the greatest gifts you can give to anyone is the gift of attention.”

           – Jim Rohn


Life today is completely different to when I was a kid in the 90’s. I rarely watched TV, my only games console was a Gameboy and I spent every daylight moment outside with my friends. I spoke to faces, not to screens, I knocked on doors and didn’t send a text to say “I’m outside.” I listened to my friends, even when I didn’t want to, because I had no phone to sit and rudely stare at. I know, can you image a world like that?

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Can Pain Be Pleasurable?

You know how they say “pain can be pleasurable”? Well for some people it REALLY CAN.

Algolagnia, from the Greek for pain and lust, is defined as deriving sexual pleasure from the stimulation of pain. Unlike your standard masochist however, a person with this trait may actually have a different nerve input than the average person. Studies have shown that when pain receptors are stimulated, such a person may experience pain in a more pleasurable way than you do.

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Foreplay Frenzy!

On the surface, foreplay seems like the first move, a step in the process. But that is where you are going wrong. It’s not a process! It’s fun! So let’s start again.

Foreplay – the wonder of the sexual encounter.

In many people’s opinion, foreplay is their favourite part of sex. Now me, I like the actual act of sex best. But that’s just personal preference. But it has to be said that foreplay is VITAL. So it needs to be done right, with enough attention given to it.

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