Fetish Friday- Happy Easter!

The weekend is here yet again and it’s only two days until Easter Sunday. So, what better way to celebrate the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ than to fly over to Berlin for the biggest leather and fetish event in Europe?

Each year thousands of people head over to “Easter in Berlin” which takes place in Nollendorfplatz which is a classically gay part of the city. At the event attendees wear leather, rubber, PVC, sportswear and uniforms and share in various fetish activities.

But if that’s not your cup of tea and you’re more of a chocolate egg kinda guy/girl then here are a few other things you can try this Easter…

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How to Stop Being Distracted


“One of the greatest gifts you can give to anyone is the gift of attention.”

           – Jim Rohn


Life today is completely different to when I was a kid in the 90’s. I rarely watched TV, my only games console was a Gameboy and I spent every daylight moment outside with my friends. I spoke to faces, not to screens, I knocked on doors and didn’t send a text to say “I’m outside.” I listened to my friends, even when I didn’t want to, because I had no phone to sit and rudely stare at. I know, can you image a world like that?

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Can Pain Be Pleasurable?

You know how they say “pain can be pleasurable”? Well for some people it REALLY CAN.

Algolagnia, from the Greek for pain and lust, is defined as deriving sexual pleasure from the stimulation of pain. Unlike your standard masochist however, a person with this trait may actually have a different nerve input than the average person. Studies have shown that when pain receptors are stimulated, such a person may experience pain in a more pleasurable way than you do.

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Foreplay Frenzy!

On the surface, foreplay seems like the first move, a step in the process. But that is where you are going wrong. It’s not a process! It’s fun! So let’s start again.

Foreplay – the wonder of the sexual encounter.

In many people’s opinion, foreplay is their favourite part of sex. Now me, I like the actual act of sex best. But that’s just personal preference. But it has to be said that foreplay is VITAL. So it needs to be done right, with enough attention given to it.

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U WOT M8- Chav Fetishism

When you’re at home watching Benefit Street or taking a leisurely stroll to the job centre, you probably don’t find yourself madly aroused… or do you?

Chav fetishism, more commonly known as “scally fetish”, describes a liking for British working class people who wear tracksuits and sports clothing and speak with a “common” accent…

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Me, Myself and I- Being Single & Happy

Being single isn’t actually a bad thing. Yes it can be lonely at times but honestly, it is probably the best thing you can do for yourself. Being single for a while is something I believe everyone should experience. I’m not going to lie, it terrified me a little. But ultimately it was the best thing that ever happened to me. You want to know why?  I found myself, I figured out who I was as a singular person and not as a unit. I was able to do something, very few of us allow ourselves to do… I gave myself all I had to offer. I gave nothing to anyone else. For the first time in my life, I was completely selfish, and it felt great.

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Squirt your way to happiness

I know what you’re thinking already! Is female ejaculation (FE) really a thing?

Yes, I know, a little corporate! But yes, squirting is a real life phenomenon. Its real, and I’m going to let you in on a secret. You can squirt. Yep, you heard me right. You, ladies, can join the no-longer elite few and become a squirter.

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Happy Mother’s Day- Would You Buy Your Mum A Sex Toy?

We know what you’re thinking. “No, of course I wouldn’t buy my Mother a sex toy, that’s gross!” But is it?

All our mums were at least once sexual beings (let’s face it, they probably still are!) with needs and desires- some of which they may never have fulfilled. If you’re of a similar age to most of us in the Bondara office your Mum is on her way- or well into- retirement so would have been at her prime during a time where sex toys weren’t as acceptable or mainstream. There’s a good chance she’s never experienced the intense sensations of a vibrator or experimented with couples toys before. Maybe she’s totally fine with that, but what about if you suspect she’s curious?

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10 Things You Didn’t Know About Someone With A Fetish

It is believed that many of us have a sexual fetish – some people even hold true that “everyone” has a fetish, although I’m not convinced. Yet when we’re told that someone has a fetish, what do we think? We think they’re weird, perverted… maybe even scary?

To the most conservative members of society just hearing the world “fetish” will conjure up images of the basement scene from Pulp Fiction. So this week, rather than talking about fetishes, let’s talk about the people who have them!

Here are 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Someone with a Fetish;

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Exercise Makes Sex Better!

Exercise improves your sex life!

Yes! It’s true and blindingly obvious when you really think about it. Lets get into the tingling details and start pumping up your sex life.

Now a lot of people when thinking about exercise don’t often think of sex, or sexiness or anything remotely hot. And this, my lovely sex pests, is where you are going wrong already.

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