Pegging: the sexual act of a female anally penetrating her male partner with a strap-on.
It’s no secret that male anal play can be extremely pleasurable. Dubbed as the ‘male G-spot’, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland that sits about 2-3 inches inside the anus. Stimulation of this super-sensitive spot, be that with a finger, butt plug or massager, can lead to intense pleasure and explosive climaxes – so don’t knock it till you’ve tried it!
But what if you want to take your anal adventures to the next level? Pegging is a highly intimate experience that lets the woman adopt the role of ‘giver’, introducing a new and exciting dynamic to your sex life that every hetero couple should try at least once.
Whether used for Domme/sub play or simply exploring new types of pleasure as a couple, pegging adds another dimension to your sex life. Role reversal can be a huge turn-on and gives each partner an insight into how it feels to penetrate/be penetrated.
Of course, anything involving men and anal play rears the ugly head of “doesn’t that make me less masculine/gay?” The answer? No. Believe it or not, your sexual orientation is not determined by your choice to explore your body. Even so, pegging is something you should discuss as a couple beforehand, rather than one of you suddenly whipping out a strap-on during foreplay.
If this is your first foray into anal, ease yourself in gently (figuratively and literally) with something smaller. Bondara has a great selection of anal beads and small butt plugs to help you become accustomed to the sensation.
When you’re ready, it’s time to purchase your first strap-on.
Choosing a Strap-On
Strap-On Harnesses can be adjusted for secure wear and fit a variety of dildos.
Strapless Strap-Ons offer dual penetration for joint pleasure, but are more suited to experienced users.
For maximum convenience, you can purchase your strap-on as a set. However, you can also find all our harness-compatible dildos here for a wider choice of shapes, sizes and styles. For your first-time, we highly recommend going for something slim and small.
The golden rule of any type of anal play is to use lube. Lots of it. The anus does not naturally lubricate itself and we can’t stress enough how important lubricant is. As their name suggests, anal lubes are specifically designed for this type of play and are slightly thicker for longer-lasting effects, with some containing light, desensitising ingredients to gently numb the area.
Doggy style is a popular position for this type of play, as it gives her maximum control and better aim. However, some couples prefer to see each other’s face as they find it more intimate. If this applies to you, try having him lay on his back with his knees pulled up to his chest.
Once your partner is lubricated and relaxed, begin by gently inserting the tip of the strap-on dildo. Make sure you listen to them and wait for their permission before you push any deeper inside. Your first pegging experience is unlikely to be a wild, passionate affair, so patience is key. As you find your speed and rhythm, try stimulating his penis with your hands to really send him wild.
What are your top tips for pegging? Let us know in the comments section below.
