How to Give the Perfect Blow Job

Blow jobs can be daunting, especially once you’re face-to-face with a rock hard penis. Unfortunately, there’s not a ‘one size fits all’ approach when it comes to oral sex and every man has his own turn ons and turn offs. It’s only time and practice that will help you figure out exactly what your partner likes, but to get you going and make sure you don’t suck at sucking, here’s how to give the perfect blow job.

On your knees, get set, go!

Add Some Foreplay to that Foreplay

There’s a reason the British Army put so much importance on the seven P’s: proper planning and preparation DOES prevent piss poor performance. Like athletes before the big event, you both need to warm up. Tease him as you kiss down his chest and up his thighs; the control you have will leave him completely at your mercy.

When you’re ready, make sure he is too – it will be a short-lived blow job (for all the wrong reasons) if he’s too dry when you start. To make it a smooth, slippery ride, use your spit or some flavoured lube.

Variety is the Spice of Life

Monotonous sucking won’t only give you jaw-ache, it’ll also make for a pretty boring blow job. Don’t worry, we’ve got some tricks up our sleeve to help you mix things up.

While holding the base of his penis for control, make friends with the frenulum (the super-sensitive ridge on the underside of the shaft). Give it a long, hard lick as you come back up to the head. This is a super-easy move as your tongue’s already in prime position, so put it to good use!

If you have a sensitive gag reflex, you’re in luck; the head of the penis is jam-packed with nerve endings. As 50 Cent put it, it’s a candy shop down there so, like you would a lollipop, switch between sucking it and giving soft strokes with your tongue. The contrast in sensations will feel incredible and you don’t need to worry about that pesky reflex!

There’s a whole lotta stuff to play with down there, so get some balls! A lot of guys like everything to be involved so gently suck and lick the veg to his meat and make sure you’re getting two of your five a day.

As you become more confident, don’t be afraid to try new things. Something as simple as a blindfold will intensify his senses and have him completely immersed in the pleasure you’re giving him.

Go a Little Deeper

Deep throating is something we’ve all heard of, yet so many of us avoid it. It’s not a full-time move but a few, deep sucks every now and then will certainly up your blow job game.

If he’s particularly well-endowed, it’s no surprise you might shy away from this! To pay attention to every inch of him, try using your hand to follow the motion of your mouth. If you want something a bit more stimulating, we’ve got just the thing to take you from giving good head to great head.

The Good Head Ultimate BJ Helper by Doc Johnson may not be the biggest thing in your bedside drawer but it’ll certainly be a favourite. At 2 inches long, this soft and super stretchy toy is made for oral play. Sitting at the base of his penis, internal beads massage the shaft to replicate the sensation of a blow job. Similarly to how you would your hand, move the stroker along with your mouth to simulate deep throat and give extra stimulation to your suck.

Finish with a Happy Ending

It’s the ultimate debate: to spit or to swallow? Nothing will ruin the mood and put you off head forever like a messy ejaculation. If you’re swallowing, good on ya. If you’re spitting, make sure you’ve already got somewhere for it to go.

For those of you that want to keep your mouth semen-free, decide where he should ejaculate before the moment comes. He’s going to be caught up in the moment so take the lead on this. For many, the fantasy of coming on their partner’s face is a real turn on. However, make sure your eyes are closed or run the risk of a painful ending! If that’s not for you, the chest is a fail-safe option.

To make judging his climax easier, pay attention to his reactions; you’ll quickly learn when he’s close and we’re sure he won’t mind the practice!

Here’s hoping he returns the favour once you’re finished!