Recently, we did a poll on our Twitter page to find out which sex position you love the most – and it turns out the top dog in the bedroom is doggy! Doing it doggy has plenty of benefits; from deeper penetration to G-spot stimulation, this popular sex position is great for girl-on-girl, guy-on-girl, girl-on-guy and guy-on-guy – it’s no wonder we love it so much!
But, for those who haven’t tried it, what’s it all about?
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When it comes to buying a sex toy, there’s sometimes more to think about than just how it feels. For those of us who have housemates, live in student halls or just don’t want our family to know when we’re indulging in some “me-time”, discretion is as important as our climax (well…kind of).
Quiet vibrations and subtle designs are a must. Fortunately, Bondara has plenty of options so you can get your kicks in secret. Here are five of our favourites…
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One of seduction’s naughty classics, roleplay can be hugely sexy, exciting and, above all, fun. From Rachel’s Princess Leia to the famous naughty nurse, roleplay has no boundaries. Escape reality and step away from your normal routine as you break all your bedroom habits.
When it comes to roleplay, you have complete control. Perfect for both beginners and natural-born performers, you can immerse yourself in the role as much or as little as you like. Get those creative juices flowing and lose your inhibitions as you discover these hot roleplay ideas for couples.
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Once you’ve found one you love, taking care of your sex toy is probably the last thing on your mind. While your pleasure is always our priority, the boring bits help to ensure bacteria doesn’t build up and your toy remains in pristine condition. It’s not rocket science to look after your toy but some styles require slightly different cleaning methods to others.
Cleaning your toy is quick, easy and keeps your toy in safe, working condition for longer. Plus, it will thank you with many, many more climaxes to come (and it doesn’t get much better than that).
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Let’s talk about sex toys. We’ve built our business on these bad boys, so there’s no denying that we love them! They make masturbation a little less lonely, a whole lot more exciting and our climaxes so much more intense.
However, to share or not to share? The step from solo play to shared pleasure can be daunting and it’s not always easy to know how to introduce sex toys to the bedroom.
Some toys are simply better suited for masturbation (rabbits and masturbators, we’re looking at you). So, keep your favourite dildo tucked away in the drawer and check out these following toys, perfect for couples play…
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Lubrication, lubrication, lubrication. When it comes to getting wet, make sure you’re not slipping up on the basics with our one-stop guide to lube. For solo play, with a partner or alongside a sex toy, a good quality lubricant makes everything better; like Ant and Dec, it’s not right to have one without the other.
Not only is lube an essential for great sex, it can also bring a new and exciting element to your play. The world of lube is sensational, stimulating and tasty, so let’s slide right into it…
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Masturbation isn’t usually sexy. We may put in the effort to carefully select some porn and reach for our favourite sex toy, but once we’re into it, we don’t really care about making it a long, drawn out affair. Climax is our goal, and we’re sprinting towards it.
That’s where edging comes in. While women can do this too, it’s most popular amongst men. They say patience is a virtue and edging definitely puts it to the test – but with the promise of an intensified climax and a more explosive ejaculation, it’s definitely worth the wait.
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So you wanna take things backstage? Well, you’re in for a good time! A hugely exciting addition to your bedroom repertoire, anal sex offers a new type of stimulation for both partners. However, before you get started, it’s important to know how to have anal sex for the first time.
Anal sex is penetrative or external play with the anus using a penis, sex toy, fingers or tongues. Anyone can enjoy anal. Whether it’s girl-on-girl, girl-on-guy, guy-on-guy or guy-on-girl, a lot of us are at it! And it’s no wonder: intense stimulation with the thrill of doing something taboo is a massive turn on.
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The bedroom may be the most popular location (and don’t get us wrong, it certainly has its perks!) but what are the other best places to have sex?
Fantasises of the beach and pool are probably the first that spring to mind. While these spots are great for foreplay, in practice they aren’t so sexy. We’re sorry to burst your erotic bubble but getting jiggy on the beach will jiggle that sand into places it should never be. And the pool? Say goodbye to natural lubrication and hello to an infection.
For the main show, we recommend these five places…
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It’s a term rarely used by the BDSM community, yet ‘gimps’ have still managed to creep into popular culture. From Pulp Fiction to American Horror Story, plotlines have built a false reputation of gimps as deviant characters with dark motives.
Clad in enclosing suits and full-head masks, it’s not just the physical identity of a gimp that is a mystery. What do we actually know about the origin of the gimp? And what’s the appeal?
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