Category Archives: Relationship Advice

Sometimes you need a bit more guidance before you get to the sex stage! Our Relationship Advice section is here to give you advice about dating, relationships, sex positions and much more.

How to Win Back your Ex

Break-ups are devastating, particularly if you remain convinced they’re ‘the One’. Time apart tends to do one of two things: lead you to an Eat, Pray, Love enlightenment in which you decide you’re better off without them, or makes you so miserable you feel like Kate without her Leo or Ben without his Jerry. Hopefully, you’ll both realise what you’re missing and reunite. Unfortunately, that’s rare and it takes some work to get back together. Considering you’ve come across this page, we’ll assume you’re in the latter group. Here’s our guide on how to win back your ex…

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What is National Orgasm Day?

Every 31st July we celebrate one of our favourite holidays. But what is National Orgasm Day?

A day to celebrate sexuality, relationships and the pleasure of orgasm; National Orgasm Day has become a permanent addition to our diaries. Basically it’s an excuse to turn down the lights, get yourself in the mood and enjoy an orgasm. It’s good for what ails you!

sexy gay men cuddlingOrgasm Benefits

Orgasms aren’t only great fun but they actually have numerous health benefits.

  • Orgasms can reduce pain. Got a headache? A cheeky wank or sex can help make you feel better. Orgasms release endorphins which are the body’s natural painkiller.
  • An orgasm a day  or at least a few times a week will help to reduce stress. That blissed out feeling you get after an orgasm? Yup, endorphins again.
  • Improve your cardiovascular health. The more intense, sweaty and exhausting the session the better. Whether you’re working out your orgasmic muscles alone or with a partner, the increased respiration and heart rate is great for you. Energetic sex is an aerobic activity after all!
  • Not feeling very sexy? An orgasm is a great way to put you in touch with your body and make yourself feel good. Your body is an amazing thing- give it the treat it craves.
  • Helps you sleep- this one’s obvious. You’re relaxed, satisfied and just given your body a workout. If your orgasms aren’t helping you get to sleep maybe you need to have some more 🙂

Ok, I’m sold, how do I ensure an orgasm?

black and white doggy style roughSometimes there’s nothing better than the touch of your own hand (or your partner) to get you off, but we’re in the business of sex toys, so of course we recommend them! Joking aside, vibrators, cock rings and male masturbators are some of the most popular ways to enhance your orgasm.

two women kissFemale orgasm in particular relies quite heavily on repetition, so a vibrator can help speed things along for a more satisfying conclusion. Without worrying that your hand is getting tired, or your partner needs to come up for air you can concentrate on the pleasure. Our huge selection of toys offers something for everyone, plus we’re currently having our Summer Sale so many favourites are up to 70% off! 

AND the 31st falls on a weekend this year so there’s really no excuse!



Best Pick-Up Lines

Pickup lines are something that we have all experienced before. Whether it be a creepy one or a line that splits your sides and you then adopt as your own. What are the best pick-up lines? Sometimes, a hilariously cringe-worthy pickup line is the perfect way to bag yourself a first date or break the ice. So as an ode to the hundreds of pickup lines, we have composed a list of our faves.

Remember, girls, you can use these too… don’t be shy – sit back, grab a pen and paper and take notes.

datingtipsThe Good:

You might be asked to leave soon. You are making the other women look bad.

Fool proof. You’re sure to get a laugh from this one and probably a decent response. Complimenting a girl usually works well to initiate conversation and this one’s not too high on the creepy scale. Give it a go!

My friends bet me I couldn’t talk to the prettiest girl in here. Want to use their money to buy drinks?

Make sure you have some friends to point to otherwise this might backfire. You’re complimenting her and offering her a drink all at once; who could say no to this.

Your smile lit up the room, so I just had to come over.

This may just work, worth a shot. Let us know!


The Bad:

Girl, if you were words on a page, you’d be fine print.

Nothing gets a girl in the mood more than suggesting her degree of hotness is comparable to the fine print of a document… Right? Right?!

Where do you hide your wings?

Yes, you are referring to her as an angel and yes this is a brilliant way to lighten the mood. You’ll be remembered, that’s for sure.

Your eyes are blue like the ocean. And baby, I’m lost at sea.

Bravo! If you’ve managed to let this one slip off your tongue, you deserve a date just for the bravery.


Just pure filth:

Now we know these may not go over too well, but if you’re set on throwing some sexual innuendoes into the mix then we say go big or go home!

My name is [your name]. Just so you know what to scream later.

You know why I’m like a squirrel? Because I want to bury my nuts in you.

You know how your hair would look really good? [No.] In my lap.

We do not take any responsibility for what may come of the above pickup lines, we do however salute you if you are brave enough to attempt them!

So there you have it. We’ve given you enough to start off, but we know there are so many more amazing lines out there. What are your favourites? Leave us a comment and let us know – maybe someone will benefit from your wisdom!

How To Ask A Girl Out

Talking to new people can be hard and rejection is never fun, so we’re going to give you some tips to help you in your quest to learn how to ask a girl out. If you want to learn how to approach women confidently, the first thing to remember is that she’s a person just like you. She’s probably just as insecure and shy – she may also not be interested and that’s fine, but anyone who laughs at you for politely expressing an interest just simply isn’t worth your time, so swallow those nerves!

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How To Ask A Guy Out

You don’t always get what you want unless you ask for it – so ladies, sometimes you have to make the first move to get the guy you want. Not sure where to start? These suggestions will help you master how to ask a guy out. If he says no, then so what, he wasn’t worth it anyway.

You know the saying – you never know until you try. So try!

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Me, Myself and I- Being Single & Happy

Being single isn’t actually a bad thing. Yes it can be lonely at times but honestly, it is probably the best thing you can do for yourself. Being single for a while is something I believe everyone should experience. I’m not going to lie, it terrified me a little. But ultimately it was the best thing that ever happened to me. You want to know why?  I found myself, I figured out who I was as a singular person and not as a unit. I was able to do something, very few of us allow ourselves to do… I gave myself all I had to offer. I gave nothing to anyone else. For the first time in my life, I was completely selfish, and it felt great.

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Role Play in Relationships

Unleash your wildest fantasies with our exciting new range of super sexy outfits! Whether you’d like to spend the night in detention or fancy taking your man through his drills there is something in this new naughty collection to send your imagination into overdrive!

Bondara’s new range of fantasy outfits includes a Love Enforcement Officer, Airline Hottie, Sinful Nun and Sexy School Girl.

Role Play and Dressing Up Ideas

Sexy Police Officer and Escaped Convict

In this fantasy you get to embrace your dominant side and give your man the punishment he deserves. Dressing up as a police officer is always a fun idea, as the uniform comes with authority. Your partner is playing the role of an escaped criminal who’s been sex-starved in prison for several years. It’s your job to put him back in line.

Accessorise with outfit with a pair of handcuffs for even more kinky play opportunities.

Naughty Nun and Priest

You’ve made a vow to God, and in his name you pray, but deep down you’re repressing sinful desires. In this scenario you partner could play the role of a priest and you’re both in a place of worship. Suddenly desire strikes and suddenly you’re overwhelmed with feelings of lust. Demand that your partner give you the pleasure you’ve always hungered for.

Sexy Air Hostess and Gentleman Traveller

So many men are captivated by the beauty of airhostesses, as they watch their hips move up and down the tight aeroplane isles. Try indulging your man’s fantasy and enjoying how much he wants you. As a sexy airhostess you specialize in providing the highest quality of services. One of your flights may begin with a glass of Champaign and end in the mile-high club.

Naughty School Girl and Strict Professor

Role-playing as naughty school girl and teacher is hugely popular. For years you sat in classrooms as your mind wandered, and tonight you get to live out your wildest fantasies. Imagine you’re a naughty girl in detention for not doing your homework, and the teacher must punish you for being such a bad student.

A fun accessory could be a long wooden ruler, but always agree on a safe word before any spanking begins.

Hot Army Girl and Prisoner of War

Tied to a chair he watches your every move. He is your prisoner and you’re in control. Outside in the heat of battle guns are firing and no one can hear his cries. In this fantasy you get to assert you dominance, and he gets to let go of control. In this scenario which evokes BDSM, you can tie your partner to a chair with a soft rope and do to him what you wish.

For more sexy costumes visit our Costumes section.


Why You Should Indulge:

Introducing role-play to the bedroom has many benefits for your sex life. Here are 5 reasons why you should indulge!

  • Role-play is a fantastic way to get your creative juices flowing, which keeps you and your lover’s sexual connection new and exciting! Assuming different personas will also help you let go of inhibitions and experiment with fun ideas that may not arise during traditional love making sessions.
  • Engaging in role play is about indulging in a fantasy and letting go of reality. For one night you don’t need to worry about the pile of dirty dishes in the sink, or the stack of papers on your desk at the office, for that night all you need to concentrate on is arresting an escaped prisoner, or spending the night in detention.
  • When you and your partner participate in role playing, you get to sleep with a new and exciting person without having to stray. This new passion can reignite the spark of romance and prevent you getting bored and looking for excitement outside of the relationship.
  • Role playing also helps with communication, as it takes a lot of trust for a person to reveal their deepest, darkest fantasies to their partner. Fantasies and ideas should be discussed openly, until a compromise is reached that you’re both comfortable with and sure to enjoy.
  • As well as being sexually pleasurable, role-playing is also very intellectually stimulating, as creating new characters and scenarios allows for a lot of creativity and imagination. Role-playing can be very simple, or as artistic as you want it to be. Some couple even like to write and memorise scripts to be able to fully indulge in the fantasy. ­­­

What’s your favourite fantasy? Tell us about it in the Comments section!