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How To Give A Blow Job

Love it, hate it or barely have time for it; those of us inclined towards penis have wondered at least once if we’re sucking dick correctly. Just in case you’re not sure if you’re hitting those sweet spots, we’re here to provide you with some of our sure-fire tips on how to give a blow job. You’ll have his his legs twitching and pulse racing in no time.

  1. Stop thinking of it as a job

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Now, the name is misleading but it shouldn’t be a chore! If you’re not enjoying it, he can tell and he’s probably not going to enjoy it as much. So loosen up, let your hair down (or tie it back) and get those jaw muscles working!

  1. Add some foreplay to that foreplay

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Don’t skip the intensely sexy pre-foreplay that leads to foreplay. You both need a warm-up; a little time to get aroused makes all the difference so slow down and don’t head straight to his cock. Caress his body. Kiss it, touch it and tease him. Make your way down to his cock and stop. You’ll love the control of knowing his pleasure is completely at your mercy.

  1. Take your time

Nothing about a blowjob should be rushed. He 100% wants it to last a while and you will love to watch him squirm and enjoy every touch. So start by slowly grazing your mouth against his penis as you move your hand up and down his shaft (make sure he’s lubricated – whether it’s with a flavoured lube or your saliva).

  1. The main event

The main blow job is really very simple once you learn to read cues from his body. Avoid using your teeth (unless he’s into that kind of thing- most men aren’t) and start slowly. Move up and down, holding the base of his penis with your hand and easing his full length into your mouth. If he has a large penis this also helps you to pay attention to the entire length of him without choking. We advise moving your hand to the motion of your mouth and give him the best of both worlds – he won’t be forgetting you anytime soon. Keep this up whilst he gets harder and harder in your mouth.

  1. It’s all in the tip

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By now, you know how sensitive the head of the penis is, so why aren’t you using this to your advantage? Start by slowly playing with the tip with your tongue, gently adding your lips to the equation and teasing him by alternating between firm sucking and stroking with your tongue. Every now and then, if it looks like he is enjoying himself a little too much, put your mouth over the whole shaft and slowly suck. Then you can lead back up to the head – the anticipation will send him into squirming fits of enjoyment.

  1. Variety is the spice of life

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Change it up! Too much stimulation of the most sensitive parts of his penis will either rush his climax or overstimulate him to the point that it becomes unpleasant. Think about when someone pays a little too much direct attention to your clit! Plus, doing the same thing will tire you out and get boring for you both.

It’s time to get creative! There is so much more you can add to a blow job. Although you’ll start off slow and seductive, it’s always a good idea to change your speed and go a little faster when you feel necessary. You’ll figure out when to use which speeds. Deep throat is something that we’ve all heard of and a lot of us are terrified of, but you don’t have to be, because you don’t have to remain down there all night long to please him. Give him a few sexy deep sucks every now and then and keep that hand going so you control the depth.

  1. Get some balls

When you’re getting down to it a lot of guys also like their balls to be caressed, squeezed or licked. It’s all an erogenous zone so he’ll definitely appreciate it. Pay attention to his reaction. Some guys like you to be a little rougher with his boys than others!

 

So those are our favourite beginner’s blow job tips. What are some of your best moves? Leave us a comment- we’d love to know some of your top tips!

One thought on “How To Give A Blow Job”

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