M
ore than ever, people are exploring their sexual preferences and discovering double penetration. So, we’ve put together this handy guide to answer your questions about DP!
Keep reading to learn how to get down and dirty with this fantasy and which toys are best suited to doubling your fun.
So, What is Double Penetration?
First, let’s clarify what double penetration is. Simply, it’s being penetrated two ways at once. It can includes the mouth, vagina, anus and even the urethra if you’re feeling adventurous enough. (Check out our Sounding Rod Guide if you’re feeling daring.) Commonly, taking it orally and vaginally is referred to as spit roasting (imagine a rotisserie chicken!), but it’s still double penetration. There so many ways you can indulge in your fantasies of taking as much as possible!
Some are apprehensive about giving this doubly delicious practice a go for a few reasons, and it can differ between men and women. It’s often assumed that women won’t be interested in double penetration because they don’t have the pleasure-packed P-spot that men do. However, many women that partake derive satisfaction from it in other ways. For example, women have described it as an intensely stretching sensation or creating the ulimate full feeling.
On the other hand, men’s doubts around double penetration tend to centre around receiving rather than giving. Guys will often claim that a threesome is their ultimate fantasy but most shy away because they don’t like the idea of another man being involved. But, let’s make it clear, DP does not need to include three people!
Double the Fun
While for some the ultimate fantasy is an orgy/threesome, there is no reason you can’t explore double penetration outside of that scenario. Use sex toys, like dildos or anal beads and butt plugs, to achieve that “oh so full” moment with a partner or all by yourself.
Don’t forget, if you’re interested in doubling your desire with your partner, discuss it first. There’s nothing less sexy than third-wheeling! Whether you’re interested in toys or introducing another person, consent is key. Plus, you’ll need to work up to it. The idea of using a butt plug while your partner goes to town might well be arousing but if you’ve not prepared, you might find your fantasy falls short. Learn more in our blog about Anal Pleasure.
How does it feel and why do people like DP?
Women describe double penetration as feeling w-holey full and being stretched to the max. Whereas, men can engage on both ends; They can be penetrated orally and anally, or they can penetrate their playmate. The texture of anal beads and the tremors of a vibrating sex toy can be felt through vaginal penetration, adding a whole other dimension to the experience. Men also have the power of their prostate to drive them towards explosive endings. Some have often described P-spot orgasms as a whole-body experience and how they imagine a women’s climax feels.
Additionally, there’s an element of Domination & Submission and Power Play to Double Penetration. If you like the idea of giving over control and letting your partner fill you to the brim, this might be something you’ll want to discuss. Pegging can often allow you to explore both of these experiences so strap in to your strap-on and dive deep!
Also, let’s not forget that the ‘forbidden’ or taboo nature of this sex act can be extremely appealing. The idea that you are being naughty can be hugely erotic for the women and men involved. Sexual Alpha asked people about their experiences with DP if we’ve piqued you interest ๐
Many people enjoy double penetration for a variety of reasons and in all kinds of ways! If you’re having trouble tracking two willing males down, then let us help out with our huge range of fantastic sex toys so you can double dip your way.
Ash m
May 29, 2014 at 10:15 amGreat article, DP using toys is something my gf and I have tried to explore, but we were didn’t try very hard. The idea appeals to us both though so we may try again soon.
Horny Couple
May 29, 2014 at 12:04 pmRecently purchased some anal beads from bondara, the first time the wife tied me up and stuck them in my arse, slowly pulling them in and out whilst she sucked me. It was amazing! Looking to return the favour soon by putting them in her arse whilst we have sex. Love the thought of having Anal with the wife whilst sticking that big rabbit in her pussy! Have seen double ended beads to which looks really hot, having them in my arse and up her pussy as we grind against each other, I wonder if you could get ones that are long enough that you can both have them in your arse whilst you have sex? Maybe I’m getting carried away…
Sabrina
May 30, 2014 at 2:07 pmThis post defiantly gives me some ideas thanks!!
Beardy Bard
May 29, 2014 at 12:28 pmDP is fun, and this does look good.
Helen B
May 29, 2014 at 1:26 pmI’d be mad not to want to win!
Phil
May 29, 2014 at 1:37 pmGreat prize
Cheryl Kean
May 29, 2014 at 2:06 pmI would love to win as me and hubby need more spice in the bedroom ๐
bella :)
May 29, 2014 at 5:17 pmOh now that looks my kinda fun and a girl can never have enough toys in the bedroom ๐
john williamson
May 29, 2014 at 6:39 pmThere will be a buzz in the air tonight!
Beck
May 29, 2014 at 8:09 pmNow that rabbit looks really interesting. I think I should win because it looks like a great shape for my body. Good luck everyone
Lori
May 29, 2014 at 8:13 pmOh my gosh, I would love to win these. DP is the best!!
claire
May 29, 2014 at 8:29 pmthese look great & after almost 2yrs single my toy box could really do with something new ๐
gina
May 29, 2014 at 8:34 pmGreat prize!!!
Teresa
May 29, 2014 at 8:43 pmMmmm yes please! ๐
vicky varley
May 29, 2014 at 9:06 pmgreat prize, would love to win!
Suzanne Drummond
May 29, 2014 at 9:35 pmfab prize
dizzygirl
May 29, 2014 at 9:51 pmI should win because I could review both items on my blog and I’d mention that I won them from Bondara.
Christine Young
May 29, 2014 at 10:24 pmI never tried anal beads or a rabbit vibrator before.
james o'neill
May 29, 2014 at 10:52 pmReally love to get chance to try these
Ben Thompson
May 30, 2014 at 12:05 amTo rescue mine and my girlfriends sex life!
jan lynn
May 30, 2014 at 12:07 ambecause I have never been daring enough to try nevermind buy so this would certainly tempt me!
Sandra
May 30, 2014 at 1:01 amI should win this because I don’t own any sex toys and I hear I’m seriously missing out
Samantha Ackland
May 30, 2014 at 1:56 amBecause im not getting any as my husband is working loads and to tired when he gets home ๐ so this would be the perfect prize for me to cheer me up while he snores
BlackAsphodel
May 30, 2014 at 5:20 amBecause I’d like to experiment with double penetration.
Jamie Sumner
May 30, 2014 at 11:08 amDefinitely going to be trying this tonight with the missus and her dildo!
Gem
May 30, 2014 at 1:04 pmBecause I only own one set of anal beads… and DP is amazing!
Rhodri
May 30, 2014 at 1:13 pmMy girlfriends not very confident when it comes to anal. But she maintains that with the proper tools that it’s something she’d like, as I know one of her fantasies is to be as she puts it ‘compleatly full.’
I just hope that I can help her with this one day. Hopefully sooner if I can get my hands on these bad boys.
Jessica
May 30, 2014 at 1:58 pmI have never used a rabbit before. Or beads. It would be fun to have Hubby try them out on me.
Sabrina
May 30, 2014 at 2:05 pmWho wouldn’t want to add these to their toy collection!
Plus pupil in my toy colour!
Can defiantly see a lot pleasure
Coming out of these two!!
KnC
May 30, 2014 at 2:14 pmI’m becoming more and more intrigued with the idea of anal and have been thinking about purchasing a toy that penetrate both areas for a while… Would be great if I won this ๐ I could finally put anal play to the test!! Xx
Laura Pritchard
May 30, 2014 at 7:17 pmMy vibrator broke several years ago & I definitely need a replacement!
chris
May 30, 2014 at 8:04 pmim sure the wife would love a bit of dp ๐
trise
May 30, 2014 at 9:24 pm. It would be fun to have
Calvin
May 31, 2014 at 1:57 pmThe only DP we’ve tried has been with a strapon, this takes it to a whole new level!
Sandra
May 31, 2014 at 10:38 pmGreat Prize
Pete (@PeteJames12)
June 2, 2014 at 6:29 pmMy lady and I are still beginners at anal play and DP and haven’t even ventured far into products for anal stimulation. Winning these prizes would be a great way to introduce them into our bedroom experience. Plus, my lady absolutely loves the color and shape of these toys!!
Property Of Potter
June 4, 2014 at 1:22 pmI’ve never tried products that look even close to these! I think they’d be a lot of fun to test out and review!
Christine E Andrews
June 4, 2014 at 2:26 pmLeave a comment about why you should win.
having read the article above l simply can’t wait
Sandra
June 4, 2014 at 6:59 pmI would love to win this. Those toys look awesome!!!!
Alison Drew
June 4, 2014 at 11:31 pmAlways ready to try some new toys!! These look fab ๐
Fodra
June 5, 2014 at 10:19 amI should win because I really want to try an anal toy, and being able to stimulate 3 zones at once sounds really interesting.
lindsey stuart
June 5, 2014 at 12:16 pmI would LOVE to win because i have no exciting toys!!! i neeeeeeed some to spice my sex life right up ๐
josh
June 7, 2014 at 2:25 amLooks like loads of fun to play with!
josh
June 7, 2014 at 2:26 amAnd I should win so I can torment my other half in a few new ways.
Jennifer Rhymer
June 7, 2014 at 10:48 amI would love to win as I have nothing like this and need some fun in my life ๐
Jeremy Rance
June 7, 2014 at 7:08 pmThey are both good unisex toys that me and my partner would use on each other , lots of lube and slippery fun
stephen Todd
June 7, 2014 at 11:43 pmMy wife loves a bit of DP.
Sheyo
June 8, 2014 at 12:42 amI am new to exploring my body and would love the chance to use toys
Bitsen
June 8, 2014 at 5:46 amI wouldn’t mind winning. ;9
What a great excuse to try out some new sensations. Haha
Sandy
June 8, 2014 at 8:58 amI once had double anal with my partner and a toy then we moved house removal team lost our toy box .
So I should win because i miss that full feeling dp gives
Jamilah
June 8, 2014 at 11:53 amDouble penetration is fun and exciting and it feels different from having it in one or the other, I love when my bf uses my sex toys on me this would be lovely to try.
M
June 8, 2014 at 5:58 pmMe and my partner want to explore dp with out 3rd person… i need to win (we do)
Bernie W
June 9, 2014 at 11:17 amI would love to win so I can share with my partner as a present.
jezebel
June 9, 2014 at 11:52 amOh, I would love to win!
Iยดm on anti-depression medication, and oddly I need some anal penetration to reach climax. Bit strange, but life sometimes is…
Charlotte clavier
June 9, 2014 at 4:05 pmHmmmmm interesting. That looks like lots of fun. Two toys for the price of one. Fab ๐ xx