So you wanna take things backstage? Well, you’re in for a good time! A hugely exciting addition to your bedroom repertoire, anal sex offers a new type of stimulation for both partners. However, before you get started, it’s important to know how to have anal sex for the first time.
Anal sex is penetrative or external play with the anus using a penis, sex toy, fingers or tongues. Anyone can enjoy anal. Whether it’s girl-on-girl, girl-on-guy, guy-on-guy or guy-on-girl, a lot of us are at it! And it’s no wonder: intense stimulation with the thrill of doing something taboo is a massive turn on.
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The bedroom may be the most popular location (and don’t get us wrong, it certainly has its perks!) but what are the other best places to have sex?
Fantasises of the beach and pool are probably the first that spring to mind. While these spots are great for foreplay, in practice they aren’t so sexy. We’re sorry to burst your erotic bubble but getting jiggy on the beach will jiggle that sand into places it should never be. And the pool? Say goodbye to natural lubrication and hello to an infection.
For the main show, we recommend these five places…
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It’s a term rarely used by the BDSM community, yet ‘gimps’ have still managed to creep into popular culture. From Pulp Fiction to American Horror Story, plotlines have built a false reputation of gimps as deviant characters with dark motives.
Clad in enclosing suits and full-head masks, it’s not just the physical identity of a gimp that is a mystery. What do we actually know about the origin of the gimp? And what’s the appeal?
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Escaping the friend zone is no mean feat and there’s no single correct way to tell a friend you like her. However, if there’s one thing you’ve got on your side, it’s that you know her – so you’re already halfway there!
First things first, don’t panic! Getting out of the friend zone is tough but doable. If you need extra reassurance, this is coming from someone who persistently friend-zoned their boyfriend. If he can do it, so can you.
So, let’s get down to business…
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Without using Google, can you define anililagnia? We’re even struggling to pronounce it, yet it’s more common than ever. Used to describe a fetish of younger men towards older women, the old adage that ‘age is just a number’ is becoming increasingly popular.
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The saying may be that two’s company, three’s a crowd but that doesn’t always apply – particularly for polyamorous people. Literally translating as ‘many loves’, polyamory refers to those who have more than one romantic relationship at a time.
Sounds like cheating, right? Well, it’s not. A polyamorous relationship requires the consent and knowledge of all those involved. Nor is a polyamorous relationship about having ‘a bit on the side’ or swinging. Each relationship is intimate, trusting and emotional.
There’s far more to polyamory than meets the eye – and studies have even suggested it could be healthier for us than monogamy! So, let’s talk about polyamory…
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What’s the first thing you notice about a woman apart from her smile and eyes of course? If you answered with breasts, we applaud your honesty. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, you can ogle at them all you like, so long as you give them enough time and attention when the lights go out.
Before you go all-out on a google frenzy, take a second to read this. Ladies and Gents, a fool-proof guide to pleasing her ladies. Because let’s face it, it’s all about breast play.
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No-one wants to feel like their relationship is in need of some TLC. It doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner – if anything, your determination to make things work proves you do! The beginning of a relationship is always exciting. However, once you’ve been together for a while, laziness ensues and it’s easy to fall into habits. Even though this is natural, it can easily make your relationship feel like one of routine rather than love. We hate the thought of you feeling this way, so we’ve racked our brains for how you can get your relationship back on track – with an added Bondara touch, of course.
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Don’t get us wrong, we love oral sex – but sometimes it can feel a little lonely down there. Getting its name from the shape of the two bodies, the 69 is a move that lets both partners pleasure each other simultaneously. Think of the teaching: ‘give and you will receive’ and you’ll get the idea.
While your partner has probably been down on you before, the prospect of sitting on their face can still be a little daunting. So, this quick guide to the 69 is here to tell you everything you need and want to know.
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Blow jobs can be daunting, especially once you’re face-to-face with a rock hard penis. Unfortunately, there’s not a ‘one size fits all’ approach when it comes to oral sex and every man has his own turn ons and turn offs. It’s only time and practice that will help you figure out exactly what your partner likes, but to get you going and make sure you don’t suck at sucking, here’s how to give the perfect blow job.
On your knees, get set, go!
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