So we’ve all heard of cunnilinugus, or at least I hope we have! Guys if you’re scratching your heads right now keep reading or you may be single for quite some time! Cunnilingus is of course the act of performing oral sex on a woman; ‘eating out’, ‘going down’, ‘eating pussy’, ‘giving head’, ‘licking out’. Well a rim job is pretty much the same thing, but a little further south. Yes that’s right, a rim job involves licking your partner’s asshole. Playfully named ‘tuchus lingus’ in one episode of Sex and the City, this delight of the derriere is absolutely not reserved for women. Indeed, men can, and do, enjoy receiving a nice, wet rim job. The anus contains many nerve endings concentrated in a very small area, so there is certainly a lot of fun to be had. If you’re not experimenting with a little anal play in the bedroom, you’re missing out on one of life’s natural pleasures. Our sexual limits beneath the sheets are a matter of personal preference; to some a rim job is completely vanilla and would never be the headline act of sex. For others, analingus is completely out of the question and an absolute hard limit. The first rule of rimming, as with pretty much every kind of sex, is hygiene. If you’re not clean, it’s not healthy or pleasant for either partner, so jump in the shower. When it comes to anal play however, whether you’re using sex toys, having penetrative anal sex or simply slipping a cheeky digit in the backdoor, it’s always a good idea to clean up internally as well as washing the surface.
I covered douching in a previous Fetish Friday post, as a fetish in and of its self, but an anal douche is essentially a practical item used to clean the rectum before letting your partner have access to all areas. Although rimming is primarily concerned with surface stimulation (unless you’re feeling particularly adventurous and have a very long tongue), it’s always a good idea to thoroughly clean your anus and rectum before oral anal play to avoid any unfortunate instances! Another point to consider when preparing for a rim job is to shave the area (especially you fellas!) Now this is by no means mandatory, and heck, your partner might even prefer you au naturel, but I know if I was going down there it would be for one reason only, and that reason isn’t flossing! So what if you and your partner would like to try rimming, but are a little concerned about tasting tuchus? Well luckily, flavoured lubricant can be used to change the experience completely! With many different flavours of lubricant available at Bondara, you can enjoy licking your partner’s asshole as much as if it were a bowl of ice cream! We’ve got strawberry, banana, cherry, bubblegum, mango and many more. You can even use flavoured body paint for a completely different texture. What about technique? As I stated previously, the anus is very sensitive with many nerve endings, so pretty much anything you do with your soft, wet tongue is going to feel fantastic! Try lightly tickling or quickly flicking and swirling for a multitude of sensations. If you’re looking to gain a few extra points with your partner, you could try slipping a finger or two up there. As I’m sure you’re aware a man’s g spot (prostate) is located in this rectum, so stimulating it can be immensely pleasurable and result in an intense and powerful orgasm. You could also try using an anal sex toy for a whole new world of pleasure, perhaps even one which vibrates! Giving your partner a rim job, particularly one which involves finger or sex toy insertion, can be a great way to prepare for penetrative anal sex. The area will relax and loosen as well as building excitement! So why not give rimming a try? It may become your new fetish! Have a great weekend. 
