It’s almost Christmas, so we’ve put together a sexual bucket list of all the kinky things you should do by New Year’s Eve to start your 2023 with a bang!
For BDSM beginners and experts alike, we’ve stuffed this checklist full of naughty tips and tricks to spice up your love life.
We asked you on Twitter and Instagram what was going on your sexual bucket list for next year and what you still had to complete before the ball drops in 2022. It turns out you all deserve to be on Santa’s naughty list! We’ve got into some of your darkest desires below, so keep reading to have the freakiest festivities. Maybe you’ll add something to your own sexual bucket list by the end?
Climax Your Way To Christmas
It might seem obvious to some, but everyone has to start somewhere! So, introduce toys to your bedroom antics and add a little spice to your solo session or partnered playtime. Whether you’re a sex toy savant or new to the whole shebang, Bondara has heaps of things you can try.
Introduce a vibrator to your masturbation rotation and give your hand a break. From the most basic bullet and massage wands to luxury app-controlled vibes, there is something for everyone. Explore anal with our arse-tastic range of sex toys. Find the perfect stimulation for you and train your booty with an exquisite stretch.
While toys are great for foreplay and during the deed, why not try mutual masturbation? During our Masturbation Survey earlier in the year, 64.8% said they enjoyed their partner seeing them have a fiddle! So, lay back on the bed with your favourite sex toy and see how long your partner can take it before they pounce 😉
Dig In to Your Dress-up Box
There’s nothing quite like the thrill of wearing your sexiest underwear, so upgrade your undies and feel confident in your body in the bedroom! Tease your Dom(me) as you give them a peak of what is to come with cute bra sets, naughty crotchless knickers and bodacious bodystockings. If you’re into something a little more… specialised, Bondara has a fantastic range of fetish wear. Complete your bondage look with a full body harness or get decked out in latex, wet look and leather.
Or, switch things up and fulfil all your fantasies with kinky costumes; Have your playmate asking, “Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?” with our stellar selection of Men’s and Women’s Role Play Outfits, like the gangster costume. Not only does dressing up add an element of something new to your sex games, but it also helps you get out of your head so you can focus on pleasure and have the best ever bang!
Are You On The Knotty List?
Lots of you have added Rope Bondage or Shibari to your ‘To Do’ list for the New Year, according to our polls on Twitter. So, give your sub the sweetest Christmas present and tie them in knots of pleasure. We’ve got lengths of bondage rope in black, purple, red and pink so you can bind your partner with the prettiest threads. But if you’re just looking to see if Shibari is your cup of tea, then Bondara also has pre-tied restraints, including a collar and leash!
If you’ve already got your knot-tying patch, then delve into the world of suspension. Before attempting this expert-level bondage technique, ensure you’ve done your research and have got all the right bits and pieces, like suspension bars and carabiners.
Other than putting yourself completely at your partner’s mercy, rope bondage can be used in many different ways. Explore sub/Dom dynamics by keeping your sub in bed, and having your wicked way with them or tying their hands to themselves, so they can’t get relief without your permission. However, you don’t need to get down and dirty to give this type of bondage a go. Rope tying can be very relaxing for both parties involved. Take the time to decorate your playmate with aesthetic bindings and let them take a load off.
Please note: If you’re experimenting with any level of rope bondage, you should have a pair of Bondage Safety Scissors on hand for quick removal if and when necessary.
Have a Spankingly Good Christmas
Impact Play is wonderful for stimulating sensitive nerve endings and using as punishment (or funishment) with your badly behaved brat. Hold your partner in suspense by dragging a feather tickler or the delicate strands of a flogger across their bottom. Then break the building tension by giving them a tap, slap or spank with a riding crop or cane for a sensational sting. If you want something with a little more thwack, grab a paddle and cover more surface area, leaving your sub with bright red buttocks.
Arouse every sense and intensify your time together with Sensation Play. Scratch, scrap, and pin down your partner’s pleasure/pain tolerance with Wartenberg wheels or cover them in delicate drips from Wax Play candles. Combine this play with soft bondage like a blindfold to amp up those fantastic feelings, keeping them in the moment, never knowing when you’ll next touch them.
Deck Out Your Dungeon
Toybox out of control? Tired of having to hide away those bed restraints every time someone comes over? Most people have a room for their hobby… Yours just happens to be particular! So, put the D in DIY and turn your spare room into a sex room.
Invest in some sturdy, long-term pleasure with bondage furniture and take your sub for the ride of their life on a sex swing. Or, keep them in place while you dole out punishment on a sex bench. Make sure every detail is just right with our range of bondage accessories, including PVC sheets and erotic books or stock up on sex essentials with spare padlocks, leashes and hogties too!
Christmas Crackles
Are you known to be a live wire? Then our Electrostimulation toys might be for you!
Excellent for those looking to explore Pain Play or for users with low sensitivity, our shocking range of Electro Stim toys let you go with the flow and switch up Power Play in a flash. Sex Sparks, Bondara’s own brand, has toys for every type of user, from cock caps and butt plugs to rabbit vibrators that’ll add a supercharged thrill to your sex life.
Not for the faint of heart, this intense technique requires a power pack and some conductive gel for you to make the most of the tantalising tingles and pulsing throb from these powerful playthings.
He Sees You When You’re Fucking
From our submissions online, a few of you will be very lucky this Christmas, because some followers told us their sexual bucket list includes buying a sex machine for their partner. Now, we’re not saying we’re jealous… but we totally are!
Perfect for lifelike solo sessions or users with limited mobility, these carnal contraptions take pleasure to another level. Don’t worry, these machines aren’t just for those who like to ride; we’ve also got automatic masturbators that’ll blow your mind.
However, if you like to put on a show, these pulse-pounding powerhouses can be set up and set off, whether you want to watch or be watched!
To Infinity and Beyond!
When we asked social media, a couple of you told us you’d reached all your sex goals on planet earth, so now you were reaching for the pleasurable new heights of the stars! We salute you. Have fun exploring the milky way, you naughty lot 😉
Merry Christmas to all, and to all, a banging good night! Enjoy your freaky festivities, we’ll be back in the new year with lots of interesting and arousing stuff for you, The Bondara Team x
