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Five Fetishes for Lovers of Anal

Anal sex is awesome! Not only does it feel incredible but for women there are plenty of advantages that anal sex has over vaginal intercourse. When he’s going in through the back door there’s no risk of pregnancy, you needn’t worry about UTIs such as cystitis (so long as you don’t go from back to front) nor other gynecological issues such as thrush.


Having your period needn’t slow down your sex life and the guy can go even deeper without that pesky cervix getting in the way. What’s more, anal sex is great for men as well as women, whether you’d like a little anal foreplay or full penetration, anal sex is great! In celebration of anal, here are five fetishes for people who love it up the butt.



Let’s start light! Rimming (anal-oral sex/ ass-to-mouth) has become relatively popular in recent years and is perhaps even expected when going down on a girl. Much like the cock and pussy, the anus has hundreds of nerve endings so a slippery, wet a tongue will feel incredible! So long as you’re both squeaky clean there is no reason to fear “analingus” so dare to delve a little deeper the next time you go down on your partner.



Stretching can be something extremely kinky and visually satisfying but requires plenty of time and patience (and preferably an enema beforehand). Stretching is fun as you’re able to take bigger and bigger sex toys for even more pleasure. Anal stretching can be done with fingers, sex toys or an anal training kit. Such kits contain butt plugs of varying sizes so you can slowly open and stretch out your partner’s ass. Supposedly a slightly lose ass feels better than a tight one as you can go HAM without any friction.



Following on from stretching, fisting can be something very hot to try if you’re a real anal deviant. Once the ass has been stretched and loosened with toys and fingers you can gradually progress to four fingers, “the goose” and then a full fist. Vaginal fisting is pretty sexy and extreme but anal fisting feels that much naughtier. Being fisted makes you feel deliciously full and wonderfully pleasured as the knuckles and curves of the hand stimulate the nerve endings in the ass.



If you desire to be wholly and completely satisfied then try having all of your holes filled at once! Double penetration (DP) means one cock in the pussy and one in the ass but can be simulated with fingers or sex toys. DP is fantastic as you’re pleasured in your most sensitive areas; pussy (g-spot) and anus. A woman experiencing DP with two men may feel dirty and used or wonderfully desired – both of which are incredibly hot! A person with a fetish for DP may also be turned on by triple penetration (TP) which would involve a third cock in the mouth.


Ladies, pegging is a very fun and kinky fetish for when you want to show him just how it feels to bite the pillow. Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and fucks her male partner in the ass. Usually the man will identify as being heterosexual and only attracted to women, but that doesn’t negate from the fact that a cock in the ass feels incredible! Pegging can come as naturally as regular sex or it can be a very hot part of BDSM. Turn him into your obedient submissive and take his ass like a femdom queen.

4 thoughts on “Five Fetishes for Lovers of Anal”

  1. I can certainly recommend Rimming. We both love it and I like to get my girlfriend in the doggy position with her ass in the air. I then give her light licks with a nice wet tongue and the saliva runs down, all over her pussy lips. This gets her screaming with pleasure.

  2. Trying to get my wife to let me put my cock in her arse, only got as far as a finger yet!
    She tried a dildo on me but she was not very keen(I was tough)

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