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Fetish Friday – Fisting Friday?

We all know what it is, and maybe a few of us have tried it, but really what is the appeal of fisting?

Let’s just get stuck into this – elbow deep!

Why would you like to be fisted?

To some, the idea of becoming a human puppet doesn’t sound like a lot of fun, but to others there is nothing more arousing than the notion of being fisted. I recall a woman once describing to me how she longed to be an extension of her partner’s arm and how she fantasised about having his big hand inside of her.

Generally when it comes to penetration, the bigger the better, right? We all appreciate a big dick. Well, maybe not you heterosexual males, but I’m sure you’d love to have one!  So, you can understand that fisting is merely an extension of this desire for all things large.

At Bondara we see you ordering bigger and bigger dildos for all the more satisfaction. You want girth, you want length, and we love giving it to you! But what about when you want this intense sensation to be part of a close connection with your partner? Well, maybe it’s time you tried fisting.

As a woman, when you accept a fist you enjoy a satisfying feeling of fullness as you partner’s fingers pleasure you internally. During this experience a woman’s g-spot can be stimulated, though fisting is not always vaginal. Anal fisting can also be highly pleasurable and great for stimulating a man prostate, which you may know as the “male g-spot”.

Fisting can also be a highly erotic experience for female couples, as one partner is able to penetrate the other with a part of her body without needing a penis, and as a woman’s fist is significantly smaller than a man’s, fisting should be a lot easier and more comfortable.

Okay, so what about the puppet master?

People enjoy fisting their partners for the same reasons you’d enjoy giving oral sex or fucking someone with a strap-on. The giver doesn’t receive any physical sexual pleasure from the act but is hugely aroused by how much the receiver is enjoying it – which you could say is voyeurism.

Others enjoy having their hands deep inside the vagina or anus and being able to twist their hands around as the partner screams with pleasure. Having your full fist inside another person can also be an act of control or dominance as the experience is so intense.

Think you’d like to give it a try? Let’s have a show of hands!

1, Make sure your hands are clean! Just as you’d shower before sex or wash your sex toys before use, you want to keep everything nice and hygienic to avoid any infections.

2, Cut your finger nails and remove any rings or jewellery. Having anything sharp about your hands could scratch your partner, causing harm and maybe even a very serious injury.

3, Use a lot of lubricant! Getting something so large into a canal so narrow could be exceedingly difficult without lubricant. You’re going to need to work your hand in very gradually applying more lubricant when necessary. A silicone lubricant may be preferred as it lasts a lot longer than a water-based lubricant, and for anal fisting it may be preferable to use an anal relax lube to make penetration a little more comfortable.

4, Go slowly – trying to force your fist in straight away isn’t going to work and could really hurt. Start with foreplay to arouse your partner, relax the muscles and encourage the flow of natural lubricants. Once your partner is really in the mood you should begin by inserting one finger then gradually inserting more. When it comes to finally inserting the whole hand, tuck your thumb knuckle into you palm and slowly enter.

If experiencing pain at any point, stop immediately. Fisting should not hurt.

So now you know how to take penetration to the next level. We say two thumbs up for fisting!

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