A gentle touch of the hand, a stroke of the thigh, a kiss on the neck, a hard slap around the face… Wait, what? It’s Fetish Friday once again and this week may leave a ringing in your ears…
That sounds quite brutal!
Face slapping is a rather extreme form of discipline as part of a Dom/ sub relationship. The act itself is very personal and intense; being slapped reduces you, puts you in your place, and if it’s hard enough can even disorientate you… which you may enjoy!
For a submissive, completely letting go of all thoughts and inhibitions can be a welcome break from reality, so being told what to do and taking a hard slap across the face could be exactly the kind of release you’re after. A firm blow to the face is a physical representation of submission, humiliation and being owned, allowing the submissive to succumb to other pleasures.
When you first get slapped, hard, you should know pretty quickly whether you like it or not. I personally don’t like it; for me it ever so slightly crosses the line. It’s just too harsh, not to mention leaving red marks on your cheek which you may need to cover up!
What about the person delivering the slap, surely there’s something wrong there?
Come on, who hasn’t at some point or another wanted to slap their partner hard across the chops?
But it all seriousness, it’s about the attitude behind the slap, rather than the slap itself. The Dominant partner only delivers a smack because he or she knows that it’s fulfilling the fantasies and sexual desires of the submissive, otherwise this would be Domestic Violence Friday.
The Dom obviously derives some form of sexual gratification from this as well, and can enjoy mentally tormenting the submissive. Every time the Dom raises his or her palm the submissive will quiver with fear, not knowing when they’re about to received a hard slap.
However, don’t just assume that you submissive will like being slapped – it’s not for everyone! He or she may like a cane to the backside or being hog-tied, but a hard slam to the head is something different entirely. It’s probably best to discuss this prior, or starting off lightly and seeing how your submissive responds.
If your partner really isn’t into the vanilla stuff, and even whip to the thighs and clamps on the nipple no longer gets them excited, it may be time to get your palm involved!
Okay, this could be interesting. Any final words of caution?
Hitting someone very hard can cause damage to the jaw and even damage the brain – so be careful.
Otherwise, enjoy 😉