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BBW and Fat Fetishism

So this week Fetish Friday is BIGGER and better  than ever before as we venture into the super size world of BBW and the men who love them.

For those of you who don’t know, BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman (/Women) and is used to describe ladies of an extra large size. Now I don’t mean especially tall or muscular, but large in terms of dress size with a ‘whole lot of junk in the trunk’.

Generally these women are at least a (UK) dress size 16, but there seems to be not upper limit in terms of weight when it comes to just how big men like their women to be. Sometimes the fetish can ‘expand’ into the rather dark realms of immobility where the women are so big they struggle to get out of bed or leave the house and require full time carers to wash, dress and feed them- but for some guys that’s all a huge turn on.

The BBW fetish is very broad and men like bigger women for a wide variety of reasons, so let’s look at some the reasons why men like bigger women;

Soft, warm and cuddly

Rather innocently, a lot of men like fat women because they’re soft, nice to cuddle and warm to snuggle up with (generally if you’re eating excess calories you radiate more body heat). I read an interview with a guy who described how he loved to cuddle up with lots of warm pillows and blankets as a child and how this gradually evolved into a fetish for bigger women. In this regard a man may want to feel safe, loved, protected, even ‘mothered’ and is thus drawn to a bigger and more ‘motherly’ woman.

Ass and titties

A lot of men like large breasts and a big booty, but when it comes to BBW fans, they like women with XXXL curves! These men want breasts big enough to lose your face in and an ass that could take a pounding all night long; “more cushion for the pushing” as they say. Yes when it comes butt and boobs, bigger is always better.

Big, round bellies

Just as some men are drawn to breasts, ass, feet, arm pits (wait, what?), some men just can’t get enough of big, round bellies. Whether it’s the curves or the soft skin (due to being so stretched) there is just something highly erotic about women with large bellies. I read a story by a man whose wife would give him ‘belly wanks’, supposedly even more satisfying than a tit wank, she would engulf his cock in her flabby belly and fuck it until he blew his load in her bellybutton.

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Goodbye inhibitions

It’s true that women can be intimidating, and stereotypically ‘smoking hot’ women even more so. Some men simply wouldn’t want a night with a Playboy model because it would be terrifying. When a man is with a larger woman he can feel more relaxed, comfortable and less worried about his own body and insecurities. If the guy is relaxed and comfortable being naked with a women he can really let go and have a lot more fun!

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Thin isn’t ‘in’

Some guys just don’t like thin or skinny women; any sight of a rib or collar bone protruding through the skin is a huge turn off. These men like a bit of meat to grab on to and couldn’t think of anything less appealing than a runway model! Furthermore some men hold true that bigger women are just better in bed!

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So hopefully by now you’re understanding the fetish a little more, maybe you’re even considering trying super size yourself? Well let’s take a look at some of the sub categories of this fetish;

Squashing (dominance)

Squashing is a fetish in which men like to be squished or crushed by the weight of a very fat woman. Variations of this include fat ass face sitting, tit smothering, high heel trampling and large belly squashing. Often the man will withstand the pressure for as long as he possibly can, then signal for her to get off before he is crushed (or suffocated) by the weight of her body.

To some men the idea of being squashed, smothered or trampled by a big, beautiful woman really causes a stir down below, and some guys travel hundreds, or thousands of miles to be sat on and dominated by their favourite BBW models.

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Force feeding (submission)

Force feeding entails a man dominating a women by forcing her to eat, up to and beyond her being very full. When it comes to force feeding, funnels and even pipes can be used to ensure the sub eats as much as possible in order to gratify the Dom. This is sexually arousing as, just like in any BDSM relationship, there is an element of control and power.

The submissive will of course enjoy being dominated and like the feeling of being full and eating beyond the limits of what she would usually allow herself to consume. This fetish shares some similarities with belly stuffing, which I covered in a previous post.

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Gaining and feederism

When a person has a gaining fetish they become obsessed with the idea of their partner gaining weight. The feeder will provide food for the feedee (or send them money for food in the case of online fans of BBW models) and then record the girl’s weight and body measurements as her weight increases.

The bigger the girl gets the more arousing this is. The feeder is satisfied that he is responsible for making the girl bigger, fatter and ‘more beautiful’. A feeder will find it incredibly sexy when the feedee outgrows her clothes or is unable to button up a pair of jeans that used to fit her. Some feeders like to ‘grow’ their partners to such an epic extent that they’re immobile and completely reliant on the feeder to do everything for them.

Gluttony is one of the Seven Deadly Sins, it’s wrong, it’s naughty, it’s dirty, it’s delicious, it’s allowing yourself to experience pleasure beyond the realms of what is socially acceptable, and that can be highly arousing.

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So I hope you found this week’s Fetish Friday interesting, now it’s time to ask yourself; how many Easter eggs will you be eating this weekend?

Happy Fetish Friday!

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One thought on “BBW and Fat Fetishism”

  1. I’m based in the UK and did a squashing session with a guy last week. It was my first time and I was really nervous. Turned out he was a real gentleman and put me at ease straight away. Can’t wait to do it again.

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