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Don’t be a Drag, be a Queen! – Transvestophilia- (Transvestite Fetish)

I WANT TO BREAK FREE! I want to break free. I want to break free from your lies, you’re so self-satisfied I don’t need you. I’ve got to break free. God knows, God knows I want to break free…

This week’s Fetish Friday is about the fabulous world of transvestism (also known as transvestitism).

So what is transvestitism and what is a transvestite?

transv1A transvestite is a person who enjoys dressing as a member of the opposite sex. Most commonly a transvestite will be a man who enjoys dressing as a women. A man wearing women’s clothing is sometimes said to be “in drag” and referred to as a “Drag Queen”.

A transvestite is not to be confused with a person who is transsexual. A transsexual person feels that they have the mind of one sex and the body of the other and may take hormones and undergo gender reassignment surgery to become their preferred gender. A transvestite merely dresses as the opposite sex for fun or sexual excitement.

A common misconception is that a transvestite person is homosexual which in fact that is often not the case. There are many men who enjoy wearing their female partner’s clothing and have no interest in being with a man sexually. There are even notable famous Drag Queens and performers who are happily married such as Dame Edna Everage (Barry Humphries) who has actually been married to four different women!

Another memorable transvestite man is Chandler’s dad from the American TV sitcom Friends in which one episode there was a fantastic exchange between Chandler’s parents;

Charles Bing: “Aren’t you a little too old to be wearing a dress like that?”

Nora Tyler Bing: “Don’t you have a little too much penis to wear a dress like that?”

Although for many, dressing up as a member of the opposite sex is just a bit of fun, for others the experience is a turn on.

Transvestite fetishism is when a person finds it sexually arousing to dress as a member of the opposite sex. Transvestophilia is a fetish whereby a person sexually desires a transvestite partner.

In a relationship in which one (or both) partner(s) enjoys transvestitism, sexual play may involve one partner wearing the clothes of the opposite sex and maybe even dressing up with styled hair (or wig) and makeup. In bed they may act with unchanged gender roles or the transvestite partner may adopt traits more traditionally associated with the opposite sex.

Of course, not all transvestitism has to be quite as extravagant as Dame Edna… in fact, some men prefer to keep is much simpler and a lot more discreet…

transv3Panty wearing fetish is a type of transvestitism by which a heterosexual man enjoys wearing women’s underwear. The man may do so at home alone, in the mirror, in view of his partner or even wear panties outside of the house underneath his male clothing as a naughty little secret.

Some men even enjoy wearing a little more lingerie and feel sexy in bras, basques, stockings and suspenders. Actually, this fetish isn’t entirely uncommon and there are lingerie brands which exist to produce women’s lingerie in men’s sizes.

Some heterosexual couples may even enjoy wearing matching bras and panties as things get steamy in the bedroom.

That’s all for this week. Have a kinky weekend xx

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