Strap-On Guide for Women

It’s unbelievably still a common misconception that all women who sleep with other women don’t really like penetration. Wrong. Women come in all shapes, sizes and desires and nothing could be further from the truth. There are lesbians who love penetration and those that don’t; the same is true for bisexual women and even heterosexual women.

Vaginal or anal sex doesn’t always mean orgasms-aplenty for everyone and that’s cool but we’ll pretend for the sake of this post that you’re a lesbian or bisexual lady that has sex with other ladies and at least one of you loves to be penetrated. Got that? Excellent.

So, where to start? The world of strap-ons, double ended dildos, strapless dildos and the multiple other incarnations can be daunting at first but it’s no scarier than purchasing a vibrator and you’ve done that before, right? You’re here after all…

The first thing to decide is whether both of you will end up experiencing the ‘business end’ at some point or not. If one of you likes penetration but the other is not so keen, then a conventional Strap-On is probably best for you. A silicone or rubber dildo held on by an adjustable harness or even specially adapted knickers, a Strap On is worn by one person and used to pleasure the other either vaginally or anally. Easy. Hands-free pleasuring.

Of course Strap-On dildos are fantastic for couples where both parties like penetration; deciding who gets to wear it is often half the fun! But if you’d rather not decide at all, then Strapless Dildos are becoming increasingly common. Instead of wearing it in a harness, one end of the dildo features a rounded or contoured mini dildo that sits inside the wearer and stimulates the g-spot while they control the larger conventional dildo end. Perfect for dual stimulation and hands-free fucking, strapless dildos are brilliant for use between two women or ‘pegging’, where a woman penetrates her male partner. Strapless Dildos definitely take a bit of practice to get the technique right and make the whole experience the most pleasurable for everyone but it’s worth the effort. Besides all that sex in multiple different positions while you work out what you both like the most? Thumbs up. Some Strapless Dildos vibrate, some don’t, and some even have an extra mini attachment for anal stimulation, so whatever you’re into, there’s something to satisfy your needs.

Then of course you have Double-Ended Dildos (self explanatory) or something a little more unusual like the Chin Dildo! Team with vibrators, nipple clamps, lubes, games…the choice is pretty much endless.