There is an endless list of excuses for bad sex, but most of the time if you find yourself feeling unsatisfied in the bedroom then it is probably down to a lack of foreplay.
Foreplay is defined as the sexual activity that precedes intercourse, so in other words itโs the bit before you have sex where you kiss and fondle and get all hot and bothered.
Foreplay is beneficial to your sex life in a lot of ways. If you and your partner take your time to get each other well and truly turnedย on then the sex that follows is guaranteed to be much more passionate and orgasm is much more likely. Foreplay is also the perfect opportunity to explore your partnerโs body, get to know what they enjoy and what turns them on. This is a great way to learn what your partner enjoys and how they like to be touched.
Foreplay is different every time. Sometimes it can be fun and flirty and other times it can be teasing and light hearted or even intense and passionate. No matter what you prefer, foreplay is an intimate act that involves being close and passionate with your partner. So it can help to improve and deepen the intimacy in your relationship.
It is important to realise that foreplay isn’t always a long process. It can take hours or it can take minutes. It can be a long soak in the bathtub and then a full body massage or it can be a lusty glance and a suggestive kiss on the neck. There is no defining action that is called foreplay.
It can be soft touches and caresses, a shoulder rub or a massage, even simply kissing and holding hands. As long as it increases the sexual tension, sheโs feeling slick and heโs rock hard – then youโre doing it right.
If you find yourself at a loss for foreplay ideas then why not consider sex toys? There are lots of ways sex toys can be used to enhance your foreplay. For example, massaging wands or a mini massager can be used to relax your partner with sensual vibrations or tease their sweet spots for amazing stimulation.
You could then use a warming massage oil to enhance the romantic atmosphere and heat things up between you both. There are also finger massager toys that slip onto your finger so you can stroke and tickle your partner in all their favourite spots.
If you enjoy more fun and flirty play then you could try out a kinky sex game. There are loads of dice games and board games available that will have you feeling creative and often a bit naughty. Many games include kinky dares and forfeits that will have you both working up an appetite.
Playing a sex game is ideal for a confident couple who are up for some adventurous fun or want to try out something different.
One of the classic foreplay accessories is body paint. You can get body paint in a wide range of flavours and it is an amazing way of spicing up your sex life. Just use the brush to paint a trail of delicious body paint down your partnerโs body and then follow the line with your tongue. The soft touches and warm breath on their skin can be an amazing turn on.
If body paint isn’t enough to satisfy your hunger then why not try edible underwear? Yes, it does exist and no, it doesn’t taste bad.
If you are interested in some light domination or bondage play then try out a blindfold for feather teaser whip during foreplay. These accessories are ideal for light stimulation and are ideal for introducing toys into your sex life. Feather whips can create soft and tingly sensations that your partner will love and if thatโs not to their tastes then you can use the whip for some sexy spanking.
If you take your time to build up the sexual tension and arousal in both yourself and your partner, then the sex you enjoy afterwards is guaranteed to be so much better.
As long as it turns you on then there is no limit to what toys, actions or games you can explore during foreplay.
chris
June 17, 2014 at 7:42 pmwouldlove to win this
tony cunliffe
June 24, 2014 at 12:08 amhmmm tasty tasty bondage mmmmm
Cai
June 17, 2014 at 7:56 pmWould give me a chance to try out new things ๐
Danae
June 17, 2014 at 9:09 pmI hope I’ll win! I never had a sex-related game, and I’d love to try this one.
John Menzies
June 18, 2014 at 11:35 amGetting excited already
elaine dale
June 18, 2014 at 11:40 ammy husband is registered disabled so it is difficult to have a sex life so anything to enhance it would be great.
lisa sargent
June 18, 2014 at 11:42 amTo spice my 11 year marriage up ๐
melanie stirling
June 18, 2014 at 3:41 pmWe need new ideas,we’ve been together for 25 years!
Sallyanne Gooch
June 18, 2014 at 6:32 pmI’m a new mum, enough said.
Monika S
June 18, 2014 at 11:47 pmperfect way to build a tention between partners – i need that!
claire griffiths
June 19, 2014 at 9:10 amalways up for spicing things up
Laura
June 19, 2014 at 2:41 pmIm usually the submissive one wit my bf in the bedroom. We hav both wanted a role reversal so this game could help to to bring out the dom in me ๐ yes please n thanku!xx
trise
June 21, 2014 at 12:58 amwould love to win this
Ian
June 21, 2014 at 7:42 amLooks like a lot of fun
Phil
June 21, 2014 at 6:19 pmLooks like fun!
gabor
June 21, 2014 at 7:36 pmWow cool stuff. Woyld be cool to win it ๐
Jas
June 23, 2014 at 8:53 amlooks a sure way to spice things up a bit, hope we win x
Geoff Blakey
June 23, 2014 at 1:44 pmWould love to win this, hours of fun to be had & being Dominant my sub & I would put it to real good use.
shaun
June 25, 2014 at 8:02 pmGood
Jessica Rabbit
June 25, 2014 at 8:33 pmI love the waterslide analogy!
tina
June 26, 2014 at 6:59 pmlet the fun begin and hours of it
Miss JJs bitch
June 26, 2014 at 8:10 pmMiss JJ loves bondara and her magic bag is full of items which i have never seen but truly felt.
Suzi Hulbert
June 26, 2014 at 9:32 pmBecause I can never have enough of all this stuff ๐
abbee june
June 28, 2014 at 3:35 pmThis would be ideal to spice up things in the bedroom, my partner and i enjoy each other , when it comes to confidence we slightly lack in, so this would be fun to try new things and get involved with one another without alcohol being involved.
Tequila Rose
June 28, 2014 at 3:35 pmI should win this because I need something to spice up my summer vacation!
Debra Hainsworth
June 28, 2014 at 9:14 pmgreat prize
sammy
June 29, 2014 at 10:28 pmWould love to win this for the excitement , I’m exploring so many new toys right now so this would be a cherry on the top !
Rachel
June 30, 2014 at 2:21 amBoard game use could be spice of life.
Janine Atkin
June 30, 2014 at 4:18 pmMy boyfriend would love for me to win this!
Neil Waterman
June 30, 2014 at 6:14 pmHope i win this
kel preston
June 30, 2014 at 6:25 pmWhy should foreplay always be aimed at women? Sometimes men need that warm up too! Hope to win to bring that old saying “two can play that game” ๐
Christina S
June 30, 2014 at 7:28 pmThis would be great
PS
June 30, 2014 at 7:35 pmLooks fun
Colin Anderson
June 30, 2014 at 7:41 pmi need something to spice up our sex life
Bazza
June 30, 2014 at 7:47 pmWell this would be Friday night sorted
Michelle
June 30, 2014 at 8:20 pmLooks fun
Peter
June 30, 2014 at 8:45 pmOur favourite pastime in a board game ? Fabulous !
Property Of Potter
July 1, 2014 at 12:30 amMy husband and I don’t play enough games together. We could really use a little bit of unique, sexy fun in our lives right now.
Beck
July 1, 2014 at 12:35 amThe tweet was from the last giveaway. Doesn’t show the correct prize.
Games are fun to play together. We are always in need of couples time.
Karen Lowe
July 1, 2014 at 2:12 pmSounds like a fab prize ๐
Jen Lloyd
July 1, 2014 at 4:50 pmWould love a bit of help in this department ๐