We’re a bit of a nosy bunch and we LOVE finding out what you really get up to in the bedroom. It is our business, after all…
Our Masturbation Survey looked into various areas of our solo sessions. From how often we’re getting it on, to our favourite places to do it, and the sex toys and tricks we have up our sleeve. Plus, what do we think of masturbating if we’re in a relationship?
It turns out men and women have pretty similar ideas when it comes to getting off! Keep reading to find out all the results from our survey.
Highlights
- Most of us prefer the bedroom when it comes to masturbating. However, 44% of men and 31% of women have got their kicks outdoors! It brings a whole new meaning to becoming one with nature…
- Stamina isn’t on our minds during masturbation! 1 in 7 of us get the job done in less than 5 minutes, with 43% of men and 48% of women also taking between 5-10 minutes. If you want a job done well, do it yourself!
- 71% of men and 62% of women surveyed masturbate three or more times per week. That’s 156 times per year! If we’re spending around 5 minutes on each one, that’s an average of 13 hours every year spent masturbating. Is it just us that thinks we could beat that?
- A statistic we’re particularly happy with is that 95% of those surveyed agreed masturbation is acceptable in a relationship. Masturbation and sex are very different things, and it’s great we’re able to enjoy both!
Full Results
Check out our infographic below to see the full results from our Masturbation Survey.
What do you think of the results? Do you agree or are there any statistics that surprised you? Let us know in the comments section below.
Chintz Curtain
June 11, 2013 at 2:03 pmI absolutely agree. Such an interesting survey and pleasing to see that this is something couples are talking about. I’d be really keen to know how many masturbate together, though … Any thoughts?
Jane
geoff
June 24, 2013 at 11:21 amre survey. My wife and I masturbate regularly together. I love to watch her cum and she says that seeing me ejaculate really excites her
Mick
May 1, 2021 at 12:37 pmMy partner loves to watch me cum just as much as I luv to see and hear her cum and moan
VLM
June 4, 2022 at 10:13 amI totally agree. I love to watch my partner ejaculate, mmmmmmm, it really turns me on. He loves watching me, it turns him on too, we regularly play with each other. Makes us very horny and sexy.
Mick
May 1, 2021 at 12:34 pmMe and my partner regularly masterbate and cum together
Hannah Frank
June 11, 2013 at 3:36 pmHell yeah I agree, masturbation is not something that should be forgotten about just because you are in a relationship. It’s not slating the partners performance in any way at all and those who think it clearly have self confidence issues and should just speak up and ask honestly what the partner thinks of their performance. Couples need to communicate more regarding sex and this includes masturbation, technique and toys. At the end of the day if you don’t know what you like then how can you show/tell others.
Keep wanking.
Tina
June 24, 2013 at 6:55 pmIt’s hot, for both of us to watch!! xXx And be watched !! xXx
Jan
June 24, 2013 at 7:19 pmInteresting that there’s so little gender difference; I had a hunch that that would be the case despite stereotypes. Maybe the biggest differences are between people who would get to hear about a survey like this one and be willing to fill it in and people who wouldn’t!
Elliott
February 24, 2020 at 9:24 pmI’m glad to see research being done on this. How many people responded to this survey and how were they selected?
Gerda
June 4, 2022 at 10:41 amMasturbate is such a beautiful pleasurable moment, time stops as I feel the pleasure building in me, and if I’m being watched, well even better, I cum so hard. X
Benjamin Schwartz
June 4, 2022 at 1:47 pmWe do it together as well. It is very exctiting.
Ben
June 4, 2022 at 2:13 pmWe masturbate together as well. It is so much fun.
Helen
June 4, 2022 at 4:29 pmHubby as brought me a new glass dildo not had one before can’t wait to use it while he’s watching me then when I’ve cum a few times I’m going to make him cum while we watch the queens jubilee concert xxxx
Cal
June 5, 2022 at 10:21 amWow these are pretty interesting results. Im now in the mood to masturbate so see you in 5 to 10 minutes.
George
June 5, 2022 at 1:41 pmI agree 100% and my wife loves to watch me especially with a tgirl when we have a 3some she just loves to watch us both wanking infant of her
Stevie
June 6, 2022 at 8:49 amMy wife loves to watch me having a wank and she helps by squeezing my balls.
An OAP's view
August 19, 2022 at 11:30 pmI am 70 & still masturbate especially as it’s the only sexual pleasure that I get nowadays. It’s not easy though as I need some chemical assistance to do it. I guess it’s age but I don’t get as stiff or as hard as I used to & i’m not as sensitive either. The result is that it can take a very long time to ‘come’ That means at least 30 minutes and sometimes an hour. To try and get better stimulation I purchased a masturbator sex toy which helps. I get a prescription for Viagra which limits me to masturbating twice a week. I usually do it in my spare room on a office chair late evening, but sometimes in the bedroom in the morning. My body hardly produces any semen these days and I don’t ‘spurt’ anymore. What little I produce just seeps out. I do get good orgasm’s though which is a blessing. So to all you younger men out there, this is what you have to look forward too when you get older !! PS. When I was younger my wife and I used to masturbate together in front of each other and yes it’s a fantastic turn on !!
LM
August 22, 2022 at 9:48 pmAs an OAP I could write an essay on masturbation in my life but don’t want to bore you all to tears as you’re probably not interested. But for the record my wife and I used to masturbate together way back in the early 1980’s so it’s not something new. She said that she was wetter than she’d ever been and her clit was rock hard and I can’t remember my cock being so hard either. We both found it one hell of a turn on and had the most powerful orgasm’s that we ever had.
LM
August 24, 2022 at 5:29 pmI have read through this survey again and it’s heartening that something that was taboo when I was young is now openly talked about. I don’t know if Bondara will do a survey like this again but if they do it could be made more far reaching. The following questions could be added to the one’s above :
1. At what age did you first masturbate ?
2. Were you aware of it beforehand & who told you about it or did you find out for yourself ?
3. Have you ever masturbated in the company of : A) a family member meaning brother, sister or cousin, B) A friend, C) Your significant other, D) In a group environment ?
4. Have you ever masturbated over the phone with your partner (or someone else) via a voice call or a video call ?
5. Have you ever masturbated with random strangers over the internet ?
6. After an orgasm have you ever been able to continue masturbating to a second orgasm & how old were you at the time ?
You could also ask participants what age group they fall into, Teens, 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70+ although this would make it more difficult for the number crunchers sorting out the replies.
These are only suggestion’s but would be interested to hear what others think ??