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Going for Gold – Fetish and the 2016 Olympic Games

With the whole world going crazy for the Olympics this month it would almost have been rude not to dedicate a Fetish Friday blog post to this historic event and to the gorgeous athletes whom compete in these prestigious games! And writing this post is all the more exciting in light of the fact that Team GB are doing so fantastically!

However, when Google searching “athlete fetish”, you’d be amazed by how many search results I found for “athlete’s foot fetish”…

So, what Olympic sports are the most exciting to watch?

Gymnastics, swimming, diving, wrestling and hockey are all very easy on the eyes… and there is never an empty seat in the Women’s Volley Ball arena!


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Tiny Fetishism – Microphilia

I’ve previously written a Fetish Friday blog post about giant fetishism (macrophilia) which describes a sexual interest in excessively large beings. This week I’ll be writing about the complete opposite of that fetish; microphilia, by which a person is sexually aroused at the thought of being tiny or at the thought of other tiny people. A desire to be especially small can have masochistic connotations where as a want to be especially large can be associated with sadism.

(It is arguable however that macrophilia and microphilia are synonymous with one another as both fetishes are concerned with the same fantasies, just from difference perspectives).


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Top 4 Hottest Tennis Players

So, the finals of Wimbledon is upon us! We are tickled with excitement – especially when it comes to watching fit men and women grunting and wearing very skimpy outfits. You may not realise the sexiness that the sport tennis can bring, so we’re here to show you. Below is a line-up of what we think are four of the hottest tennis players around. Sit back, put on Wimbledon, relax and enjoy.

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Shower Sex: It’s Better When It’s Wetter

Why Have Sex In The Shower?

It’s something we have all done, or all imagined doing, but have you done it right? Here’s a play by play of the perfect sex scene in the shower and why you should do it wetter.

It’s hot. Let’s face it. From the warm water, to your soapy bodies and slippery hands, sliding all over each other, it just couldn’t get any hotter! So here’s how you do it right.


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How to have Festival Sex

Festival season is upon us and we all know that music, alcohol and general partying makes a lot of us feel like getting down and dirty. When it comes to festivals- especially in Britain- this tends to literally be the case as everyone and everything is utterly filthy. It’s not all bad though, because here at Bondara, we’ve got some simple tips for how to have festival sex.

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8 MORE Naughty Ideas For Your Summer Vacation

Last summer I wrote a blog post entitled “8 Naughty Ideas For Your Summer Vacation” which included skinny dipping, being the perfect submissive, sex on the beach, joining the mile high club, having a threesome, erotic shaving, ice play and living out your roll play fantasy. This year we’re getting excited about summer again with another 8 kinky ideas for those sunny months – all fetish related, of course.

So without further ado, here are 8 fun and freaky ideas to hot up your summer;


Inflatophilia includes all fetishes to do with inflation such as inflatable rubber suits, inflatable objects, inflatable sex toys and balloons (loonerism). This summer an inflatophile could have plenty of fun in the sun with a beach ball or even get wild with a lilo in the pool!


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Best Pick-Up Lines

Pickup lines are something that we have all experienced before. Whether it be a creepy one or a line that splits your sides and you then adopt as your own. What are the best pick-up lines? Sometimes, a hilariously cringe-worthy pickup line is the perfect way to bag yourself a first date or break the ice. So as an ode to the hundreds of pickup lines, we have composed a list of our faves.

Remember, girls, you can use these too… don’t be shy – sit back, grab a pen and paper and take notes.

datingtipsThe Good:

You might be asked to leave soon. You are making the other women look bad.

Fool proof. You’re sure to get a laugh from this one and probably a decent response. Complimenting a girl usually works well to initiate conversation and this one’s not too high on the creepy scale. Give it a go!

My friends bet me I couldn’t talk to the prettiest girl in here. Want to use their money to buy drinks?

Make sure you have some friends to point to otherwise this might backfire. You’re complimenting her and offering her a drink all at once; who could say no to this.

Your smile lit up the room, so I just had to come over.

This may just work, worth a shot. Let us know!


The Bad:

Girl, if you were words on a page, you’d be fine print.

Nothing gets a girl in the mood more than suggesting her degree of hotness is comparable to the fine print of a document… Right? Right?!

Where do you hide your wings?

Yes, you are referring to her as an angel and yes this is a brilliant way to lighten the mood. You’ll be remembered, that’s for sure.

Your eyes are blue like the ocean. And baby, I’m lost at sea.

Bravo! If you’ve managed to let this one slip off your tongue, you deserve a date just for the bravery.


Just pure filth:

Now we know these may not go over too well, but if you’re set on throwing some sexual innuendoes into the mix then we say go big or go home!

My name is [your name]. Just so you know what to scream later.

You know why I’m like a squirrel? Because I want to bury my nuts in you.

You know how your hair would look really good? [No.] In my lap.

We do not take any responsibility for what may come of the above pickup lines, we do however salute you if you are brave enough to attempt them!

So there you have it. We’ve given you enough to start off, but we know there are so many more amazing lines out there. What are your favourites? Leave us a comment and let us know – maybe someone will benefit from your wisdom!

For the love of Tattoos

Tattoos- we love them.

Shall we just be honest for a moment and say, we all go a bit weak at the knee’s for a hot tattooed hunk or a curvy girl with a sleeve! Tattoos are becoming more and more popular, and if you get it right, they can really give you an advantage with the opposite sex.

If you’re knew to tattoos and just haven’t made your mind up yet, this will definitely help you along the way, but don’t blame me if all of a sudden you get the urge to ink yourself up!

Lets get into the fun part, here’s a line up of some of the hottest hunks and sexiest girls with ink. Maybe it will inspire you…

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Quiet Guys

So you’ve had a mind blowing fuck and feel completely satisfied, but there’s one thing that is bugging you… he was quiet, too quiet. Well it’s about time you shut your mind up and stop worrying. Not everyone enjoys sex in the same verbal way you might (even if you’re not majorly verbal). A lot of people don’t shout and scream and express their enjoyment with moans and groans. This is something that shouldn’t dishearten you because I’m pretty sure he enjoyed himself more than you think!

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Game of Thrones 10 Hottest Moments

With season six of Game of Thrones so close, we thought it was the perfect time to relive the sexiest moments of the raunchy show we have all come to be obsessed with.

We all know that Game of Thrones is as much about sex as it is about murder, betrayal, gore and the fight for the Iron Throne. George R. R. Martin has done us all proud by giving us rafters of beautiful women and handsome men, with endless amounts of lust- driven, debaucherous moments. So let’s take a moment to remember them all…

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