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Fetish Agony Aunt

We’ve been publishing Fetish Friday for a long time now and we get quite a few questions from readers about their own fetishes. So….over to our Fetish Agony Aunt, Charlotte for some personal advice.

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Six Fun and Kinky Ideas for Backpackers

As I’m currently backpacking through Vietnam and hearing lots of crazy hook up stories, I felt inspired to write a traveller themed Fetish Friday!

So for all those of you who are making your way across the globe with your home on your back, here are six fun and kinky ideas for backpackers

backpacker bunk bed bondage

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The excitement of a stranger

From a very young age we’re warned about the danger of ‘strangers’; “Don’t talk to strangers”, “don’t take candy from strangers”, “don’t get in the car if a stranger offers you a ride home from school”…

But sometimes, danger is exciting!

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Big Boobs!

Five Fun Fetishes for Lovers of Big Boobs

So little over a year ago I wrote a blog for those of you who love BIG TITS! Now we’re revisiting the topic of glorious globes once again so that I can share with you five fun fetishes for lovers of big boobs


One of the reasons that we love gargantuan breasts so much is that they’re visually appealing. Men especially are thought to be more aroused by physical features then women are – they like curves; big hips, big ass and big bust. Boobs look great in sexy lingerie, bikinis, low cut tops… (seriously, we can’t help but look!) So if you go crazy at the sight of enormous bazookas, try logging onto a live webcam site where you can see plenty of hot girls showing off their fantastic breasts and if you’re lucky you may see a baby oil show!


Breast slapping

Let’s be honest girls, who doesn’t like it when things get a little rough in the bedroom? I mean, even if you’re more of a love maker than a hard fucker, rough sex is fun every once in a while 😉

Tit slapping can be a great addition to hair pulling, face slapping, erotic choking and rough sex.


tits1Nipple clamps/ weights

Of course the most sexual and sensual part of a woman’s chest is her nipples! The chest and in particular the nipples are an erogenous zone so paying plenty of attention to them during foreplay could really determine whether your partner is aroused and ready for sex, or not. (Some women simply can’t cum without nipple stimulation and others can actually achieve orgasm through nipple stimulation alone!) A great way to add some hot nipple ‘torture’ into your bedroom play is to use nipple clamps. There’s a fine line between pain and pleasure and nipple clamps are a perfect mixture of the two; the exciting feeling of pinched nipples with the pain that comes along with it (and the longer you leave them on, the more it hurts).

Top tip – if you’re yet to purchase nipple clamps but are eager to try this out tonight, use clothes pegs! They provide a lot of pressure (pain) and are thus ideal for Dom(me)/sub role-play.


Rope bondage

If you’re into bondage and BDSM then you probably like to play with rope every now and again. Rope bondage can be thrilling, sexy and in some cases like a beautiful work of art. A perfect example of the beauty of rope bondage being the rope dress which can be crafted in many styles to create a submissive and enticing look. But, have you ever seen breast bondage? Honestly I think it looks painful. The breasts turn red due to the trapped blood and almost look like the rope will sever them from the body… but even if you’re not a huge fan of the aesthetics of chest bondage, the physical sensation and mental aspect can be hugely arousing and a very sexual experience. For tips on how to correctly bind your partner’s breasts there are plenty of step-by-step guides on Google that can teach you everything you need to know for some titty bondage fun.


tit wankTit wank

And lastly, the tit wank! If you have a fantastically large bosom then any red-blooded male would be thrilled to slip his hard cock between those breasts and fuck them! For a time I thought this act was simply one which looked good on camera and thus was often featured in porno movies but wasn’t overly popular in real life… but that simply isn’t the case! Men really do like it. However, lubrication is ESSENTIAL. Unlike your pussy, your chest isn’t going to become naturally moist (well, maybe if you’ve just finished a 60 minute run your sweat will suffice) but otherwise a little bit of KY Jelly or baby oil can be the difference between uncomfortable friction and immensely pleasurable titty fucking.


That’s all for this week.

And girls, don’t be disheartened if you don’t have huge boobs! Any member of the “itty bitty titty committee” can enjoy the first 3 fetishes on this list and breasts really do look beautiful in all shapes and sizes! But if you want your breasts to look especially delicious, check out Bondara’s very kinky range of lingerie which will leave your partner SPEECHLESS.


See you next week xxx

Pictophilia fetish

It’s no secret that we as human being love porn. Ever since ancient man realised that he could pick up a charred stick and create images of the wall of his cave he’s be drawing willies, boobies and naughty pictures for the purposes of sexual gratification.

Now, with the invention of the internet, porn is more widely produced and readily available than ever before. Estimates vary but the internet could be up to 30% pornography and it is believed that the vast majority of us watch porn at least occasionally. In 2015 a study conducted by the Guardian revealed that 56% of people watch porn – but I consider that to be a rather conservative figure. In 2014 a survey by the Independent of 3,000 women announced that 90% of them admitted to watching porn.

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Fetish for Humiliation

It’s no secret that in the ever so kinky world of BDSM, some masochists- in addition to being used and abused- like to be humiliated. This fetish for humiliation is actually a pretty common one and can take lots of different forms. Rather than getting your fix from a regular Dominatrix, some experienced players even go to a professional ‘Humiliatrix’ for some seriously shameful fun.

So, for this week’s Fetish Friday, here are 10 thrilling and effective ways to humiliate your submissive.

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Superhero Fetish

It seems that today, superheroes are more popular than they’ve ever been- so this week I’m talkin’ ’bout Superhero Fetish.

Rather than hiding in the pages of comic books to be worships and idolized by nerds, these spandex-clad, muscular superheroes are saving the world in 3D, high definition on the big screen. Marvel movies have become extremely popular in the past decade with characters such as Captain America, Iron Man, The Hulk, Wolverine and Deadpool becoming big household names.

This year we’ll being seeing a few more big superhero movies such as Batman v Superman and Suicide Squad with Jared Leto as the Joker so there is A LOT coming for anyone who gets hot for a hero…

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Sophophila or Learning Fetish

There is very little written online about the fetish sophophilia, but this lesser known niche describes sexual arousal from the process of learning. Now that’s not to say that a sophophile is close to rubbing one out in Math class, rather, sophophilia, from the Greek meaning “love of wisdom”, is to enjoy the process of learning new things in the bedroom from a sexual partner.

So for this week’s Fetish Friday, let’s take a look at why it’s important to learn new skills in the bedroom and what skills you can learn to spice up your sex life.

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Cheeky April Fool Pranks

Happy April Fools’ Day!

In celebration of this hilarious occasion, here are some cheeky April Fool Pranks to wind up your partner – all with a kinky twist, of course. Remember, April Fools’ Day comes but once a year so be sure to make the most of it as today is the only day that you can wind up your partner without them getting angry!

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Fetish Friday- Happy Easter!

The weekend is here yet again and it’s only two days until Easter Sunday. So, what better way to celebrate the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ than to fly over to Berlin for the biggest leather and fetish event in Europe?

Each year thousands of people head over to “Easter in Berlin” which takes place in Nollendorfplatz which is a classically gay part of the city. At the event attendees wear leather, rubber, PVC, sportswear and uniforms and share in various fetish activities.

But if that’s not your cup of tea and you’re more of a chocolate egg kinda guy/girl then here are a few other things you can try this Easter…

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