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Lock Up! The Key to Chastity

It seems to be a natural human reaction that as soon we’re told to not do something, we instantly find it more appealing. Red buttons, hot plates, orgasms…

Chastity devices can be used by couples, individually and as part of a Dom(me)/sub relationship. For some, chastity is used situationally. However, for those who integrate it into their lifestyle, the 15th February is not just ‘the day after Valentine’s’ or Single’s Awareness Day, but International Male Chastity Day.

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Find the Perfect Sexy Valentine’s Gift

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching and, if you’re anything like us, you still haven’t found your partner the perfect present. Chocolates and flowers are nice, but vibrations and orgasms are nicer. So this year, make it your sexiest Valentine’s yet.

Our Valentine’s Shop is overflowing with deals and handpicked toys, lingerie, bondage and more that we think your partner will love. Below, we’ve selected some of our favourite pieces for him, her and both of you to enjoy. With something for every budget, the 14th February can’t come soon enough.
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Buying Sexy Lingerie for Your Partner: How to Get It Right

It’s nice to give presents. It’s even nicer when it’s one you’ll both enjoy. Unfortunately, buying lingerie is a minefield of erotic fantasy (hello, Angelina Jolie’s latex outfit in Mr and Mrs Smith) and disaster.

For something that’s only worn for a few minutes before it’s thrown onto the floor – hopefully with passion, not disgust – there’s a lot to think about. What size do you get? Which style will suit her best? Colour? Material? And if you thought teddies were just stuffed toys, you’ve got a lot to learn.

Fortunately, we’re here to help. Think of us as your lingerie guardian angels. Whether you’re buying sexy lingerie for Valentine’s Day, a birthday or a weekend away, this post explains how to get it right.

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International Fetish Day: The UK’s Top Fetishes

Every year, on the third Friday of January, the world celebrates International Fetish Day. Baubles from Christmas are replaced with ball gags, gift wrap is replaced with bondage tape and silent nights turn into moan-filled evenings.

Created to increase awareness of the fetish community, International Fetish Day encourages people to be more open about their kinks and sexuality. Most people, whether they admit it or not, have a fetish. Of course, it’s not something you usually introduce yourself by or mention in general chit-chat, but a way of discreetly demonstrating your support for International Fetish Day is to wear purple – so pay attention to what your friends and colleagues are wearing today.

To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re looking into the UK’s most popular and more unusual fetishes…

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25 Sexy Songs To Get In The Mood

We all know ‘Bad Touch’, ‘I’m Too Sexy’ and ‘Sex on the Beach’. Don’t get us wrong – we like dancing to them as much as the next person – but when it comes to songs that actually make us feel in the mood for sex, they don’t quite do the trick.

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and is the perfect excuse for some sexual healing, feeling and teasing. Turn up the volume on these 25 songs and get ready for a night to remember…

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Last Minute Sexy Gift Ideas

When it comes to Christmas presents, there’s always pressure to find something with that ‘wow’ factor. Well, these toys more than deliver! Give them something they’re not expecting (but they’ll thank you for!) with a sexy gift from Bondara.

We’ve hand-picked our favourites, for him, for her or for both of you to enjoy together.

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The Women of the FemDom Ball

‘A celebration of female supremacy’, the FemDom Ball is an eagerly anticipated event, hosted annually by the fabulous Madame Caramel. Three of us from Bondara were lucky enough to attend. A night we’ll never forget, it gave us an invaluable insight into the world of Domination and the perks – and pitfalls – that come with it.

The FemDom Ball was my second encounter with Madame Caramel. The first time I met her, I left feeling empowered with a new level of confidence. It was the same when we left the ball. It’s inspiring to be surrounded by such successful women; ladies who know what they want and aren’t afraid to ask for it.

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Our Top 10 Lingerie Picks for an X-Rated Xmas

We’ve been good all year (kind of), but it’s looking more and more likely that we’ll be on Santa’s naughty list come Christmas. However, with lingerie this nice, naughtiness comes naturally…

With sexy Miss Santa styles, red lace pieces, bows and more, we’ve handpicked our top 10 lingerie picks for an x-rated xmas. Looking and feeling fabulous shouldn’t break the bank, so all of these pieces cost less than £30. Undress to impress and make it a flirty, dirty Christmas.

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Our Evening at the FemDom Ball

If you’d have told me a year ago that I’d be going to a fetish party, I wouldn’t have believed you. However, on a Saturday night earlier this month, that’s exactly where I and two girls I work with were going. Hosted by Madame Caramel as a celebration of female supremacy, the annual FemDom Ball is an elegant evening full of glamour, gowns and domination.

Working at Bondara, we’re hardly strangers to bondage and whips. However, we had no idea what to expect when we accepted our invitations…

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