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Help Us Support the LGBT Foundation

At Bondara, our goal is to help everyone explore and celebrate their sexuality. Your pleasure, happiness and confidence is always our priority. This year, we’ve joined forces with the LGBT Foundation. We want to support the incredible work they do for the LGBT community, but we can’t do it alone.

Help us to help them by purchasing our Pride Luxury Rainbow Rabbit Vibrator. 10 per cent of sales of this limited edition toy will be donated directly to the charity. So, not only will you get a fantastic new toy, you’ll be helping an amazing cause.

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For the Love of Latex

Sometimes, it’s ok to be materialistic. For “rubberists”, materials play a far bigger part towards their sexual satisfaction than other people. With a fetish for latex or rubber, rubberists find themselves attracted to people wearing latex clothing, wearing it themselves or, in some cases, the garment itself.

A latex fetish is a subcategory of rubber fetishism and, as the name suggests, is a love for all things latex.

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The Practicalities of Pegging

Pegging: the sexual act of a female anally penetrating her male partner with a strap-on.

It’s no secret that male anal play can be extremely pleasurable. Dubbed as the ‘male G-spot’, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland that sits about 2-3 inches inside the anus. Stimulation of this super-sensitive spot, be that with a finger, butt plug or massager, can lead to intense pleasure and explosive climaxes – so don’t knock it till you’ve tried it!

But what if you want to take your anal adventures to the next level? Pegging is a highly intimate experience that lets the woman adopt the role of ‘giver’, introducing a new and exciting dynamic to your sex life that every hetero couple should try at least once.

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Lock Up! The Key to Chastity

It seems to be a natural human reaction that as soon we’re told to not do something, we instantly find it more appealing. Red buttons, hot plates, orgasms…

Chastity devices can be used by couples, individually and as part of a Dom(me)/sub relationship. For some, chastity is used situationally. However, for those who integrate it into their lifestyle, the 15th February is not just ‘the day after Valentine’s’ or Single’s Awareness Day, but International Male Chastity Day.

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Find the Perfect Sexy Valentine’s Gift

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching and, if you’re anything like us, you still haven’t found your partner the perfect present. Chocolates and flowers are nice, but vibrations and orgasms are nicer. So this year, make it your sexiest Valentine’s yet.

Our Valentine’s Shop is overflowing with deals and handpicked toys, lingerie, bondage and more that we think your partner will love. Below, we’ve selected some of our favourite pieces for him, her and both of you to enjoy. With something for every budget, the 14th February can’t come soon enough.
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Buying Sexy Lingerie for Your Partner: How to Get It Right

It’s nice to give presents. It’s even nicer when it’s one you’ll both enjoy. Unfortunately, buying lingerie is a minefield of erotic fantasy (hello, Angelina Jolie’s latex outfit in Mr and Mrs Smith) and disaster.

For something that’s only worn for a few minutes before it’s thrown onto the floor – hopefully with passion, not disgust – there’s a lot to think about. What size do you get? Which style will suit her best? Colour? Material? And if you thought teddies were just stuffed toys, you’ve got a lot to learn.

Fortunately, we’re here to help. Think of us as your lingerie guardian angels. Whether you’re buying sexy lingerie for Valentine’s Day, a birthday or a weekend away, this post explains how to get it right.

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International Fetish Day: The UK’s Top Fetishes

Every year, on the third Friday of January, the world celebrates International Fetish Day. Baubles from Christmas are replaced with ball gags, gift wrap is replaced with bondage tape and silent nights turn into moan-filled evenings.

Created to increase awareness of the fetish community, International Fetish Day encourages people to be more open about their kinks and sexuality. Most people, whether they admit it or not, have a fetish. Of course, it’s not something you usually introduce yourself by or mention in general chit-chat, but a way of discreetly demonstrating your support for International Fetish Day is to wear purple – so pay attention to what your friends and colleagues are wearing today.

To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re looking into the UK’s most popular and more unusual fetishes…

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25 Sexy Songs To Get In The Mood

We all know ‘Bad Touch’, ‘I’m Too Sexy’ and ‘Sex on the Beach’. Don’t get us wrong – we like dancing to them as much as the next person – but when it comes to songs that actually make us feel in the mood for sex, they don’t quite do the trick.

Turn up the volume on these 25 songs and get ready for a night to remember…

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Last Minute Sexy Gift Ideas

When it comes to Christmas presents, there’s always pressure to find something with that ‘wow’ factor. Well, these toys more than deliver! Give them something they’re not expecting (but they’ll thank you for!) with a sexy gift from Bondara.

We’ve hand-picked our favourites, for him, for her or for both of you to enjoy together.

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