Anal Toys

WHICH ANAL TOY IS RIGHT FOR ME?

--- What Anal Toy do I want to play with?
Anal play in many peoples minds is still taboo. What most people don't realise is that we have very sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus area which love to be played with. Most people will agree that it is intensely satisfying when those nerve endings are when played with properly. It's a total myth that only gay men play with anal toys - many straight men and women buy anal toys from us too. As with most sex toys it comes down to three basic questions: What colour, size and shape is best suitable for you? The shape and size will be decided by what you are comfortable with and the colour is down to your own personal preference. For anal beginners we recommend starting off with a small butt plug, a slim anal vibrator or a thin string of jelly anal beads. Always lube up properly when using anal adult toys - especially at the beginning.

--- Which Anal Beads should I get and how do I use them?
If you are beginner go for a thin or graduated string of jelly anal beads. If you are buying graduated anal beads start off with the small beads and then work your way up the string as you gain in confidence. Jelly and graduated anal beads are often also referred to as Thai Anal Beads simply because they originate from that part of the world. Most anal players tend to go for anal beads which include a ring puller or a handle at one end so that they can pull them out more easily at the right time. Anal beads are actually really easy to use. Simply insert as many beads as you are comfortable with before orgasm and then you or your partner will pull them out again at the point of orgasm. Pulling anal beads out of your anus at the point of climax will allow you to experience much more intense orgasms - much more intense! There are other varieties of anal beads on offer these days. The main difference being that the beads are either slightly bigger or heavier and the material may be different too (silicone or metal for example). Anal beads are very cheap and are definitely worth giving a try. For added stimulation we strongly recommend getting a set of vibrating anal beads. More and more women are using anal beads for vaginal stimulation too. It's no longer just a toy for the rear end! The beads can provide a delightful internal massage for both the anus and the vagina. In our Bondara sex shop you are sure to find the right anal beads for you.

--- Which Anal Vibrator should I choose?
There are a few things you need to keep in mind when buying anal vibrators. The first and most important thing is that you choose a size that you are comfortable with - baring in mind that you don't have to insert the entire length of the vibrator anyway. When using an anal vibrator for the first time make sure it's slim and that it doesn't have a wide head. Inserting a narrow-headed and thin anal vibrator will be much more comfortable when you're doing it for the first time. Secondly, when buying an anal vibrator, or dildo for that matter, make sure it has a flared base. This will prevent the anal toy from slipping all the way in. Don't insert the anal vibrator all the way in right at the beginning. Play with it externally first, around the anus area, before you insert it. This will gradually relax your muscles and allow for a much easier insertion later. It also builds trust between you and your partner. We recommend that anal beginners start off with smooth vibrators first as it allows for an easier glide. Later you can upgrade to a wider, ribbed and textured anal vibrator. Always use a lubricant when playing with an anal vibrator.

--- How to use an Anal Butt Plug and which one to buy?
Firstly, butt plugs are not only used for basic anal play. Butt Plugs with a curved head are ideally shaped for G-Spot massages (girls) and for P-Spot (Prostate) stimulation. But to keep things simple, for now, we will focus on the anal aspect of the butt plug. Beginners are advised to start off with a small or medium shaped butt plug. The regular shaped anal butt plug includes a recessed neck. The reason for this is to allow the sphincter muscles close around the butt plug keeping it firmly and snugly in place. Some anal players enjoy having the butt plug inserted before engaging in anal sex. This enables the sphincter muscles to loosen up and get accustomed to having something in there. For male users, during intercourse, anal butt plugs can stimulate the prostate (P-Spot) and bring about amazing orgasms. For women, butt plugs enhance stimulation during intercourse or oral sex. Beginners to anal sex should use a butt plug to get the anus ready for intercourse. Butt plugs are sometimes also worn as jewellery or as a play accessory. Remember to use a suitable lubricant when inserting anal butt plugs. Liquid Silk, Maximus, Golden Girl Anal Jelly and KY Jelly tend to be the more popular choices.

--- What's the best Anal Dildo or Anal Probe?
Deciding on buying an anal dildo is no different to deciding on buying regular dildos. The only difference is that you need to make sure that it has a flared base - so it doesn't slip all the way in. On cock and ball dildos the flared base is generally made up of a generous set of balls. This should certainly prevent any unwanted accidents. The other things you need to make your mind up on is size, shape and colour. Colour will obviously be down to your own personal preference. If you are a beginner go for a smaller size and a smooth anal dildo because it allows for easy insertion and a frictionless glide. If you want to experience more stimulation and stronger penetration you can always upgrade to a bigger and textured anal dildo at a later stage. Jelly rubber anal dildos tend to slide easier because they have a smooth texture. Cyberskin and Loveskin dildos require a bit more care and provide but they do provide a more realistic experience. They also tend to be slightly bigger in size. If you buy an anal dildo with a suction cup you can stick it to a smooth surface (walls, mirrors, etc.) and literally ride it on your own. Get one of those if you want to experience the ultimate hands-free ride on your own.

-- Why are Prostate Massagers so popular and is Prostate Massage it for me?
Prostate Massagers allow you to experience new sexual heights and when used properly they will enable you to explore the power or orgasms to the max. It is also a fact that when prostate massages are done regularly they can help prevent the risks of prostate cancer. Prostate play can be used in the form of sex or it can enhance masturbation - or both! With prostate massagers it's important to know a little about it before you start. Always lubricate before you commence a prostate massage. Before you insert the prostate massager you will need to know where the prostate gland is placed - as this is the part that you are going to be looking to stimulate. Your prostate gland is about 3cm in and it feels like a small bulb of tissue. Once you have located that you can start having a go with the prostate massager. Fully lubricated, insert it slowly and start to move it back and forth. The totally hands-free mechanism will allow you to massage the prostate easily and efficiently. Simultaneously, the arm of the prostate presses against a therapeutic pressure point on the perineum. This can be very very pleasurable too! Prostate massages can be done during intercourse or when masturbating on your own.